active rain: Take Action: Within Yourself - 08/08/20 07:18 AM
 
“Character is a quality that embodies
many important traits,
such as integrity, courage, perseverance,
confidence and wisdom.
Unlike your fingerprints that you are born with
and can't change, character is something
 that you create within yourself
and must take
responsibility for changing.”
 
~ Jim Rohn
 
 
Your action for today
is to reflect on a time
when you did the right thing
and one where you didn't.
Take time to notice the difference
and how you felt at both times.
 
The difference can be inner-peace vs. inner-guilt.
The pain of letting myself down-of eroding my character,
regardless if I "could have gotten away with it"
is not one I choose to self inflict anymore.
That … (27 comments)

active rain: Take Action: The Happiness Choice - 08/07/20 06:01 AM
"A happy person is not
a person in a certain set of circumstances,
but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes."
Broadcaster and Television Producer, Hugh Downs
 
Your action for today
is to focus on maintaining
a happy attitude for the whole day.
 
Faith-based inner joy and forgiveness are powerful forces for finding happiness.
 
"Optimism, Faith and Inner Joy
are what fuel my happiness.
 
Happiness is more than an emotion, it's a choice. 
But happiness can be affected by
  what is happening around you.
 
Joy is deeper, it's less common
and it's harder to steal,
because Joy is based on 
what's happening within you."
 
~ Thomas J . Nelson 2019
 
Design an extraordinary Day!
 
If you missed the … (18 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Become Valuable - 08/06/20 07:06 AM
 
"Try not to become a man *(person) of success
but rather try to become a man *(person) of value."
~ Albert Einstein
 
*modified for my 2020 audience 😉
 
Your action for today
is to contact one of your clients or customers
regarding something unrelated
to your product or service
that would add value to their lives.
 
 
This has been the single most effective
"secret to my success".
Less than 20% of your competition stays in touch!
Staying in touch between transactions,
  remaining a helpful resource and being a voice of value.
In many cases, becomming friends or
at least friendly-familiar
in the process with my SOLD clients.
 
This is where … (11 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Climb - 08/05/20 08:45 AM
 
"The man on top of the mountain didn't fall there."
An Unknown Author
 
 
Your action for today is
to think about one of your greatest achievements
and reflect on what it took for you to get there.
 
Remind yourself and inspire yourself
with your own story and allow it to remind you...
"I did it before, I can do it again!"
 
 
Design an extraordinary Day!
 
If you missed the previous “Take Action” post:
Take Action: Empty Your Purse
 
More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here:
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active rain: Take Action: Empty Your Purse - 08/04/20 05:47 AM

 
"If a man empties his purse into his head,
no one can take it from him.
An investment in knowledge
always pays the highest return."
~ Benjamin Franklin
 
Your action for today
is to check your credit card statements
or your check register
to see if you have recently
invested in your education.
 
I discovered this quote in 1995 and took it to heart.
I invest in my education annually with a new training program,
(typically a Ninja Selling, Darren Hardy, Jim Rohn or Brian Buffini creation),
monthly with a new self-development or history book to read,
then daily through my coaching with Buffini & Company 
and my reading and interactions here in The … (24 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Hindsight 2020 - 08/03/20 06:01 AM
"Experience is a hard teacher
because she gives the test first,
the lesson afterwards."
~ Former Pitcher, Vernon Sanders Law
 
Your action for today
is to think of something you
would do differently in hindsight
and what lesson did that experience teach you.
 
 
My coach used to say, "You already paid the price,
you might as well learn the lesson and get you money's worth!"
 
Design an extraordinary Day!
 
If you missed the previous “Take Action” post:
Take Action: Keep Them
 
More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here:
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We work 100% By Referral!
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active rain: Take Action: Keep Them - 08/02/20 08:23 AM

 
"There are two types of people,
those who make commitments
and those who keep them."
~ John Adams
 
Your action for today
is to think of one commitment you have made
but so far have not yet kept,
and do what you can to keep it.
 
Design an extraordinary Sunday!
 
If you missed the previous “Take Action” post:
Take Action: Against Clickbait
 
More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here:
Postcards From Success Facebook Page
 
 
 
We work 100% By Referral!
Our experienced team is Buffini & Company Trained and Coached
and all our properties come with 3D Virtual Tours
and Professional Photography, Marketing and Negotiating Skills.
Contact us for a pressure-FREE consultation.
 
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active rain: Take Action: Against Clickbait - 08/01/20 06:11 AM
 
"It's easy to get people's attention;
what counts is getting their interest."
~ Civil Rights Activist, Philip Randolph
 
Your action for today
is to see if you can capture someone's interest.
 
 
It's tempting to suck people in with a sensationalized title;
but, can you hold them with your subject matter?
Researched facts, writing style and subject matter count if
you want readers not clicks. Comments not "likes".
 
Design an extraordinary Saturday/Weekend!
 
If you missed the previous “Take Action” post:
Take Action: Light Their Fire! 
 
More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here:
 
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active rain: Take Action: Light Their Fire! - 07/31/20 09:07 AM
 
"Managers light a fire under people;
  
leaders light a fire in people."
~ Management Consultant Kathy Austin
 
 
 
Your action for today is
to see if you can light a fire
in a co-worker, friend or family member.
 
Design an extraordinary T.G.I.Friday!
 
If you missed the previous “Take Action” post:
Take Action: Love People
 
More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here:
 
Our Postcards From Success Facebook Page
 
Our experienced team is Buffini & Company Trained and Coached
and all our properties come with 3D Virtual Tours and Professional Photography, Marketing and Negotiating Skills.
Contact us for a pressure-FREE consultation.
We work 100% By Referral!
 
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active rain: Take Action: Love People - 07/30/20 08:29 AM
"We too often love things and use people
when we should use things and love people."
An Unknown Author
 
Your action for today
is to contact a friend or family member
and tell them you love them.
 
I'll be calling my son who's 22,
attending Sac State,
working as a security guard for the campus,
and always "too busy" to call Dad.
🎵...and the Cat's in the Craddle and the Silver Spoon...🎶
 
Design an extraordinary Thursday!
 
If you missed the previous “Take Action” post:
Take Action: HELP!
 
More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here:
 
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active rain: Take Action: Seek the Truth - 07/28/20 06:14 AM
 
"In seeking truth you have to get both sides of a story."
~ Broadcaster, Walter Cronkite
 
Your action for today is to revisit a situation
where you made some conclusions about something
or someone that may not be totally accurate
because you didn't have all the facts.
 
 
My trusted holistic healer / nutritionist
I used to think performed a charlatan's voodoo.
It looked ridiculous and fake to the skeptical eye.
But, once I got to understand energy healing
I completely retracted my suspicions and now
heal 3 times faster through her than my doctor
when sick or afflicted.
 
"We got to learn how to listen, before we learn to talkWe got to … (9 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Learn The Lesson - 07/27/20 03:40 PM
 
"Here's the key to being free from the stranglehold
of past failures and mistakes: 
learn the lesson and forget the details."
An Unknown Author
 
Your action for today is to reflect on a lesson
you've learned from a past mistake.
 
 
 
One lesson for me to learn from was: dwelling on the past.
It's a mistake to miss your
present by dwelling on your past.
Past mistakes, loses, past relationships and
past  "used to be's" .
Learning to improvise, adapt and overcome 
afforded me surving my past mistakes
and traumas; eventually thriving
 in the "new normal".
Weed your garden, make room for the blooms!
 
I discuss that more here:
Improvise, Adapt and Overcome
 
If … (6 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Enjoy How Bad You Are - 07/25/20 08:32 AM
"If you can't learn to do something well,
 
learn to enjoy doing it badly."
~ Baseball Analyst, Bill James
 
Your action for today is to identify something
that you're not very good at,
and by looking at it with a new perspective
find something to like about it.
 
 
 
For me that is the absolute joy I get from
playing guitar and drums.
 
I play daily, and I'm amazing...
...ly mediocre 😂🤣😂
 
But what a JOY! it is to learn and make music, 
even when I'm my only audience.
 
If you missed the previous “Take Action” post:
 
Take Action: Be Nice 
 
Design an extraordinary Weekend!
 
 
More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here:
 
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active rain: Take Action: Be Nice - 07/24/20 08:37 AM
 
"It is nice to be important, but it is more important to be nice."
 
An Unknown Author
 
 
Your action for today is to write
a thank you card or note to someone.
 
 
I have received 3 personal notes in 20 years
from Brian Buffini of Buffini & Company and each made my day.
 
 
I have written over 7,000 personal notes in my real estate career.
I know my number because I've documented them in my CRM, along with calls, pop-bys and client parties.
 
When you write a note to someone, the question to ask yourself
is how can I bless this person's day?
 
When they read it, it should warm them … (9 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Not Words - 07/23/20 02:52 AM
 
"Small deeds done are better than great deeds planned."
~ Clergyman, Peter Marshall
 
Your action for today is to do something
that helps the environment,
such as using less water, 
or bringing your own mug
when you buy coffee at a coffee shop.
 
We stopped buying bottled water 12 years ago.
We use a local well, water delivery service out of Santee, CA
and we invested in metal hiking canteens
and lets face it,
title companies always give away hard-plastic water bottles.
 
No more trashing Mother Nature's fine work -
with mostly non-recyclable plastic throw away bottles.
 
If you missed the previous Take Action post: 
 
Take Action: Balancing
 
 
Design an extraordinary Thursday!
 
 
More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes … (2 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Balancing - 07/22/20 05:22 AM
 
 
"Life is like riding a bike.
It is impossible to maintain your balance
while standing still."
 
Author, Linda Brakeall
 
Your action for today is to take a specific action
that will help you experience
a greater sense of balancing.
 
Truly, it is never "100% in balance"-a destination you arrive at in life,
it's a constant action towards and awareness of balancing
and understanding that something is always in need of attention
and being at peace with that, because...that's just life.
 
 
For me it's goal setting,
scheduling those goals in my daily planner
and time blocking in the 5 Major Circles of Life.
 
courtesy of Buffini & Company 
 
You can't just write them … (8 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Sweat! - 07/21/20 07:31 AM
 
"Luck is a dividend of sweat.
The more you sweat, the luckier you get."
McDonald's Founder, Ray Kroc
 
Your action for today is to think of an area in your life,
either personal or professional,
where you can put forth more effort to achieve better results.
My professional concentrated effort is in better communication
than expected with my clients.
 
My personal concentrated effort is focused on my health
this year: conscious food choices and an exercise plan.
 
How about you?
 
If you missed the previous Take Action post:  
 Take Action: Be Happy!
 
Design an extraordinary Tuesday!
 
More joyful stories, photos, antidotes, quotes and inspiration found here:
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active rain: Now is the Perfect Time for Homeowners to Sell - 07/21/20 07:16 AM
 
Now is the perfect time for homeowners to sell...
Buyers are back looking for homes and entering the (almost) post-Covid housing market, while sellers over all are enjoying a robust and competitive market. However, I'll caution you here in San Diego that move-in-ready sells quicker in most areas of our county, much faster than homes with deferred maintenance.
 
The housing market is experiencing a mini-boom that will last, perhaps, until the end of 2020 and into 2021. As a homeowner and to the real estate professionals out there, you need to take advantage of this demand. You have equity in your home, you … (7 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Be Happy - 07/20/20 02:21 PM
 
 
 
"If you can't help it, don't think about it."
Actor, Carmel Myers
 
Your action for today is to take a situation
that has you worried.
See if there is some action you can take to address it.
If there is, take it.
If there isn't, let it go and focus on something else.
 
"Worry is a payment we make in advance
towards a debt that is seldom collected."
~ Unknown
 
 
If you missed the previous Take Action post:  
Take Action: Take The First Step
 
Design an extraordinary Monday!
 
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active rain: Take Action: Take The First Step - 07/19/20 01:29 AM
"Faith is taking the first step
even when you don't see the whole staircase."
An Unknown Author
 
Your action for today is to take a step
towards one of your BHAGs
- that's a Big, Hairy, Audacious Goal!
 
 
I just joined Noom
and got a weight loss coach (step 1),
my BHAG is
50LBs down by Valentine's Day 2021
 
There it is ...it's out there.
 
What about you?
 
 
If you missed the previous Take Action post:  
 
Take Action: Be The Bean
 
Design an extraordinary Sunday!
 
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La Jolla, CA

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