thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Whiskey's Wisdom: Your Memory - 11/30/23 07:10 AM
"Blessed are those...
who can give without remembering
and take without forgetting."
Writer, Elizabeth Bibesco
 
Your action for today
is to send a thank you card
to someone who has
recently helped you.
Design An Extraordinary Day!
 
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thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Work With An Expert Not A Salesperson - 11/16/23 10:00 AM
Times are changing and the skillsets you posses (and more importantly convey) are going to be your bridge from surviving 2023 to thriving in 2024 as we move through the 2023-2024 era of inflation, recession, bank failures, the interest rates rollercoaster and a billion dollar+ NAR lawsuit that will be ultimately be challenging if not changing how you get paid-at least as a selling agent.

We are salespeople and we should be proud of that. Nothing happens economically in this world until a sale happens. We move money, create jobs, resolve problems, serve people, and connect needs & wants with solutions and … (21 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Aloha! - 11/16/23 09:07 AM
I have spent years vacationing and part-time living on Maui, Hawai'i. Whenever I'm there, inevitably people in service, neighbors and strangers will say "Aloha!" (hello, goodbye, love)or "Mahalo" (thank you). I never get pissed off and yell back - "I'm not Hawai'ian!". In fact I accept it as their culture being shared with me, they are greeting me in their own way. "When in Rome".
Between Halloween and New Year's Day, we're in the Holiday Season - something like 14 different holidays are celebrated in Q4. If somebody says Happy Holidays to me I'll typically reply with the appropriate holiday greeting I … (11 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Whiskey's Wisdom: No! Not Yet! - 11/14/23 05:28 PM
"It is always too soon to quit."
~ Author, Norman Vincent Peale

Throwback to April 2022
Your action for today
is to see if there is something
you are considering quitting
and put in double the effort instead.
I almost quit something in 2019
that would have changed my life forever.
I hung in there, even though it was harder to do so
and because I did...
I changed my life forever -
for the so, so much better!
Never Quit.
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thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: EASY MONEY? - 11/06/23 05:37 PM
Easy Money?
Opportunity Is Missed By Most People Because
It Is Dressed in Overalls and Looks Like Work 
- Thomas Edison
I’ve been a paper boy, a caddy, a grocery clerk, a delivery man, a sheet metal worker, a bookstore clerk, a DJ, a house painter, a handy man, a property manager and a REALTOR®. I enjoyed parts of each job or career, and I hated certain parts of each too. One thing I’ll share, is none of it, from minimum wage to no-income-ceiling was easy money but some of it was fun money. I had fun at all of these jobs and businesses … (22 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Whiskey's Wisdom: Sweat The Small Stuff - 11/05/23 07:34 AM
"Success is the sum of small efforts,
repeated day in and day out."
~ Best Selling Author, Robert Collier



Your action for today
is to make a commitment
to write a personal note per day
for the next week.
Whiskey made me commit
to 30 notes in November:
one per day.

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thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Whiskey's Wisdom: Gift Horses - 11/03/23 01:32 PM
"He who receives a gift doesn't measure it."
African Proverb

 
Your action for today...
is to spend a few minutes reflecting
on some of the gifts you have in your life.
 
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thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Whiskey's Wisdom: The Extraordinary Reflection In The Mirror - 10/25/23 07:52 AM
"When one man, for whatever reason,
has the opportunity to lead an extraordinary life,
he has no right to keep it to himself."
International Explorer, Jacques Cousteau

Your action for today is
to think of someone who has
done something extraordinary
and see how it has influenced you.

Whiskey adds: "We don't all need to climb Mount Everest
or have explored the depths of the ocean,
to have lead an extraordinary life. 
There are parents, teachers and first responders
that accomplish the extraordinary often -
it may not make the news but it
certainly made a difference!"
Design An Extraordinary Day!
 
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thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Whiskey's Wisdom: A Mirror Not Binoculars - 10/20/23 07:50 AM
"Success is peace of mind
in knowing you did your best."
~ College Basketball Coach, John Wooden


Your action for today
is to reflect on
your own definition of success
and on a scale of 1 to 10
(with 10 being right on)
gauge where you are
on your path to success.
Remember, we each have
our own definition of success;
therefore we reflect in a mirror
not  through binoculars
comparing ourselves to anyone else.
Your journey is your own to own.


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thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: 5 Things a REALTOR Can Do in the Fourth Quarter - Ninja Style - 10/02/23 03:27 PM
Top 5 Things a REALTOR Can Do in the Fourth Quarter - The Ninja Selling Way
As a real estate professional, the fourth quarter of 2023 is a critical time to close out the year strong and set the stage for success in the coming year. To thrive in the real estate market, it's essential to embrace the Ninja Selling philosophy, which emphasizes building relationships, providing exceptional service, and achieving sustainable success. In the spirit of Larry Kendall's Ninja Selling approach, we'll explore the top 5 things a REALTOR can do in the fourth quarter to finish the year on a high … (22 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Rainmakers VS. Deal-Makers: Both Are Required For Your Success - 09/30/23 08:55 AM
Thank you to Peter Mohylsky, Beach Expert who asked the question this morning:
"Working on your business vs working in your business. How do you define each? Who started this idea? How do you keep them straight?"
Excellent questions and there is a very important distinction!
Well, let me tell you, my friend, there's a world of difference between working on your business and working in your business, and it's a distinction that every entrepreneur needs to understand. As I replied to Peter:
"Who started it really doesn't matter as much as who's imparted it on you in a way that reached you, caused you … (9 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Boots Beat Browsers - 09/23/23 08:27 AM
APP/Web Generated Housing Value
vs. Your Local REALTOR®
There's no more wondering what your home is worth. In 2023 you can just type in your address to a multitude of apps, websites and the value is delivered instantly, or is it? Your Boots on The Ground REALTOR® has your computer beat! These online tech tools known as Automated Valuation Models are not always accurate, because they have no way of taking into consideration the local factors affecting the market value of any property. These AVM's do not have the capability to value the view, the school district, upgraded kitchen and bathrooms, nuisance considerations … (5 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Whiskey's Wisdom: Worried About Getting or Focused On Giving? - 09/23/23 07:32 AM
"A cheerful giver does not count
the cost of what he gives.
His heart is set on pleasing and
cheering him to whom the gift is given."
~ 14th Century Mystic, Julian of Norwich

Whiskey makes friends everywhere he goes, because Whiskey is the Ambassador of First Impressions!
Whiskey is always willing to give first: licks, hugs and smiles are  his specialty!
 
Your action for today
is to give a small gift to someone
and notice how you feel afterwards.
That gift can be your time, a call, 
a fun text or video text, or sending a 
hand written note to make their day.
Coffee & lunch get togethers are great too!

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thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: You're Paying For The Years, Not The Hour - 09/18/23 05:16 PM
There was a cruise ship that broke down 3 hours before departure. In a panic the cruise line called out their "big guns" in-house maintenance crew who arrived with 15 mechanics and technicians that toiled away for 60 minutes.
No Luck, no repair.
In a bigger panic the cruise line Googled the best 5 Star maintenance crew and had them rushed out to the cruise ship. They arrived with all the latest high tech electronics and tools, digital this and computerized that, where they toiled away for 90 minutes. No Luck, no repair.
With 30 minutes before a fully booked boat was to … (17 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Whiskey's Wisdom: Be Unique In The Haystack - 09/17/23 05:59 AM
"The hardest challenge is to be yourself
in a world where everyone is
trying to make you be somebody else."
Poet, E. E. Cummings
 
 
Your action for today
is to contemplate and discover a feature
or trait that is unique about you.
Looking for CA Love -
The Needle in The Haystack of Needles
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thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Looking for CA Love - The Needle in The Haystack of Needles - 09/14/23 09:15 AM
California has 39.24 million citizens and my city of San Diego
has 1.39 million citizens.
How do I and/or how do you stand out?
In any state or providence; how do YOU stand out?

 
I'm not just an agent, I'm a REALTOR®! Nope, 202,970 other CA agents are REALTORS® too! And the public thinks all 434,000 licensed real estate agents in CA are REALTORS®.
I have designations from extensive training! The alphabet soup after your name means nothing other than you and the instructor that sold you the designation.
Less than 50% of agents can even identify most acronyms and the general public 100% has no … (4 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Whiskey's Wisdom: The Courage To Persevere - 09/01/23 08:12 AM
"All our dreams can come true -
if we have the courage to pursue them."
~Walt Disney

Your action for today
is to take a few moments
to reflect on one of your dreams
and then do just one step to advance it.
Design An Extraordinary Day!
...And Happy Birthday to My Daddy!
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Our experienced team is coached by the #1 business
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Buffini & Company for over 20 years!
All our properties come with 3D Virtual Tours
and Professional Photography,
Marketing and Negotiating Skills...
most agents do not possess!
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thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Whiskey's Wisdom: Going The Extra Mile - 09/01/23 08:11 AM
"Look for every opportunity
to go the extra mile.
That's how you become extra special
and extra successful."
~Writer, Steve Ventura
My Mentor Brian Buffini grew up house painting
in Dublin, Ireland
and his Dad taught him about 
going the extra mile. 
They would paint a room, 
then clean it and put all new light bulbs
in all the fixtures. Why?
Because the paint always looked better
in a clean room with bright, consistent lighting.
Boom! The Extra Mile.

Your action for today
is to do something that is
over and above the call of duty.
I do this often in real estate and for friends
when they are in a tough spot.
I've helped female friends … (10 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Whiskey's Wisdom: Movement vs. Direction - 08/06/23 07:33 AM
"Talent without discipline
is like an octopus on roller skates.
There's plenty of movement,
but you never know if it's going
to be forward, backwards, or sideways."
Writer, H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

 
Your action for today
is to force yourself to finish
a project or goal you have been
procrastinating on.
Your action for today
is to call someone and tell them
you appreciate them being in your life.
I'm doing this with someone I lost touch with
yet they were a big part of my real estate career.
Today's his birthday, great excuse to pour
some love and appreciation on him.
Design An Extraordinary Weekend!
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thomas j nelson realtor la jolla: Whiskey's Wisdom: Tell Them The Whole Story! - 08/01/23 06:14 PM
"The man on top of the mountain didn't fall there."
~ Coach Vince Lombardi

Your action for today is
to think about one of your
greatest achievements or your career
and reflect on what it took
 for you to get there.
Design An Extraordinary Day!
Newer agents often ask me:
How do I get a database as big as yours?
How do I earn over $100,000 / year
How are you getting so many closings each year?
What I share with them is...👇
Whiskey Graduated Puppy School Feb 2023

I share with them, do you want to know the whole story?
Because it began over 35 years ago and it's not sexy.
I'm a 35 year-in-the-making-overnight … (9 comments)

 
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets, CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego (Big Block Realty 858.232.8722)

Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets

CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

La Jolla, CA

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Big Block Realty 858.232.8722

Address: 8895 Towne Centre Dr. , Suite 105 #436 , San Diego, CA, 92122

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