thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Whiskey's Wisdom: Moments - 11/30/23 07:14 AM
"Life is all memory,
except for the one present moment
that goes by you so quickly you hardly catch it."
~ Attributed to Tennessee Williams
...and a quote that was shared by Michael Jacobs in his recent post.
Your action for today
is to spend a few moments
looking at a framed picture or painting
you have at home and reconnect with
the feelings it evokes reliving that moment.
 
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thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Whiskey's Wisdom: Unstoppable - 11/30/23 07:10 AM
"Obstacles can't stop you.
Problems can't stop you.
Most of all, other people can't stop you.
Only you can stop you."
Author, Jeffrey Gitomer
Your action for today:
Is there is something that you want
that you have stopped going after?
Get After It!

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thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Whiskey's Wisdom: Your Memory - 11/30/23 07:10 AM
"Blessed are those...
who can give without remembering
and take without forgetting."
Writer, Elizabeth Bibesco
 
Your action for today
is to send a thank you card
to someone who has
recently helped you.
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thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Out Performing 24/7 With Smiles, Granola & Crystals - 11/20/23 11:44 AM
Well... actually it's Happiness, Health and Joy!
 
Happiness is derived partially from being healthy, getting enough sleep, being connected with family, friends, groups and your community. The ability to enjoy your enrichments: travel, golf, tennis, hiking, gardening, and other hobbies.
I was just reading a friend of mine's FB post which inspired this post. She was claiming she takes Sundays off except when work needs to be done. 🤣What? 😶🤨Work ALWAYS needs to be done.🤣 It's not a day off if you don't unplug. There's no recharge if you do not power down and let your brain, body and emotions nourish on other … (4 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Thankful Thought in Active Rain’s Gratitude Challenge (Entry 3 of 4) - 11/18/23 03:26 AM
Thankful Thought in Active Rain’s Gratitude Challenge (Entry 3 of 4)
In this post I'll share my gratitude for a very specific coach; Coach Cami. While I am grateful for all my coaches at Buffini & Company I've had over the years, at Ninja Selling, Darren Hardy Insane Workshop, Michael E. Gerber's E-Myth Academy & Dreaming Room, CRS, RCS-D, Mentors and angels along the way, the coach that means the most to me, despite being retired now, is still Coach Cami.
The Crash
In 2007 in San Diego, we had the dubious privilege of being one of the first US counties to experience the … (13 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Who's Absurd Is More Absurd? - 11/16/23 11:47 AM
Who's Absurd Is More Absurd?
The Cost Of Waiting
Earlier this week while onboarding a new buyer, she was sharing her plans with me to purchase a property here in San Diego, CA (America's Finest City) when she also warned me that while she wanted to start gathering information now, she wasn’t planning on buying till next year. I agreed it was smart for her to plan ahead, but asked her what was causing that delay? Here's how it went:
Thomas: "Was the delay over saving up for a down payment, a lease she was in, other?"
Buyer: "The interest rates, they’re too high … (10 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Aloha! - 11/16/23 09:07 AM
I have spent years vacationing and part-time living on Maui, Hawai'i. Whenever I'm there, inevitably people in service, neighbors and strangers will say "Aloha!" (hello, goodbye, love)or "Mahalo" (thank you). I never get pissed off and yell back - "I'm not Hawai'ian!". In fact I accept it as their culture being shared with me, they are greeting me in their own way. "When in Rome".
Between Halloween and New Year's Day, we're in the Holiday Season - something like 14 different holidays are celebrated in Q4. If somebody says Happy Holidays to me I'll typically reply with the appropriate holiday greeting I … (11 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Thankful Thought in Active Rain’s Gratitude Challenge (Entry 2 of 4) - 11/10/23 11:09 AM
Thankful Thought in Active Rain’s Gratitude Challenge
(Entry 2 of 4)
As we enter November, and we approach Thanksgiving, I can't help but to reflect on what I'm grateful for.
Today I'll share that I'm grateful for my friends. I suppose I'm guilty of  friendship-category's in my mind. I have childhood friends: birth to 8th grade.
I have high school friend's, work friends from 1984-present from many different jobs, I have DJ friends from that 30 year career, I have REALTOR® friends from 1998-present and of course I have client and networking partner friends too from the last 25 years.
My oldest friend is Debbie Spillane-Bohan, … (8 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Whiskey's Wisdom: A New Day Is Breaking - 11/08/23 07:16 AM
"None of us can change our yesterdays,
but all of us can change our tomorrows."
~ General, Colin Powell
Your action for today
is to pick something you can do better
tomorrow than you did yesterday.
Whiskey insists I can take him for longer walks,
so I'll be stepping up my steps!
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thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Whiskey's Wisdom: Winking Instead Of Honking - 10/29/23 08:26 AM
"Patience is something you admire
in the driver behind you,
but not in the one ahead."
Poet and Author, Bill McGlashen

Your action for today
is to notice how it feels
to be a little extra
patient with someone
in your personal life
or business dealings.
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thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Are You Focused On What You're Getting or What You're Giving? - 10/28/23 07:59 AM
Let's finish out 2023 strong. If you as a COO are slow, make sure you as your CEO are busy! It's time to make it rain! 
But first ask yourself, are you focused on what you're getting or what your giving? Because this advice is for givers, not takers. It's the Law Of The Harvest and we are going to plant seeds and tend to them long before they are able to give back at harvest time.


As REALTORS® heading into the last two month of Q4
it's a perfect time to be a giver to your sold and active clients alike, which strengthens … (11 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Invest In Your Smile - 10/27/23 01:37 PM
🎵 If you're happy and you know it tell your face! 🎶
🎶If you're happy and you know it tell your face! 🎵
🎵 If you're happy and you know it tell your face to really show it! 🎶
🎵 If you're happy and you know it tell your face! 🎶
 
 
I was listening to one of my musicians I follow (Justin Hawkins) get  interviewed the other day and he was asked: "What's something great you did for yourself since making it big?"
Justin Hawkins of The Darkness
Justin's response was: "I got my teeth straightened so I could smile more and feel/look happier. I think everyone … (16 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor san diego: 👉 Choose Your Hard and Start Your "1 Year From Now" - TODAY! - 10/26/23 01:30 PM
1. Choose Your Hard
2. "Start Your 1 Year From Now -  TODAY!"
Have you ever heard someone speak and they share a nugget you catch that seems to be  just a throw away comment to them, one they made while making a bigger point? 
I was on our weekly Positive Real Estate / Mastermind Zoom hosted by a longtime friend of mine Jeff Wu (and fellow Rainer). Jeff gave us the "Choose Your Hard" philosophy. And then the guest speaker, another longtime friend of mine
Ben Andrews kinda did that "dropping pearls of wisdom" thing today.
Ben wasn't even speaking to me, he was … (35 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Whiskey's Wisdom: Until You See What Can Be - 10/14/23 09:11 AM
"Our lives improve only when we take chances -
and the first and most difficult risk we can take
is to be honest with ourselves."
~Editor, Walter Anderson
Your action for today
is to think about one positive thing
you can do about something
you can improve upon in your life.
I'm stepping up my exercise routine this month.

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thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Whiskey's Wisdom: Rinse and Repeat - 10/12/23 05:43 PM
"People need to be reminded
more than they need to be instructed."
Author, Samuel Johnson
Reflect on a favorite book or story and reconnect with the lesson or idea that was presented. We're not slow learners, we're just dealing with more information coming at us that ever before in history. Gentle reminders go a long way!
Why play with one, when two fits in your mouth just as easy!

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thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Rainmakers VS. Deal-Makers: Both Are Required For Your Success - 09/30/23 08:55 AM
Thank you to Peter Mohylsky, Beach Expert who asked the question this morning:
"Working on your business vs working in your business. How do you define each? Who started this idea? How do you keep them straight?"
Excellent questions and there is a very important distinction!
Well, let me tell you, my friend, there's a world of difference between working on your business and working in your business, and it's a distinction that every entrepreneur needs to understand. As I replied to Peter:
"Who started it really doesn't matter as much as who's imparted it on you in a way that reached you, caused you … (9 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Freedom From House Arrest In 2024 - Shedding The Golden Handcuffs! - 09/29/23 02:45 PM
A Golden Opportunity: Why Homeowners Should Consider Selling in 2024
so they can remove the golden handcuffs of their mortgage rate and free themselves of their self-imposed house arrest!
I've got some exciting news for all you homeowners out there. If you've been toying with the idea of selling your home, 2023 could be the perfect year to make that move. The real estate market is showing signs of promise, and there are several compelling reasons why 2024 is the golden opportunity is might just be you've been waiting for.
Record-Breaking Prices One of the most significant reasons to consider selling in 2023 … (6 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor san diego: When Your Inadequacy Becomes Your Signature - 09/18/23 05:50 PM
When Your Inadequacy Becomes Your Signature: Meet Leland Sklar
One of the most famous musicians you likely do not know about.

Bass Guitar Legend Leland Sklar, who's played with everyone from Phil Collins to James Taylor and appeared on over 2,000 albums across all genres of music, recently shared a story in a fascinating interview.
Leland revealed how two  of his four left hand fingers, his fretboard fingers, aren't as flexible as someone with full range of motion, due to childhood hand injuries.
But he's a one of the most sought after sessions players and touring bass players on this planet​ because as Producer Mike … (22 comments)

thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Whiskey's Wisdom: Be Unique In The Haystack - 09/17/23 05:59 AM
"The hardest challenge is to be yourself
in a world where everyone is
trying to make you be somebody else."
Poet, E. E. Cummings
 
 
Your action for today
is to contemplate and discover a feature
or trait that is unique about you.
Looking for CA Love -
The Needle in The Haystack of Needles
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thomas j nelson realtor san diego: Looking for CA Love - The Needle in The Haystack of Needles - 09/14/23 09:15 AM
California has 39.24 million citizens and my city of San Diego
has 1.39 million citizens.
How do I and/or how do you stand out?
In any state or providence; how do YOU stand out?

 
I'm not just an agent, I'm a REALTOR®! Nope, 202,970 other CA agents are REALTORS® too! And the public thinks all 434,000 licensed real estate agents in CA are REALTORS®.
I have designations from extensive training! The alphabet soup after your name means nothing other than you and the instructor that sold you the designation.
Less than 50% of agents can even identify most acronyms and the general public 100% has no … (4 comments)

 
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Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets

CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

La Jolla, CA

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