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A Quiet Morning, A Cup Of Tea, A Warm Dog, And A Prayer

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty 0575737

I am still encountering entirely too many frazzled people all around me on a daily basis. Do we all have days where we want to pull our hair out? Sure. But we have to keep these mini traumas in perspective of the grand picture that we deserve inner peace and happiness. With the media constantly bombarding us with images and words of "how bad" everything is, it is almost a miracle any of us find any tranquility at all, especially in an information age that gets the latest bombing or plane crash from around the world delivered our doorstep in an instant. I am thinking that maybe living isolated in the mountains of Virginia, like the family in the TV show the Waltons, may not have been as "depressing" as we might first have thought.

Pond

For purposes of this lesson in serenity let's think

A Quiet Morning, A Cup of Tea, A Warm Dog, And A Prayer.

Work on putting these four elements in your life and you will be on your way to harmony with the still side of things.

A quiet morning represents a place. Centering yourself somewhere whether real where you are or in your mind or a place you have been to or imagined. Look at the serene image of this pond for example. A quiet setting sets the stage.  

 

 

A cup of tea, or other warm beverage, represents something you are doing that gives you immense joy, and that good feeling inside. There are many examples like your favorite hobby, to laying out in the backyard in your hammock, to gardening, etc. You should not have to work to think of something you enjoy doing.

A warm dog represents relationships. Whether they be a pet, a significant other, spouse, children, family, girls night out, friends, Active Rain contacts, all those you have found in your life that you come to, and when you are with them you feel good. Love and kindness toward others is not only for them but it helps us develop our own inner happiness and peace.

Finally, a prayer. The famous serenity prayer allows you intellectually and down in your soul, to know that you have to have acceptance of what you can control and the letting go feeling of what you cannot control. This is your spiritual connection to peacefulness. We all have to figure out this spiritual journey to our own way of seeing life but this prayer is a great foundation for you. God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

May you find a quiet morning, a cup of tea, a warm dog, and say a little prayer. You are so worth having peacefulness in your heart each and every day. It is important too, because your inner peace will be this great strength for you and be reflected as a calming effect to those in your outside sphere. It will be one more thing of beauty you bring to the world.

Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Hello Alyce: I love that you can relax on a rock now. That is very cool, plus having pets around soothes our minds too.

Hi Lara: You are so right. An outlook of kindness and courtesy will set the stage for a very peaceful day.

Mar 27, 2009 05:31 AM
Loreena and Michael Yeo
3:16 team REALTY ~ Locally-owned Prosper TX Real Estate Co. - Prosper, TX
Real Estate Agents

Gary - I think the weather is getting to me, affecting my usual bubbliness. I think I might do just what you said. A Serenity Prayer, a cup of tea but I'm so sorry that I still miss Maxx. Thanks for being you. Your presence and this post is just super-naturally timely.

Grant me the serenity
To Accept the things
I cannot change,
Courage to change
the things I can,
Wisdom to know the difference.

Mar 27, 2009 06:18 AM
Amanda Evans
DFW Living - Fort Worth, TX
Real Estate Broker - Fort Worth Texas

Well done, Gary.

This reminds me that there is the most important time of the day. I've felt a calm stirring lately to turn things up a notch but to dial back in a few other areas...I think it's my soul reminding me it needs to be fed.  I think this weekend I'll spend some time curled up with the Good Book.

Mar 27, 2009 06:34 AM
Susan Mangigian
RE/MAX Preferred - West Chester, PA
Chester & Delaware County Homes, Delaware and Ches

Gary, you know I start every day with a cup of tea, 1/2 an hour of reading a novel, and JJ curled up on my lap.  I have started praying again, which is something that I had let go for a while, but it does help and it is very calming.  I love the serenity prayer and have always had a copy of it nearby.  xxoo

Mar 27, 2009 07:50 AM
Lori Churchill Cofer
Beasley Realty - Pullman, WA
Realtor - 509-330-0086 - Pullman, WA

Gary,

I love the picture of the pond....it beautiful capture the importance of serenity.   Of course, you know I have the warm dog....the cup of tea...peppermint....and the prayer. That has to be the thing that I am most thankful that I have!

Mar 27, 2009 08:03 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Loreena: Maxx is with you in your heart. I know the feeling of the loss of a dog. VERY hard to get over to say the least. The Serenity prayer is a good one to help us all out too.

Hi Amanda: I like that dial back in a few areas and curl up with the Good Book ideas. We can all take that to heart.

Hi Susan: Prayer is simply that conversation with God. People make more out of it than it is. It is VERY calming.

Lori: Sounds like you have all this down well.

Mar 27, 2009 10:03 AM
Gail MacMillan
Titusville, FL

Bouvier des Flandres...had to look that one up, beautiful and different just like Alyce.  Nice to see you back :-)

Mar 27, 2009 11:14 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Gary:  Just the post I needed today..,heck, this month!  I need to take some serious time out for me.

Mar 27, 2009 12:00 PM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Gail: Alyce is a good one and I was glad to see her too.

Hi Chris Ann: Take it easy. Time out. Time out.

Mar 27, 2009 12:08 PM
Mara Hawks
First Realty Auburn - Auburn, AL
Inactive-2012 REALTOR - Homes for Sale Auburn Real Estate, AL

Ahhhh....perfect scenery for the morning....I am always up early, and love the early hours for the new awareness and secret shhhussing of the early dawn...the first birdsong...I like to sit on the porch and listen to the birds (and lately, a woodpecker)...and talk to my dog, Backwards (G-O-D)...sit, Backwards, sit...sometimes I walk Backwards, too, and we go to the park-and-bark. (I'm sorry, Gary, I just came from Liz Moras's blog, encouraging 'disruption' :-) This truly is a beautiful post...and biscuits for me and Backwards go well with the tea.

Mar 27, 2009 01:38 PM
Carol Culkin
Diamond Partners Inc - Overland Park, KS
Overland Park Residential Real Estate

Gary - It's not morning but I am having a warm cup of hot cocoa with my dog under my desk as I participate in my favorite hobby - blogging. And, it's off to bed soon with a prayer on my mind as I close my eyes.  There is peace tonight!  But, in the morning the morning my phone will be ringing again and chaos is inevitable.  

Mar 27, 2009 02:28 PM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Hi Gary-Very much love this post. So very true and it is a wonderful way to start the day off right. The line below is very true of YOU my friend. You do that everyday. God Bless YOU. ENJOY your Saturday. :-)

your inner peace will be this great strength for you and be reflected as a calming effect to those in your outside sphere. It will be one more thing of beauty you bring to the world.

Mar 27, 2009 03:28 PM
Mesa, Arizona Real Estate Mesa Arizona Realtor
Homes Arizona Real Estate LLC - Mesa, AZ
AzLadyInRed

Gary, great post - as usual. The quiet morning, the prayer and just sitting and quietly reflecting on my life helps me settle in. I think sitting on my patio with a good book....just enjoying the chirping of the birds and the warm air helps me tons. I'm not really the frazzled type though. ;-)

Pepper

Mar 27, 2009 04:44 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Hi Gary,

The perfect ingredients..thank you for reminding me how I need to start my day. Wonderful words of wisdom as always.

Mar 27, 2009 11:16 PM
Suzanne McLaughlin
Sabinske & Associates, Inc. (Albertville, St. Michael) - Saint Michael, MN
Sabinske & Associates, Realtor

Gary, I copied the blog, printed and put it in my office to remind me to slow down and smell the roses and not get wrapped so tight!  You are a gem!!!!

Mar 28, 2009 01:18 AM
Elizabeth Cooper-Golden
Huntsville Alabama Real Estate, (@ Homes Realty Group) - Huntsville, AL
Huntsville AL MLS

Gary, What a timely post for me.  I have really really been frazzled lately.  My Mom has been SO sick SO many times in the past 12 months and I've really let it drag me down.  I'm typically such a positive person and have really lost sight of "staying focused on what is important".

I need to wake up each morning and do exactly as you stated.  I love my dog.  He is such a comfort to me.  I love being home in the mornings after the rush getting everyone out the door.  I think I"ll start taking 30 minutes and saying my prayers, snuggling with Gus and even taking a few moments to write down what I am thankful for, which is so many things. I am so lucky and need to remember that more often than I have been.

Mar 29, 2009 01:56 PM
c m
Colorado Springs, CO

Hubs told me just today, that he has caught himself lately, just as he begins to fume at standing in a line too long, waiting at a light too red, or in some other way slowing him down, thinking, "What is so darned important?". He takes a breath, "adjusts" his face to a smile, and relaxes.  Beautiful photo, lovely post.

Mar 29, 2009 07:44 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Gary - Why do I think that picture has been posted mirror image, and ought to have a mystical looking Victorian lady sitting in it?  But, you are so right about how to begin mornings!  But, I have a cat too!

Mar 30, 2009 03:06 AM
The Rains Team
Keller Williams Realty Atlanta Partners - Hoschton, GA
A higher standard in real estate

Hi Gary: I would like to be in that picture sitting on a blanket, drinking a hot cup of tea and playing with my Chihuahua! That would be such a wonderful, peaceful way to start the day. But lately I have enjoyed waking up early and drinking my coffee while doing my morning quiet time--when I start my day out that way, the rest of the day goes so much smoother.

--Anne Rains

Apr 03, 2009 01:23 PM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Gary, Thanks for the beautiful post. I love the picture.

Apr 05, 2009 10:46 PM