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Lessons From a Lap Dancer!

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Real Estate Agent with United Realty Group SL0475285

8 years ago I worked with a “dancer” to find a home. She bought an investment home that I owned. She had $80,000 as a down payment. She reported that she earned that money one dollar at a time (she intended the pun!)

 

She was approaching 40 and I asked her what she intended to do as it gets more difficult to compete with the young 18 year olds.  She told me she had been saving aggressively and intended to get into real estate as an investor. 

 

We then talked about how she competes with the 18 year olds. She told me that the young dancers stand around looking pretty while she works the crowd. She would approach a guy and talk to him intelligently about his work, family and problems. It was then easy to solicit a “dance” and hence “the big bucks”.  The young girls always complained that they didn’t make any money because it was the first of the month, the middle of the month or the end of the month or a holiday. There was always an excuse for not making money.

 

My “dancer” client’s house is now worth $1.5 million. She purchased it for $330,000 and no longer has a mortgage.  She has since bought 17 homes, renovated them, and amassed almost $2 million in cash!  She hasn’t danced in 2 years and can now retire comfortably!

 

The moral of this story is that as talented as you may be, you can never stand around waiting for the business to come to you! You need to be aggressive and look for the “Johns”(aka: leads), work them until they agree to do business with you, and make lots of money!

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Maureen Francis
Coldwell Banker Weir Manuel - Bloomfield Hills, MI
Coldwell Banker Weir Manuel
Now there is a great client to have. 
Sep 23, 2006 06:41 AM
Carl Minicucci
Humber Valley Realty - Vaughan, ON
Broker

Two words of wisdom:

Use Protection

Have them sign agency agreements :-)

Sep 23, 2006 06:48 AM
David Eiglarsh
United Realty Group - Weston, FL
CRS, CDPE, Serving South Florida
You're too funny Carl!
Sep 23, 2006 06:51 AM
Bob Pavey
RE/MAX Hometown - Aventura, FL
CRS
These are the most interesting blogs, I like it when they talk about sex
Sep 23, 2006 06:52 AM
Karen Hurst
RICOASTALLIVING.COM - Warwick, RI
Rhode Island Waterfront!

From Lap Dancer to Lap of Luxury!

Personal ambition is a powerful tool.

Sep 23, 2006 06:59 AM
David Eiglarsh
United Realty Group - Weston, FL
CRS, CDPE, Serving South Florida
Wait a minute! Bob Pavey is commenting on this blog! Hey Bob, can you impart more wisdom than what you wrote above!???!!!???
Sep 23, 2006 07:01 AM
Susan Milner
Florida Future Realty, Inc. - Cape Coral, FL
Cape Coral Real Estate Broker, FloridaFutureAgents
What a good story. I have a 'dancer' client right now.....
Sep 23, 2006 07:14 AM
Natalia Millsap
Keller Williams Realty - Palm Beach Gardens, FL
ILS I.R.E.S.
Very good idea. I think I will go one of these days and make my connections of networking in Dancing Clubs, never thought about this before.
Sep 23, 2006 07:26 AM
William J. Archambault, Jr.
The Real Estate Investment Institute - Houston, TX
David,

The moral of the story is: you’ve got to get out there with the people, no matter what you do!

Good Luck,

Bill

William J Archambault Jr

The Real Estate Investment Institute

http://www.reii.org

Sep 23, 2006 07:29 AM
David Eiglarsh
United Realty Group - Weston, FL
CRS, CDPE, Serving South Florida
Hi Natalia, I worked the dancer nitch market for years! We did really well in it. The blog above was my first "dancer". We then worked 3 dozen after her.  We were able to loan them the money from our pension fund to get them into the house and they could refinance after 5 years (or sooner if they could dance well!)  It's a tight industry and word spreads quickly!
Sep 23, 2006 07:30 AM
Natalia Millsap
Keller Williams Realty - Palm Beach Gardens, FL
ILS I.R.E.S.
Thanks David. I will give it a shot anyway. If not for RE business, I may just enjoy them dance, perhaps learn some moves for personal life hehehe...;-)
Sep 23, 2006 07:51 AM
Geri Sonkin
Douglas Elliman Real Estate 516-457-7103 - Merrick, NY
Long Island Real Estate & Staging Expert

So you're telling me if I'd only started investing in real estate years ago I could stop dancing now.  Ahh, 20/20 hindsight.

Great story!

Sep 23, 2006 07:58 AM
Professor X
NONE - Ludington, MI

Maureen, I should have known you would find this post and comment on it.

I have to admit, David, it somehow caught my eye.  It is a great philosophy to take to heart though...especially in this market.

Sep 23, 2006 08:49 AM
Sharon Simms
Coastal Properties Group International - Christie's International - Saint Petersburg, FL
St. Petersburg FL - CRS CIPS CLHMS RSPS
In any business, it's about connecting with people. Your dancer not only connected with her clients, she connected with a great Realtor.
Sep 23, 2006 02:26 PM
Brian Brady
Bayshore Commercial - Tampa, FL
858-699-4590

I have financed them.  It's always amusing to have an underwiter ask you what an "independent entertainer" is.  The verifications of employment are somewhat interesting, also.  Of course, I do those in person.

Seriously, that's a good dstory.  Not many "independent entertainers" have the discipline to buy a home but the few that do "work the business like a business" tend to end up wealthy by the time they're 35.

 

Sep 24, 2006 07:19 AM