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To Be or Not To Be...

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Real Estate Agent with Leading Edge Properties

That is the question.  To be a Realtor or not to be. 

For a dear friend of mine, the answer is not to be.  A true veteran of real estate in my local market, I can't begin to tell you how disappointed I am that she will no longer be a fellow Realtor.

She has weathered down markets in the past.  She has ridden the wave of incredibly strong markets.  This time, though, she decided she had had enough.  She's moving on to another type of business completely.  Because she's my friend I will whole-heartedly support her decision, but my heart is heavy.

Its scary that someone whom I look to for advice and support has decided not to stick with her chosen profession.  I hear that little voice of doubt saying, "and YOU think you can make it???" 

But I'll tell you - I've gotten pretty good at tuning out that little doubt-y voice. 

Since opening our brokerage in 2006, I swear, half the battle has been to keep a positive attitude and just believe that  I CAN BE SUCCESSFUL.  I've had to learn skills I never knew I would need.  And the most important one is recognizing the opportunity in ANY market and working it.

No, short sales aren't fun.  But they still need to be listed and sold.

No, REO's aren't fun.  But they still need to be listed and sold.

No, telling past clients that they have no equity or are upside down isn't fun.  Explaining to buyers that they can get a cheap mortgage and buy an inexpensively priced home only if they have stellar credit isn't fun.  But I've learned to do these things.  A lot of these sellers and buyers still need me.  I try to help them find a way. 

I thank God that I've been able to keep my attitude positive.  It really is powerful.  I thank God I've been able to find the opportunity.  It really is out there.

So for me, the question is: To be or not to be?  To be a Realtor? Yes, of course.  I positively love what I do.

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Amy Salisbury, Realtor/Owner

                                 amy@askleadingedge.com     www.askleadingedge.com

 Leading Edge Properties

130 Augustine Avenue, Unit 54, Charles Town, West Virginia 25414 

304.724.9191

Striving to provide excellent customer satisfaction in all things real estate related in the beautiful Eastern Panhandle of West Virginia, just an hour west of Washington, DC and Baltimore, MD.

Serving Jefferson County: Charles Town, Harpers Ferry, Shepherdstown.  Berkeley County: Martinsburg, Inwood, Bunker Hill, Falling Waters, Hedgesville, Gerrardstown.

Please feel free to email questions and comments!

Amy Salisbury
Leading Edge Properties - Charles Town, WV
West Virginia Realtor/Jefferson/Berkeley

Maureen - I think that's the case with my friend.  Been there, done that with the tough markets.  I truly don't believe that she couldn't make a go of it, just that its time to do something else and not fight this fight again...I will miss her!!!

Apr 03, 2009 02:49 AM
Home Loan Search.Online
Home Loan Search Online - Newnan, GA

I'm glad to hear that you are staying positive. There are opportunities in this market. They just might not be as easy as a few years ago.

Apr 03, 2009 03:14 AM
Martha Brown
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc., Annapolis MD 21403 - Annapolis, MD
Your Homes Around Annapolis Agent

Amy- Sometimes the time just comes. I spent ions in my 'former' career, had a blast, worked through many ups and downs, a couple of moves and then the time came where I said enough is enough. Time for something new and fresh and my real estate career was born. havent looked back and have no plans of leaving. I admire her for knowing what is right for her. Great post.

Apr 03, 2009 04:29 AM
Daren Krause
Keller Williams Realty - Austin, TX

To be or not to be...


Suggested mantra: If it is to be, it is up to me...

 

Apr 03, 2009 06:38 AM
Amy Salisbury
Leading Edge Properties - Charles Town, WV
West Virginia Realtor/Jefferson/Berkeley

Darrell - Almost nothing is as easy as it once was...

Martha - True, she certainly knows what's best for her.  I'm being completely selfish!!

Daren - I LOVE THAT!  Gonna put it on a pillow!

Apr 03, 2009 06:53 AM
Linda Pitts
Merck Team Realty, Inc - Brandon, MS

Many long term REALTORS are giving it up in my market, but I don't know where they are going.  There aren't many jobs here that pay a salary decent enough to pay the bills, so they must be relocating or retiring completely.  I'm only 2 years young in real estate and am content to have any business and thankful for what business I do have!

Apr 03, 2009 07:37 AM
Anonymous
Melody Beaudro (TR Hunter Real Estate, Florence, Oregon)

Since we're quoting Shakespeare... What does to be or not to be mean anyway? In terms of service to others?

Real Estate in Florence, Oregon happens to be bottoming out, and seems to have begun its' upswing...we are staying busy with 'cash' buyers. Most likely people are finding Florence a "best kept secret".....this is probably where "being" comes in.

Best to those with the courage to make a change!

Apr 03, 2009 10:51 AM
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Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

I feel very fortunate that I have done well over the last few years while others have been struggling.  I try to share ideas with friends in the business to help them rev up their business.  I don't spend excessively and work hard to make sure that I'll be able to survive should my business drop off in the future.

Apr 03, 2009 11:21 AM
Robin Sing-Cunningham
Access USA Realty - Fort Lauderdale, FL
Fort Lauderdale Real Estate

Short Sales and REO's not fun??? I hope this market never changes! It is truly the best real estate market ever (seems I have been hearing that a lot lately)

I can't imagine a time in real estate that allowed an experienced and knowledgeable agent, the opportunity to make so much money!

I just can't understand why so many feel that that Short Sales and REO's are'nt fun and lucrative. It often makes me wonder how easy they must have had it in the goold old days.

In any event, don't feel bad for those who can't hack it anymore. Wish them well and walk them towards the door. The thinning of the herd isn't a bad thing by any means.

Apr 03, 2009 03:57 PM
Amy Salisbury
Leading Edge Properties - Charles Town, WV
West Virginia Realtor/Jefferson/Berkeley

Linda - There is much to be thankful for if we take the time to do so...

Melody - I think that's what we're seeing around here too, all the more surprising for my friend to leave the business.

Cindy - You're a smart lady.  Continued success!

Robin - I'm glad you enjoy working the short sales and REO's, but no, I don't think they're fun at all.  I hope the market changes in that we have fewer people losing their homes and us having to clean up the fall-out.   Thanks for your point of view, though!

Apr 04, 2009 02:41 AM
Melissa King, ABR
Rivah Realty, LLC - Montross, VA

This is a tough time, but we'll just have to hang in there. I have faith that things will get better. Sorry that your friend left though. I wish you and her all of luck in the future

Apr 04, 2009 04:50 AM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Your good friend may have been burned out...perhaps she will return to real estate.  But, I like your spirit...that positive attitude....we all need to remember this.  Congrats on your featured post and a GOLD STAR ....you go girl.

Apr 04, 2009 12:44 PM
Amy Salisbury
Leading Edge Properties - Charles Town, WV
West Virginia Realtor/Jefferson/Berkeley

Melissa - We, and many others, are indeed keeping the faith!  Thanks!

Rebecca - I think you hit the nail on the head.  I've been hearing the frustration and just plain tired-ness in her voice for a while now...Keeping the attitude positive is hard sometimes, but I keep trying to do just that.  Thanks!!!

Apr 04, 2009 09:35 PM
Scott Guay
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services PenFed Realty - Ocean Pines, MD
Associate Broker. Ocean City and Ocean Pines MD

Attitude and persistence goes a long way in this type of market.  Managing your time and resources helps as well.

Apr 05, 2009 12:57 AM
Patsy Overton
Patsy Overton Interiors, Atlanta, Georgia - Duluth, GA

Amy - Well said.  I have determined to "stay at it" with my home staging business in a less than stellar economy.  Why?  Because I KNOW I can make this thing work and because I love what I do.  Thanks for your encouragement today.

Apr 06, 2009 08:27 AM
Brad Officer
Brad Officer Real Estate - RE/MAX Specialists - Jacksonville, FL
Jacksonville REALTOR

I think a positive attitude seperates the true performers in this market.  Amy, keep up the -tude!

Apr 07, 2009 05:25 AM
Team Honeycutt
Allen Tate - Concord, NC

You are right. Now more than ever attitude is playing a big part in how successful we are! Great post!

Apr 07, 2009 08:37 AM
Judy Schneider
eXp Realty - Bellingham, WA

Great attitude!! I am also sorry to hear about your friend!!

Apr 09, 2009 04:27 PM
Amy Salisbury
Leading Edge Properties - Charles Town, WV
West Virginia Realtor/Jefferson/Berkeley

Scott - You are so right.

Patsy - Thanks!  You've got the right spirit!

Brad - Let's hope so!

Allen - Thanks!

Apr 10, 2009 03:53 AM
Donna Quinlan
Keller Williams Realty - Newburyport, MA
Keller Williams Realtor & Career Consultant

I wish your friend well! Who knows what doors will open for her. It is always harder to be the one left behind, but you have a great attitude. It sounds like you have a passion for what you do, and that will get you through the tough times that we are having in this industry. Good for you!

Apr 10, 2009 02:47 PM