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Simple tips that make life GOOD

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams-Lake Norman Mooresville,NC

This is just 3 tips out of my huge list of favorites.

1. Envy is a waste of time because you have all that you need.

2. If you think you have a "disaster" on your hands, ask yourself, "Will this matter in 5 years?"

3. At night before going to sleep remind yourself of -what you are Thankful for and -What was one thing I accomplished today.

Make it a GOOD life!

Rita Minion
O'Brien Realty - Solomons, MD

Hello Wendy,

Thank you for posting such a positive & wonderful message.  Happy Easter!

Rita 

Apr 09, 2009 01:27 PM
Wendy Welborne-Kimery
Keller Williams-Lake Norman Mooresville,NC - Mooresville, NC

Kathleen, it is so true but also amazing how another day can turn the world around for you.

Rita, Happy Easter to you also.   You are most welcome!

Apr 09, 2009 10:45 PM
Sherry Mills
Tarheel-Realty II - Statesville, NC

Great Advice!  I especially like the advice about disaster!  This keeps me centered many times!  Lessons are picking up for me, thank goodness.  Don't forget to bring your youngen out to ride!

Apr 10, 2009 12:08 AM
Wendy Welborne-Kimery
Keller Williams-Lake Norman Mooresville,NC - Mooresville, NC

Sherry, I'm so glad the lessons are picking up!  The girls would love to come out and see the horses soon.  There's been several times I've used the "will this matter in 5 years?"  The answer is almost always NO, so it does help. : )

Apr 10, 2009 12:21 AM
Kenneth Bargers
Prudential Woodmont Realty - Nashville, TN

Wendy - Great tips for reminding all of us to stay grounded in life.  I enjoy #3 and always am thankful for the blessings and the gift of life that I enjoy!  All the best.

Apr 10, 2009 02:31 AM
Zane Coffin
Century-21 Homestar - Geneva, OH
(Geneva Ohio Real Estate Agent)

Wendy very short and very simple...great advice if I can remember this anyone can ...peace zane

Apr 10, 2009 03:07 AM
Matt McLaughlin
The Pest Force - Myrtle Beach, SC

Hey Wendy, #2 Sometimes you could even ask will this matter in 5 days. Circumstances feel overwhelming while we are in them. Good points!

Apr 11, 2009 07:33 AM
Wendy Welborne-Kimery
Keller Williams-Lake Norman Mooresville,NC - Mooresville, NC

Kenneth and Zane, glad you liked it.  Happy Easter.

Matt, That is true.  Sometimes it is just a matter of days and the world can be totally different for you.

Apr 12, 2009 05:13 AM
Marchel Peterson
Results Realty - Spring, TX
Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro

Wendy, Very good advice!! I have one to add to your night post my Mom always taught me to not let the sun go down in my anger.  I did not even realize that was a bible verse until after becoming a Christian and then asked her who had taught it to her; it was my Great Grandmother.  We didn't have a lot of Christians in our family (most of us are now) so I thought that was too cool.

Apr 12, 2009 01:27 PM
Not a real person
San Diego, CA

I would also say to take control of your life rather than letting other people control it. When one accomplishes that, one has a good life.

Apr 12, 2009 09:23 PM
Wendy Welborne-Kimery
Keller Williams-Lake Norman Mooresville,NC - Mooresville, NC

So true Marchel and Russel.  Good add-ons.

Apr 14, 2009 10:31 AM
Sandy Shores FL RealtorĀ®, Melbourne Real Estate
M & M Realty of Brevard Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Brevard County Real Estate, Florida's Space Coast

Hi Wendy, Great points. I like the will it matter in 5 years?

Apr 17, 2009 12:57 PM
Wendy Welborne-Kimery
Keller Williams-Lake Norman Mooresville,NC - Mooresville, NC

Sandy, that one has "saved" my sanity a few times.  : )

Thanks David.  Hope you have a great weekend.

Apr 17, 2009 11:32 PM
Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 - Downingtown, PA
SRES, e-PRO,ABR,GREEN,CSP

Wendy,

Number 3 says it all......and when you are done you can sleep peacefully, that is what it is all about.

Apr 26, 2009 05:09 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Such great advice in so little words!  Perception is everything.  Once we learn that...life is so much easier. 

Apr 26, 2009 11:45 PM
Wendy Welborne-Kimery
Keller Williams-Lake Norman Mooresville,NC - Mooresville, NC

Dan, isn't that the truth.  And I LOVE my sleep.  It refreshes me.

Sharon, I know right?!  Sometimes, we make life more complicated than it means to be.  Have a GREAT week.

Apr 27, 2009 01:29 AM
Kathleen Frawley
Keller Williams 916 730-4404 Elk Grove, Wilton, Folsom, Sacramento - Wilton, CA
South County Sacramento, 916 730 4404

Great, great, super great advice. You made my day better today.  (and in 5 years that will matter!)  Thanks

Apr 27, 2009 03:04 AM
Wendy Welborne-Kimery
Keller Williams-Lake Norman Mooresville,NC - Mooresville, NC

Awww Kathleen, that is sweet.  I hope it did help.  I have a sheet of these tips I read each day.  It truly helps.  I may do a follow up sometime.  Doing just 3 at a time.  I think my sheet has 15 of them.  : )

Apr 28, 2009 12:22 AM
Jim Frimmer
HomeSmart Realty West - San Diego, CA
Realtor & CDPE, Mission Valley specialist

There is a very good book on the market titled "10-10-10." The premise is to make decisions based on what the result of that decision will be in 10 minutes, 10 months, or 10 years. My marketing guru taught me 5-5-5 (5 minutes, 5 months, 5 years) about 15 years ago, which I like better because it's much easier to look ahead 5 years than it is to look ahead 10 years.

May 19, 2009 03:32 PM
Wendy Welborne-Kimery
Keller Williams-Lake Norman Mooresville,NC - Mooresville, NC

Jim, I like the 5-5-5 idea!

May 21, 2009 10:27 PM