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In a spin, both feet in. Fast Lane to Success Life and Business Coaching!

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Erik Elsea-Jones & Co. Realty

Yesterday we talked about what to do when you're in doubt about situations in your life. But what do you do when your life is out of control? The second thing I learned at Skip Barber Racing School was In a spin, both feet in. When you've already lost control of the car, then you need to immediately push in the clutch and brake hard. In this situation you are just along for the ride, but by pushing in the clutch you cut the power to the wheels. And by jumping hard on the brakes you are trying to get the car whoa'ed down before you hit the wall.

 

If your life is out of control right now, you should put both feet in. Hit the brakes. Step back from your current situation. Evaluate your life. Your goals. Your relationships. I know this is easier said than done in many situations. Many times in my life I have been spinning out of control-in business, with my addictions, in relationships. Before I applied this principle of in a spin, both feet in, I would usually try to power out. My problem was that I did not recognize that I was already completely out of control. I tried to gas it, which just resulted in a harder impact when I finally hit the wall.

 

If you know you are in a bad relationship, find the power within yourself to put a stop to it. If you are battling addiction, remove yourself completely from your current situation. Check into a treatment facility. If you are riding a business venture in an unstoppable downward spiral, then cut your losses before you lose it all. If your life is out of control, hit the brakes and limit the damage as much as possible. Don't get me wrong: there will probably still be some damage, but if you're spinning, you anticipate that. In a spin, both feet in will help you come to a complete stop so you can start again in a different direction.

 

Yesterday we put in writing what we have done in the past to try to accomplish our one main goal-the one achievement that will improve all aspects of our life. Today I want you to figure how long it would take-starting immediately and focusing completely-to reach that goal.  Determine realistically how many hours a week you can spend-1?...

7?...40?-to totally transform your life.  Really think about this.  Then jot notes in a journal.  How many hours a week and how many weeks do you think it will take for you to accomplish your goal?

 

Erik Elsea

www.erikelsea.com

 

Word of the Day! Commit-to carry into action deliberately.

Let's commit to accomplishing our goal.

 

Quote of the Day!  "Hoping someone else will do it for you requires more energy than just doing it yourself." -Amy Emme

 

 

 

Nannette Hilliard
Exit Professional Real Estate - Monroe, WI
CDPE, ABR, CRS

I love this one. I sometimes get a rush when my life is spinning out of contol. I hang on and enjoy the ride. Some get overwhelmed when there life is spining. I take as a new adventure.That nothing can spin forever. It will stop and we will look back at it and think to ourselves. Wow! that wasnt so bad.

Now for bad relationships and addictions etc. That is ones choice to make it better. The spinning of these make take a while to stop but it is possivble. Your feet will be safely on the ground and you again will look back and say. Wow! it wasnt really that bad making it through.

I love the spinning of life. Keeps us on our toes.

Apr 16, 2009 01:13 AM
Suma Kakani
Northern IL Realtor - Keller Williams Success Realty - Prairie View, IL

An interesting post, that I read so far. I like your word of the day but i absolutely love your quote of the day. It is so true . Great one Erik.

Apr 16, 2009 04:09 AM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC • Short Sale • Probate

Life is a constant change of ups and downs. Anxiety goes up when there is a lack of control over a situation. I agree, sometimes it is enough to take a pause( not the same as fully ignoring)  and simply breathe till you feel ok to deal with whatever you are facing. 

Nov 18, 2022 12:11 PM