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Ditching Fear Via Twitter

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Mainstream

 First I want to thank my Twitter friend @recr 

You see, I am a bit of an introvert.  With my close friends and family, I am very outgoing and funny (their words not mine!).  But when I am in a room full of people or am meeting someone for the first time, I am very quiet aHiding Turtlend shy.  I have always had trouble in large groups of people and have never been able to overcome this particular issue.  Twitter and Facebook has helped me overcome this shyness. 

I have had a couple of interesting experiences the last month.  The first happened at the RE/MAX convention in Vegas and the second was back home in Henderson, KY. 

In Vegas, I knew one of the presentations was being given by Brad Hanks (@brandhanks) and I was looking forward to meeting him.  This was great for me, since I was the only one at the convention from my office.  All alone with a few thousand strangers, and I was comforted by the fact that I "knew" one person.  All because of Twitter! 

After I returned to Henderson, I was planning to attend a presentation on Facebook and its uses for business, but was dragging my feet because of the "social" aspect.  I went, and am so thankful that I kicked my butt into going!  I knew one person from Twitter who was going to be there.  Even though I had never met this person, I felt more comfortable going to a room of strangers because of this one virtual friend.  When I walked in, he jumped up and introduced me to everyone as his Twitter Friend.  I was so relieved and immediately felt relaxed.  So relaxed, I ended up helping a couple of participants set up their Twitter accounts and get started!  Now, we are planning some future ventures for social networkiJump Right Inng!

For the socially shy, Twitter is a great way to "meet" people and get to know them.  When you do finally meet in person, you feel as if you already know the person.

If you've been hesitant about joining the Twitter craze-don't be.  Just jump right in.  Feel free to follow me at @kathy_jackson

 

Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Be sure to use the ActiveRain feed to automatically post links to your blogs on Twitter. If you use the Facebook application to Twitter, your blog links will also appear on Facebook.

Follow me on Twitter:  http://twitter.com/roykelley

Apr 23, 2009 04:58 AM
Debi Ernst
St. Charles County, Missouri - Prudential Alliance Realtors - O'Fallon, MO
GRI, e-PRO, Broker/Sales Associate

Kathy - I can relate, because I am naturally shy and quiet, too..  :)

Apr 23, 2009 05:06 AM
Kathy Jackson
RE/MAX Mainstream - Vincennes, IN
Big or small, I sell them ALL!!

Roy-

Thanks for the info.  I feed my blog to Twitter which feeds to FB.  I love having that ability so I'm not constantly updating all my sights.  I just wish I knew how to feed to LinkedIn.  I followed you by the way!

Debi-

Thanks for stopping by.  Glad I'm not the only one!

Apr 23, 2009 05:45 AM
Connie Lou Barnett
Real Living/Home Realty - Owensboro, KY
GRI,CRS,CRB,SRMM,ARA,PRS,SFR,QSC

That is a neat experience.  I always hate going places alone so I know how you felt.  However this turned out to be a great experience for you.  LOL

Apr 23, 2009 06:53 AM
Robert Schwabe
Herron Real Estate - Orange Park, FL
Orange Park Real Estate

Kathy - I just started to use twitter and think it is a great way to connect with people. That's great that knowing someone from twitter made you feel comfortable in a room full of strangers.  

Apr 23, 2009 07:37 AM
Kathy Jackson
RE/MAX Mainstream - Vincennes, IN
Big or small, I sell them ALL!!

Connie Lou- I do too, and usually can't force myself to go. It's just too scary.  I'm glad I kicked myself into going both places!!

Robert-Starting out with Twitter can be tough, but wait til you start following a few and they follow you back!!  Lots of info and networking!

Apr 23, 2009 08:04 AM