So I remember someone once said to me, when faced with an important decision that I should weigh out the pros and cons of each choice I had. I decided not only to do this when I have a decision but also when I decide on my own opinion.
When faced with opposition or a situation that may try to get you down or an experience that wants to present only negatives, sit down and write a list....a "pro" list and a "con" list.... for example: if you lose your job, wreck your car, break a leg, or drop a $100 bill in a parking lot without knowing it.....those all have a negative slant...but you can make your list of pros. which I guarantee will be longer than the cons. You lost your job maybe but you can always find new work, maybe even something you like doing better, that pays better. You may have wrecked your car, but you probably need a new one anyway and at least you weren't driving someone else's car. You may have broken your leg, but you will still be able to walk. you have your family, your friends, your health....there is always something to look forward to or think positively about.
Don't let it get you down, be the star of your own show and write the ending you want and be the BEST character in history!!
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