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School bus flips on highway...Is my daughter on that bus???!!!

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Real Estate Agent with NorthGroup Real Estate/www.TonyORealtor.com 218572

It was Wednesday morning, April 29, 2009.

I volunteered to chaperon my daughter's 5th grade field trip from Cox Mill Elementary to Camp Thunderbird in South Carolina. I was just a few miles away from the camp, when I received the call...

"One of the buses rolled on the highway", was what I was told.

Not sure I was hearing correctly, I asked the caller to repeat herself.

"One of the school buses was in an accident and flipped onto it's side and some of my students are on it!"

The caller was Mrs. Black, my daughter's 5th grade teacher. Now, I was beside myself.

 

Mrs. Black had been following me to the camp. I turned my truck around, met up with her where she had stopped and asked her one of the hardest questions I ever had to ask anyone...

"Is my daughter on that bus?", I asked nervously and knowing I might not like the answer.

"No, only the boys from my class were", was her reply.

I couldn't help but feel great relief. That relief was soon replaced by concern for I know a lot of the boys in Mrs. Black's class and they are great kids.

We decided to continue onto the camp until we received further news and instructions on how to handle this on our end.

Upon arriving at the camp, we saw the parents/chaperons who had already arrived, some with tears in their eyes. They had already heard the news.  Others were looking for answers. We had none to give.

Mrs. Black asked me to help call the parents of the children that were on the bus.

You can't imagine the fear and helplessness I heard in the voices of the parents who didn't know what condition their child was in or even where their child was. I knew I had to keep my composure for their sakes.

We finally received word that the children, from all 3 buses were being taken to the Charlotte-Mecklenburg Police Dept.

We hopped back into our vehicles and were off to get our kids.

We arrived at the Police Station with great anxiety, not knowing what we would find.

A Police officer led us to a room where the children were. I remember opening the door, running all kinds of visions through my head of the condition of the children.

The first thought that came to my mind was, "Is this a party or what?". There were most of the children, running around, eating pizza, drinking juice boxes and by the looks of it, they were having a grand old time.

The parents, on the other hand, looked like they went through the ringer, twice!

Unfortunately, it wasn't as happy an ending for everyone. Some of the students were taken to the hospital to be checked out. Most had scrapes and bruises. One boy had to have surgery for a hemorrhage in his head. He is doing fine. One of the teachers hurt her arm badly. Thankfully, no one was seriously injured.

I am taking this as a wake up call.

We have to always appreciate our loved ones, for we never know what will happen to change our lives forever.

Hug and kiss your child today!

 

 

 

 

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Tony, it is good that no lasting harm was done.  Everyone was blessed to have to learn such a hard lesson.  You are right, every day, tell your loved ones you do love them... show them the same respect you show your boss, your clients. 

Apr 30, 2009 12:05 AM
Judy Jennings
Top Agent Plus - Middleboro, MA
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Tony - A phone call like that is every parents worst nightmare.  Thank God everyone was alright and there were no serious injuries.

Apr 30, 2009 12:14 AM
Cindy Edwards
RE/MAX Checkmate - Johnson City, TN
CRS, GRI, PMN - Northeast Tennessee 423-677-6677

Tony-

a nightmare I'm sure.  I'm glad it was not as tragic as it could have been.

Apr 30, 2009 12:17 AM
Laura Gray
RE/MAX Realty Group - Gaithersburg, MD

Tony - Everyone of those children's parents felt the same fear and anguish you went through that day as well as any parent that saw the news. Mrs Black was fortunate to have you at her side to assist with the notifications.

 

Apr 30, 2009 12:40 AM
Steven L. Smith
King of the House Home Inspection, Inc. - Bellingham, WA
Bellingham WA Home Inspector

Tony,l

I can only imagine the horror of that. Then, you find out your child is okay, relief, but you feel guilty about feeling that with the others still in doubt. Tough situation but it is sure good it was okay.

Apr 30, 2009 02:08 AM
LYDIA LAMOREUX
ZipRealty - Volente, TX

Tony-Thanks for the reminder to hug our loved ones often. What a harrowing experience for you and other parents. It's a relief to know that all are recovering well.

Apr 30, 2009 04:16 AM
Bob & Carolin Benjamin
Benjamin Realty LLC - Gold Canyon, AZ
East Phoenix Arizona Homes

Thank goodness there were no more injuries than there were -- give your kids a hug.

Apr 30, 2009 09:12 AM
Sandy Shores FL Realtor®, Melbourne Real Estate
M & M Realty of Brevard Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Brevard County Real Estate, Florida's Space Coast

TO, It just rips your heart out doesn't it?  You think you're going to lose it when you hear your child maybe involved, even though you're so concerned about all the children.  How is the boy that went to the hospital and the teacher?  Thank goodness it wasn't worse than it was!

Apr 30, 2009 11:52 AM
Barbara S. Duncan
RE/MAX Advantage - Searcy, AR
GRI, e-PRO, Executive Broker, Searcy AR

What a bad scare!  Any time you think your child is in danger you become more and more aged and gray-haired.  I'm glad it turned out okay.

Apr 30, 2009 01:52 PM
Tony Orefice
NorthGroup Real Estate/www.TonyORealtor.com - Concord, NC
Realtor- Cabarrus County, NC

Hi everyone,

thank you for reading this post and expressing your concern and care.

The child who was operated on is recovering nicely as far as I'm told. The teacher is doing better as well.

Some of the other children suffered broken bones, scrapes and bruises. All are doing well!

On a lighter note, the school and some parents put their heads together to come up with an alternate plan for the children to celebrate their senior year at Cox Mill Elementary.

We've approached Great Wolf Lodge, a resort and indoor water park that recently opened here in Concord, NC. They have agreed to welcome the seniors to their facilities sometime next week to help make up for their missed trip and harrowing experience.

I personally sat down with the big wigs at Great Wolf yesterday to run this idea by them only to be informed that the school system had already contacted them the day before. It doesn't matter how it comes to be, all that matters is that it does!   

Hopefully it will happen and then I can let you know about it in a post.

Take care...

May 01, 2009 12:57 AM
Ann Allen Hoover
RE/MAX Advantage South - Hoover, AL
CDPE SRES ASP e-PRO Realtor - Homes for Sale - AL

Tony!  I am so glad this was no worse!  I remember a scare involving my son when he was in third grade....I was close to irrational and frightened beyond anything I knew before that.  Thankfully, good news came before expected and we were so blessed.....many don't have such happy news.  It's been many years since that scare, and when I think of the trivial worries I panic about now......thank you for the reminder that many of our worries are not as bad as they could be.

May 01, 2009 02:07 PM
Bill Gassett
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Hopkinton, MA
Metrowest Massachusetts Real Estate

Good to hear the story ended well. Most of the time something like this would end in trajedy.

May 01, 2009 11:55 PM
Tony Orefice
NorthGroup Real Estate/www.TonyORealtor.com - Concord, NC
Realtor- Cabarrus County, NC

Hi Ann and Bill,

Thank you for reading and posting. Yes, things could have turned out worse. Thank God they didn't.

May 02, 2009 09:49 AM
Laura Giannotta
Keller Williams Realty - Atlantic Shore - Little Egg Harbor, NJ
Your Realtor Down the Shore!

That had to be frightening!  Let's hope for a speedy recovery for those injured.

May 03, 2009 06:00 AM
Gail Szeluga & JoAnna Siminerio
Coldwell Banker Realty - Manalapan/Marlboro - Manalapan, NJ
Fostering Community Spirit Through Real Estate

Scary!  Truly a wake up call for all involved.  Makes you look at the challenges of your day in a whole new way!

May 03, 2009 11:58 AM
Leesa Finley
RED Properties - Wake Forest, NC
RED Properties - Raleigh NC Real Estate

omg - what a horrible feeling that must have been.  I can't imagine what you were going through.  I hope that those whoe were hurt recover quickly and do NOT have any lasting effects from the whole ordeal. 

May 04, 2009 12:43 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Tony - There is no parental experience as anxiety causing, as enduring something like you describe here in your blog.  I have 4 children and 7 grandchildren, so you know I've probably experienced it at least once or twice.  I am so glad your daughter is fine, and that the kids will all be ok.  AND, don't you just marvel at how you can be pulling your hair out worrying about kids, while they are hooping it up in party mode with Pizza and soda pop!  Talk about resilience.

May 05, 2009 10:56 AM
Tony Orefice
NorthGroup Real Estate/www.TonyORealtor.com - Concord, NC
Realtor- Cabarrus County, NC

Hi Ladies,

thanks for stopping by and commenting on this post. This one was hard for me to write for I had to relive an awful ordeal.

Thankfully, all the children are on the mend and almost all are back to school.

Children are resilient!!

May 07, 2009 03:11 PM
Russel Ray, San Diego Business & Marketing Consultant & Photographer
Russel Ray - San Diego State University, CA

Glad it wasn't as bad as it could have been. This is the kind of story that I like to dig deeper into, though, and find out why the bus rolled.

May 10, 2009 04:11 AM
Tony Orefice
NorthGroup Real Estate/www.TonyORealtor.com - Concord, NC
Realtor- Cabarrus County, NC

Hey Russel,

Are you ready for this?... a bee had gotten into the bus and the driver was trying to swat it out the driver's side window....she lost control of the bus, tried to compensate, over compensated, then over compensated again...causing the bus to flip!

You wanted to know...

Update

A new resort for Concord, NC...the Great Wolf Lodge is giving the 5th graders a free day at their resort. Isn't that great!! They will have full run of all the amenities. Parents can join them for a small fee.

I intend to go and take photos of the kids and all the fun they will have. I'll share them with you in a post.

Tony

May 10, 2009 09:30 AM