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Chip On Your Shoulder

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage 01457023

It was as if a dark dense storm cloud walked into the office. Even the little perky bell that tells us that someone has opened the door noticed the negative vibe and it dulled its chipper chime. That was the general attitude of the the vendor who walked through the door last week to meet about their latest product enhancement.

As I approached him, I felt hesitation. The body language was hunched and defeated and almost instantly I began to regret the meeting. Nonetheless, he was there, so was I and the meeting had to take place. The 15 minute exchange seemed to take hours as he fumbled through his presentation. Eye contact was non-existent and I had to struggle to hear him.

I was actually intesested in his product at first but as the meeting went on I began to loose confidence in him and thus his offer. Altogether it was a mess.

The chip that he carried was on his shoulder was heavy and it showed. What amazed me was that he actually kept the meeting with me. He might have been better served moving it to a different day when he could have presented with more enthusiasm. Either way as we walked out I dismissed his card, took a moment to re-set my mood and move on with the rest of the day.

As sales people, we need to be mindful of the way our mood affects our clientele. So if you have a cloud hanging over you on presentation day, get rid of it or re-schedule.

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James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Yes sir I understand fully, however in the other person's defense you don't know what (if any) thing he (she) just went through.  They may have presentated the same thing to someone else just shortly before you and got a tounge lashing from h---.  So their confidence was shattered.  I agree they should have shaken it off when they came into your office but some can't and thats why they need to be looking for somewhere else to work.. My 2 cents

May 06, 2009 10:38 PM
Victoria Murphy
Sotheby's International Realty - Santa Fe, NM
Santa Fe, NM

Hugo,

I came out of 20+ years in sales and marketing and I cannot tell you how often I had to remind my people to keep that smile on their face.  Even when they answered the phone they were trained to pretend they were looking into a mirror - Smiling.  It works.

May 09, 2009 01:14 PM