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Wait a Minute ... Who Am I Talking To?

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Real Estate Agent with Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty

I am, thankfully, getting really busy once again.  I am working with many different buyers and I am showing a lot of houses.  It is getting difficult to keep things straight.  I had some odd things happen during phone calls lately.  I have spoken before about how incredibly visual I am.  I don't remember if that is a left brain right brain thing but when I talk about a person or think about a house I have shown, I form a picture in my mind in order to fully address the voice on the phone.  Even someone I have not met has a mental clue card, sort of an avatar of my own design, but a picture none the less.  Lately my pictures have been slow to come or confused because of high traffic.  Please excuse me while I adjust the picture.

Yes, if you call for feedback on the listing I showed last week it might just be too late unless I am in front of a computer so I can pull up the listing or I still have the printed listing in my file and that file with me.  I need to "see" the house in order to remember.  Street numbers and names have no meaning.  You might be surprised to hear me ask what color was it or does it have a long driveway?  I just have to see in order to access my mental "file drawer" for what I have shown.  Please try to call or email for feedback as soon as possible after a showing or I may have lost your listing in the pile!

Clue Card
There You Are, Now I Remember!


It can be quite upsetting to me to be halfway through a Foot in Mouthconversation with someone and realize that my mouth is talking to one person but the picture in my mind has me thinking about someone totally different.  I sometimes find myself feeling awful, even though I don't think the person on the other end can guess, but it is happening a lot more with the increase in business.  It makes me stumble sometimes because I am just about ready to open my big mouth and talk about a house that this caller has been interested in and my slow brain finds the right "clue card" and I catch myself before I insert my foot into my big mouth.  

Not that I am complaining about being busy.  I actually think my creative juices flow more freely when my world is a blur of confusion.  I just have to remember to write everything down or it gets thrown into the pile of pictures in that messy brain of mine and may never be found again.  I still say keep 'um coming and I will find a way to keep up!

I'm Paddy Pizappi - Work with Me and You'll be Happy!


 

Comments(26)

Elizabeth Bolton
RE/MAX Destiny Real Estate Cambridge, MA - Cambridge, MA
Cambridge MA Realtor

Hi Paddy ~ So interesting how the mind works - or doesn't - ha! I often need the listing agent's name to remember a property - I guess that's my cue card. Doesn't work for remembering clients' names unfortunately.  And absolutely - right now I'm breaking out old tracking systems - I could skate by without them when it wasn't as busy but no longer.

Liz

May 12, 2009 12:16 AM
Maureen McCabe
HER Realtors - Columbus, OH
Columbus Ohio Real Estate

I was talking to a lender named Mindy thinking she was a consumer named Mindy who I had just had a message from recently.  They both called in at almost the exact same time. Mindy the  consumer had left a message a few minutes earlier and we played phone tag.  Mindy the lender knew right away I was NOT talking to her.

I can remember people better than houses often so for me I can often remember homes I show by who the listing agent is more than the address.

May 12, 2009 12:29 AM
Lindsey Hasford
Edina Realty - Elk River, MN
Bringing you home...

Paddy - I've often thought it'd be nice if we could take snapshots of our clients (just like we do houses) to keep in front of us! I tend to remember faces better than names and have "spaced out" a few times.

May 12, 2009 12:35 AM
Frank & Jodi Orlando
Frank & Jodi Orlando Get Us A Home Realty Atlanta Homes Sale - Cumming, GA

It's funny how I can remember a home 6 months from now better than a few days ago. Want feed back? Call me the day after or 6 months from now Lol.

May 12, 2009 12:37 AM
Richard Shuman
The Only B.S. I Have is from the University of Massachusetts - Lake Mary, FL
Real Estate Broker - Orlando Area - Love Referrals

I am glad to hear that your busy again.

May 12, 2009 12:55 AM
Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

Paddy...

This is me TOO!!! I can't remember the address ...but I would ask something like: "Oh, was that the stinky house?"

Featured in the Group "Whacked!!!

May 12, 2009 12:56 AM
Paddy (Patricia) Pizappi
Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty - Pine Bush, NY
Real Estate Associate Broker Hudson Valley NY

I know it's in there somewhere Ed.  come on you can remember can't you?

Oh a tracking system.  Good idea Liz do they have them in picture book form?

Now that is a real problem Maureen ... we need subtitles to go with the pictures.

 There you go Lindsey I can add the pics to Liz's tracking system.

It's one way or the other I think Frank and Jodi!

May 12, 2009 12:57 AM
Paddy (Patricia) Pizappi
Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty - Pine Bush, NY
Real Estate Associate Broker Hudson Valley NY

Thanks Richard S and that No Bull!

Thanks for the feature Richard W.  Everyone who remember's by smell raise your hand, LOL

May 12, 2009 12:59 AM
Teresa Harris
Lake Real Estate, LLC - Denver, NC
Denver . Lake Norman . Charlotte

Hi Paddy, I am excited that business is picking up in your area....now can you send some down south!?!?!?!?!?! Have a GREAT day!!

May 12, 2009 01:26 AM
Paddy (Patricia) Pizappi
Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty - Pine Bush, NY
Real Estate Associate Broker Hudson Valley NY

It is coming Teresa.  Get ready and have faith.

May 12, 2009 01:32 AM
Jennifer Fivelsdal
JFIVE Home Realty LLC | 845-758-6842|162 Deer Run Rd Red Hook NY 12571 - Rhinebeck, NY
Mid Hudson Valley real estate connection

Paddy - In this market we are showing more homes, it is hard to remember each house for feedback.  I like to get the feedback request right away and I usually fill these out immediately, I have a problem when I get a call a couple weeks later.

May 12, 2009 02:04 AM
Paddy (Patricia) Pizappi
Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty - Pine Bush, NY
Real Estate Associate Broker Hudson Valley NY

I have that same problem Jennifer and I find it odd that the listing agents seem puzzled that I don't remember after that much time.

May 12, 2009 02:26 AM
Sally Dunbar
Lyon Real Estate, Fair Oaks CA (Sacramento Area) - Fair Oaks, CA
Fair Oaks Realtor - Fair Oaks Homes for Sale

Paddy - it's a good problem to have, however... too much going on to keep it all straight.  It's easy to organize one.

May 12, 2009 02:32 AM
Paddy (Patricia) Pizappi
Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty - Pine Bush, NY
Real Estate Associate Broker Hudson Valley NY

Yes when there is one you can keep notes on your hand, Sally.  Oh no do I get in trouble for cheating like that??

May 12, 2009 02:40 AM
Greg Nino
RE/MAX Compass - Houston, TX
Houston, Texas

Getting Busy Again? WOOO HOOO

May 12, 2009 08:31 AM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Paddy - so what's your point? ;^)  Glad to see you so busy your getting dizzy (note, I did not write ditzy). I get that way myself at times, especially when someone calls a week later wanting feedback.

May 12, 2009 08:44 AM
Paddy (Patricia) Pizappi
Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty - Pine Bush, NY
Real Estate Associate Broker Hudson Valley NY

Greg I thought Sally was here for a minute.  Thanks for the comment and the Woo Hoo!

I should hope not sir.  I may be a lot of things but ditzy is not one of them!  Have a good one Mike.

May 12, 2009 09:10 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

Paddy...

Boy am I relieved. I thought I was the only one who had 'mental' pictures in my head :)

TLW...ROAR!

May 12, 2009 10:58 AM
Paddy (Patricia) Pizappi
Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty - Pine Bush, NY
Real Estate Associate Broker Hudson Valley NY

Yes Billie there are many of us.  They say the first step to recovery is admitting we have a problem! 

May 12, 2009 08:16 PM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

LOL...

Excellent come back :)

Now where did I leave my tin foil hat? :)

TLW...ROAR!

May 13, 2009 02:51 AM