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We ain't down yet.

By
Real Estate Agent with Novella Real Estate

survivorsAn interesting local story this week got me to thinking about how it relates to us in our business.  Let me share the story.

A local dinner theater closed it's doors  after many years in the business.

The unknowing cast showed up to perform "Evita" but were greeted by a note attached to locked doors. It was also payday so not only did the entire cast learn they would not be paid but were unemployed.  Double ouch!

How did they react?  There in the rain, they performed a glorious and brave final act.  Without benefit of costumes or props they sang, danced and performed for a meager crowd.

The show went on.

This heartwarming story brought tears to my eyes.  It is an example of dedicated people continuing on in the face of adversity. They obviously loved their work and didn't want to disappoint the audience. The troupe living in the moment expressed a joy and dedication to their work.

Their behavior and response was a fine tribute to  the performers who came before them, the final show ended with its own kind of power and grace.

Each day we face the possibility of rejection. Sometimes we win, sometimes we lose. How we act in either event is a measure of our success.

We can lose, and still maintain the dignity and grace of a professional, then we are winners.  If we lose and resort to anger we lose twice.

Our business isn't about winning all the time, it's about moving forward, getting better and enjoying the journey.

I love the line from an old move called, "The Unsinkable Molly Brown."  Molly was a poor girl who married and became rich. She lived through rich and poor, survived the Titanic and continued on to become part of Denver's Society.  One of her lines in the movie was, "We ain't down yet!"

We ain't down until we stop trying. 

Christy Powers
Keller Williams Coastal Area Partners - Pooler, GA
Pooler, Savannah Real Estate Agent
Great post. It is so true. We are sometimes are own worst enemies. It's easier to give up than to fight it out!
May 28, 2007 02:50 PM
Cyndee Haydon
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
727-710-8035 Clearwater, Beach Short Sales Luxury Condos &Homes
KK - great story - you do it so well! I gave you some link-love in my Localism post tdoay- held you up as a great role model - speaking from experience :-) So you may see some new faces!  
May 28, 2007 03:10 PM
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The analogy you found and that you shared it with this incredible photo that says it all are two reasons why I subscribe to your BLOG. Thank you!
May 28, 2007 03:51 PM
Ana Connell
G & C Properties - Burbank, CA
Burbank Real Estate Agent
Great post Kristal!  What a great story, and I fully agree that it's the journey and your persistence that count.
May 28, 2007 04:09 PM
Vickie Arcuri
Coldwell Banker Realty - Fort Lauderdale, FL
South Florida Luxury Real Estate

BRAVO!  Great post! These 2 lines summed it up for me:

"Our business isn't about winning all the time, it's about moving forward, getting better and enjoying the journey"

"We ain't down until we stop trying"

Keep up the GREAT work! 

 

 

May 28, 2007 05:03 PM
Brian Schulman
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage, Lancaster PA - Lancaster, PA
Lancaster County PA RealEstate Expert 717-951-5552
Kristal, well written, and a beautiful graphic, too.  It's not what happens to us, it's how we react to what happens to us.
May 28, 2007 05:50 PM
Sandra Williams
Rancon Real Estate - Temecula, CA
Perfect post for all of the Realtors, Lenders, and other related professions. It was well said---I hear scared people everyday in the office, not used to today's market. This is a great time to work on ourselves and to slow down and "enjoy the journey."
May 28, 2007 09:33 PM
Bruce Swedal
Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate
I have been watching this in the news.  How the actors responded was incredible.
May 29, 2007 12:52 AM
Dianne Barody
Century 21 AmeriSouth Realty - Pensacola, FL
Pensacola Florida Real Estate
Thank you Krystal!! This story inspired me to keep pressing forward.
May 29, 2007 04:05 AM
Anonymous
housetxtr

KK,

Great picture. I love the upbeat attitude you carry with you in all of your posts, always a good read. And as a side note... I am going to miss the Playhouse, that was a guaranteed good time.

May 29, 2007 04:39 AM
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Esko Kiuru
Bethesda, MD

Kristal,

How fitting to today's dismal market conditions in many regions. It's all up to you and your attitude as how you manage hardship and eventually come out of it. It often is easier said than done, though. Yet, it's achievable.

May 29, 2007 06:54 AM
Ed DeChristopher
Fredericksburg Realty, Inc. - Fredericksburg, VA
CRS Fredericksburg VA

How about this for a worthwhile comment:

People will walk over you until you stand up!

May 30, 2007 05:00 AM
Kaye Thomas
Real Estate West - Manhattan Beach, CA
e-PRO, Manhattan Beach CA
kk-Even with so many comments.. just wanted to say.. this is terrific.. I would hav eloved to have seen them.. hope they find a new home soon..
May 30, 2007 02:48 PM
Kaye Thomas
Real Estate West - Manhattan Beach, CA
e-PRO, Manhattan Beach CA
kk-Even with so many comments..#72 here... just wanted to say.. this is terrific.. I would have loved to have seen them.. hope they find a new home soon..
May 30, 2007 02:48 PM
Kristal Kraft
Novella Real Estate - Denver, CO
Selling Metro Denver Real Estate - 303-589-2022

Thank you everyone for such wonderful comments and support!  I am always thrilled to read your stories, comments and perspectives! What an awesome group we have, our own bloggers standing in the rain!

 I'm off for a short ROAD TRIP tomorrow and I need to get some sleep...

I'll be blogging from the car...maybe, ttyl,

kk 

p.s. did I say THANK YOU?  THANK YOU!!!! 

May 30, 2007 04:36 PM
Nick and Joslyn Solomon
Century 21 Moline Realty - Cambridge, MN
The Solomon Team - Century 21 Moline Realty, Inc.
Very cool story.  What good is anything that you do if you're not proud of it and don't love it, at least in some aspect?  As crazy as it sounds to some people, I used to work at a grocery store, and I loved it.  I made a difference EVERY DAY THAT I WAS THERE in someone's life.  I was very proud of my work, and a lot of people locally recognize me for that, even after all these years.  :)
May 31, 2007 09:46 AM
Ed DeChristopher
Fredericksburg Realty, Inc. - Fredericksburg, VA
CRS Fredericksburg VA
KK - There are no short road trips from Denver!
Jun 01, 2007 11:43 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

Wow, great stuff Kristal.  Even before I read this, I became a subscriber...was given the heads up by a few smart souls here. 

This story, this post, says so much about perseverance and the power it has in making us a success in any endeavor in life.  I've passed this post on to several of my peers, I'll be sifting through your 'Amazing' 400 Plus Posts along the way.  Thanks!

Jun 12, 2007 10:23 PM
Lola Audu
Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate - Grand Rapids, MI
Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI ~Welcome Home!

Kristal, I loved the picture of the tulips thrusting their blooms bravely through the ground cover of snow!  A picture is worth a thousand words.  Like you said in your post...we are the ones who make the decision to move forward...not the market! Thanks for a great post.

Jun 14, 2007 07:58 AM
Jennifer Steck
Rocky Mountain Homescapes, Keller Williams, Denver Colorado - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate
Kristal, They were amazing and inspiring. The show must go on. Thanks for the encouragement and wonderful analogy.
Jun 15, 2007 02:51 PM