CAN WE PAY FORWARD OUT OF THIS MESS?

By
Real Estate Agent with Century 21 Olde Tyme

Yes, I know we have all heard the bad news of today's housing, economics, jobs, healthcare and more.  Not only have we heard about it adnauseam, quit a few of us have or are living it.  But I just have to get my few words in.

 This has certainly been a year of firsts. A new president, not a first, but this one happens to be "African American" and that IS a first. There are new programs for America to numerous to mention.  Some good, some... we just have to wait and see. How these programs effect you and me is what is important.  Because you see the entire United States is made of yous and me's.  If it effects you, sooner or latter, it will effect me and visa versa. It is easy for those who have not really been affected by losing a home or job to say, well just roll up your sleeves and get busy. It's not always that easy. Here in America we are big hearted and yet we have a way of feeling..."if it doesn't effect me directly it's not my business."  I have heard quite a few individuals say those without jobs are "losers." They are not taking into consideration those that lost their jobs due to downsizing or the company closing it doors.  And if you think right now it is easy to get a new job, go out and try it.

 I am old enough to remember what the recovery of the Depression of 1929 was like.  Yes, I had the ration books and still do.  EVERYTHING was rationed, food, i.e. sugar, coffee, salt and so much more. Gas was rationed tires were impossible to obtain and did you know they stopped making new personal cars?  Yep! They did. I think they began again in 1948 but I might be off a year. In those days everything went to the war effort, not so today.  Now you might wonder what all this has to do with us today.

 Well, people were made homeless by the tens of thousands. There were soup kitchens (as they were called in the day). There were people; whole families sleeping in the parks and streets. Sound familiar?

 Now we always have had and I guess we will always have homeless people.  It's sad but true.  However not like today.  When it is so bad that they are setting up tent cities in cities parks then you know we are in deep trouble.

 When the unemployment rate is quoted by the government it is only telling us about those that are still on the unemployed rolls, not the ones that are still jobless and have run out of benefits. So you can add hundreds of thousands to the number that you hear on your TV news.  

 Each person represents someone that has a family, either a husband/wife and children or parents. Therefore one unemployed person can effect at the very least two to six or more individuals.  Of course when an individual loses their income they cannot buy or pay for goods or existing credit, homes, cars, credit cards, utility bills and on and on the story goes.

 Yes, there are thousands of homes on the market right now which is what interests Realtors, but if you are not qualified to handle the foreclosures then you are left to work with the buyers only.  What's the problem with that you say?  Well, in trying to close the gate after all the horses bolted out, we are now trying to go back to where we were many years ago.  Large down payments, I'm not saying that is bad, I am saying it really limits our buying market.  If our buyers get a second for the down payment they are right where we were when we got into this mess; huge monthly payments.

 Will we get out of this mess?  Of course we will, but we won't get out of it by 2010 like the news would like you to believe.  Until we can find work of all of the unemployed it won't matter what the president does. In order to buy, pay and have credit you must first have a job. That is going to take a while when you consider all of the companies that have failed in this economy and the millions that are now out of work...

 Well, what do we do, you ask?  I say we help all of those that have been caught in the battle of the economic war.  How?  Food banks, babysitting, paying it forward, gently used clothes donations, anyway we can.  All of us know someone that has been affected that we could help without affronting them. We need to start a movement within our industry. Each and every company could start a food drive by bringing in non perishable food and giving it to the food banks. Did you know that the food banks are running out of food for the homeless?  Well they are. To those of us that have an income what is a can or two of vegetables or fruit, a box of crackers, raisins for a child's lunch. What about going through your closets and getting rid of the clothes you and your children don't use any more? Shoes that are gently worn are also needed. Toys your children have out grown or don't play with any more. And don't forget about the animals. Dog and cat food is needed also.  It is a wonderful thing to PAY FORWARD and I know as Realtors we can do a great job.

Let us hear how you and/or your company are getting involved and helping in this time of need in our country.  I know we will hear wonderful stories of acts of kindness.

 

 

 Cowgirl 





Comments (10)

Mike Montague
sales representative : Keller Williams Experience Realty - Barrie, ON
"Who Moves You?"

Some good observations. You were not there to witness the depression of 1929.... The horse on the left maybe, but not the girl on the right in that picture. I have gotten involved with the Habitat for Humanity group over the past year. Feels good to contribute something.

Here is something I wrote a few months ago you might enjoy.

http://activerain.com/blogsview/833060/-i-qualify-therefore-i-am-

May 28, 2009 02:57 PM
Roberta Lee
Century 21 Olde Tyme - Norco, CA
Norco Corona Riversid Homes For Sale

     Mike,

You are always soooo sweet.  Old pictures are such an ego boost!  Thanks for stopping by and helping to get me started again after such a long absence.  You are a dear.

Cowgirl 





May 28, 2009 03:18 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Roberta, It is SO nice to see you back!  You were missed.......I try to always pay it forward and just this week donated hundreds of dollars in household items that I no longer use.  Some are brand new and worth money but I thought of the people that don't have any and hope it helps some.

May 28, 2009 04:03 PM
Roberta Lee
Century 21 Olde Tyme - Norco, CA
Norco Corona Riversid Homes For Sale

Carole,

What a wonderful thing to do.  Have you started a group effort in your office yet?  Easy to do, just get a new garbage can and have your agents bring in the things they can.  Thank you for commenting  and for welcoming me back.  I really appreciate it. 

Cowgirl 





May 28, 2009 04:59 PM
Fred Carver Personal Real Estate Corporation
RE/MAX Camosun Victoria BC Real Estate - Victoria, BC
Accredited Real Estate Consultant

Hi Roberta...Depression Girl Hey..Well That's Just Fine, you'll know the values we and others have lost or never learned, and yes helping others is key to building our economy. And especially these left with nothing and not due to their own doing. Lets Spin off our unwanted Things to those that can use them...they will appreciate our help.

Cheers...Glad to see you again :O)

May 29, 2009 10:38 AM
Roberta Lee
Century 21 Olde Tyme - Norco, CA
Norco Corona Riversid Homes For Sale

Hi Fred,

Well I wasn't born during the depression, but as we were trying to recover only to step into the Second World War.  But you are right. I was here when good credit meant you bought with cash and owed no man anything.  I do believe one of the worst things that happened to this country is the advent of credit cards. Just try to pay cash for a car or house.  Even something as mundane as tires for your car.  People will stare at you like you are crazy.  It is time to teach our children what honest to goodness money is and how you EARN it, SAVE it and spend it wisely.

Thank you for the help of PAYING IT FORWARD. There are so many people that will thank you.  Also thank you for stopping by and commenting.

 Cowgirl 





May 29, 2009 02:32 PM
Michael Cole
CPG Tours - Orange, CA

Hi Roberta,

What a great great post! I think people get caught up in there own problems, and tend to forget about others. And even if they don't have much to give, they could always donate a little of their time.

You made the comment, '...one of the worst things that happened to this country is the advent of credit cards.' I'm with you a 1,000% on that one. Truer words have never been spoken! My grandfather never bought anything on credit. He paid cash for everything he ever owned - houses, cars, everything. He never had all that much, but he was never stressed either.

Thanks for your post.

May 30, 2009 12:56 AM
Roberta Lee
Century 21 Olde Tyme - Norco, CA
Norco Corona Riversid Homes For Sale

Michael,

Thank you so much for your comments.

I remember when I was about 3 I was at the movies with my aunt who raised me.  I escaped some how and left the theater and went next door to the Ice cream parlor.  I ask the lady for an ice cream cone and when she gave it to me I said, "charge it."  I had just seen that in a movie.  Well, to make a long story short when I went back into the theater my aunt saw the cone and we went back to the ice cream store and she paid for the cone.  When we got home I got a lesson in paying for what you buy.  I couldn't sit down for dinner. 

 

 Cowgirl 





May 30, 2009 04:44 AM
Michael Cole
CPG Tours - Orange, CA

Hi Roberta,

Now that's a funny story! I can only imagine what the lady at the ice-cream store must have been thinking. : )

May 31, 2009 12:29 AM
Roberta Lee
Century 21 Olde Tyme - Norco, CA
Norco Corona Riversid Homes For Sale

 Michael,

According to my aunt (whom I was living with at the time) the lady thought it was just to funny.  I guess I was a pistol that day because the story is long and I got into more mischief that day and when we got home,.....I got it.  It has been a family story for the telling for all of these years.  Thanks for your comments and I hope you have a great Sunday.

Cowgirl 





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