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Are You a Real Estate Soap Opera Star?

By
Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty Partners, Inc.

Today was one of THOSE days. When I woke up this morning, there should have been a deep-voiced narrator saying; "Like homes in the MLS, these are the "Days of Our Realtors..."

In college, at the University of Kansas, I was always late for my 1 o'clock class because I couldn't miss "Days of Our Lives." Having grown to love the drama surrounding Salem's most interesting families, I escaped into their world one hour at a time. However, the excitement of starring in a real life soap opera is something that I can do without.

My day started with a frantic phone call from a co-op agent about a situation that threatened to derail the transaction and needed my immediate attention. The tone of the agent's voice inferred that an indestructible meteor the size of Arrowhead Stadium was hurtling toward Kansas City and would strike at any second. Yet, this serious problem -- the one threatening to derail the transaction; the one needing my undivided and immediate attention, was resolved by making a couple of quick phone calls.

This afternoon, I received a phone call from an equally distraught but less intense co-op agent, regarding another Earth-shattering disruption to the real estate/closing continuum. Again, a few quick phone calls remedied the situation.

By this evening, the animated phone calls and "urgent" matters were adding up like murders in Cabot Cove and I was Jessica Fletcher. And, while each issue was pressing, the dramatic dialogue was overkill. Every transaction has hiccups. What if we made client calls this way? Would it instill a sense of confidence or sense of incompetence?

I work hard to reassure my clients and colleagues that I am capable of handling problems that arise unexpectedly. Is it too much to expect the same from fellow real estate agents?

Some agents act as if we deal in life and death situations in which seconds count. The reality is that from contract-to-close, real estate transactions can typically take 3-4 weeks to complete. And, according to Steven Covey, not everything that is urgent is important. Conversely, not everything that is important is urgent. 

As Realtors we have two choices when dealing with a challenging real estate transaction: panic as if the world is coming to an end or simply find a solution. I prefer the latter. And, I prefer to keep my soap operas on television.

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Regina P. Brown
MBA Broker Consultants - Carlsbad, CA
M.B.A., Broker, Instructor

Jonathan, so if MY life is boring, instead of watching a soap opera, I can just read your blog about YOUR life!  What a great imagination you have, and a wonderful writer.

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Jun 05, 2009 06:37 PM
Fernando Herboso - Associate Broker MD, & VA
Maxus Realty Group of Samson Properties - Clarksburg, MD
301-246-0001 Serving Maryland, DC and Northern VA

With so many soap stars electing to become Realtors . . in my area, I'm the character that puts the fires out and deal with over inflated egos.

Jun 05, 2009 10:07 PM
Gabrielle Kamahele Rhind
KGC Properties LLC, Tucson Property Management & Real Estate - Tucson, AZ
Broker/Owner

GOOD MORNING JONATHAN!  Great tie in with soap operas!  I like your take on things -- just find a solution.  I worked with an agent once that I termed "Panic Patty" - everything was a crisis - and it all came with enormous amounts of drama.  She'd fit right into a soap opera no doubt!  Thanks for the smile this morning! -- Gabrielle

Jun 05, 2009 11:33 PM
Laura Gray
RE/MAX Realty Group - Gaithersburg, MD

Jonathan - Great Post - There are always agents that make me shudder if they write an offer on one of my listings. I know that the drama is just beginning to unfold. I always make sure I take a deep breath and count to five (sometimes ten) before I respond to any of their antics.

Life is too short and there are too many other problems that truly need my attention.

Jun 05, 2009 11:49 PM
Norma J. Elkins
Elite Realty Group - Morristown, TN
Realtor - Elkins Home Selling Team

Great post Jonathan --- Sometimes, it does seem like a soap opera in our office --- Stay tuned!!!

Jun 05, 2009 11:54 PM
Harry F. D'Elia III
WEDO Real Estate and Beyond, LLC - Phoenix, AZ
Investor , Mentor, GRI, Radio, CIPS, REOs, ABR

It is Saturday morning and I am enjoying your post with a nice cup of coffee. Thanks for sharing this with us this morning.

Jun 06, 2009 12:27 AM
Eric Villaverde
DoubleTree Home Inspection Services L.L.C. - Phoenix, AZ

I really enjoyed reading your post this morning. I am always learning different things here on AR. Have a great day.

Jun 06, 2009 12:35 AM
Katiejo Franks
Real Estate and Beyond, LLC - Scottsdale, AZ

Thanks for sharing your wisdom on a Saturday morning. I wish you the best for the entire day. See you tomorrow.

Jun 06, 2009 12:38 AM
Betina Foreman
WJK Realty - Austin, TX
Realtor, C.N.E., with WJK REALTY

I have to agree. I am all about finding a solution. I don't want to be a soap opera star. The problem remains when the other side acts as if the world is coming to an end on every issue. They get more panicked when you remain calm and deal with whatever the crisis is.

Jun 06, 2009 03:01 AM