If Only We Knew As Much As We Think We Do!

By
Real Estate Agent with Port City Realty 54149

I was reading about a man named Paul who was a conscientious objector during World War II and served his alternative service as an orderly in a violent ward of a mental hospital. Paul and other orderlies received bruises and broken bones but they did not retaliate. They found creative ways to help the patients through non-violent ways and as a result they actually began transforming mental health care in America.

Years later Paul was asked why he chose to serve his country this way. He said Jesus was non-violent and his understanding was that he was suppose to follow Jesus's non-violent example. And then added, "But I could be wrong."

It occurs to me that Paul's life and statement exemplifies that a person can live what they believe, without imposing their beliefs on others. He also openly acknowledged that he didn't know everything.

I read in a lot of blogs here on active rain where people are debating on different topics. Don't get me wrong I enjoy a good debate. But sometimes people very passionately are convinced that their way is the only correct, and sometimes the only ethical way to do business. Sometimes this is even done with quite a bit of name calling and insults. We would do good to follow Paul's lead and realize that we truly don't know everything and what is right for us, may not be what is right for someone else.

Comments (6)

Robert May
Robert W May - Lethbridge Real Estate - Lethbridge, AB
Real estate consulting

I am a firm believer that everyone else is entitled to their wrong opinions.  I am not a big fan of those who impose their ideologies, beliefs, or opinions upon others.  It is a reputations that the USA has become famous for, hopefully the current administration can repair some of this perception.

Jun 20, 2009 09:03 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

I have to agree with you and addd...I wish most the agents I deal with new 1/2 as much as they think they do.

Jun 20, 2009 09:08 AM
John Mulkey
TheHousingGuru.com - Waleska, GA
Housing Guru

Julie, what a refreshing thought! If only everyone could realize that we can be passionate about our beliefs, but "we can be wrong."

Jun 20, 2009 09:11 AM
Matt Listro
National Credit Fixers - Matt Listro - Vernon, CT
Your Credit Repair Expert

Hi Julie: Sounds like Paul is a good role model for everyone!

:)

Jun 20, 2009 09:31 AM
Mike Eddy
Coldwell Banker Island Properties - Wailea, HI
Maui Real Estate Broker

Julie - That's a great story...and words we can all learn from! I wish more people felt the same way.

Mike

Jun 20, 2009 12:03 PM
michelangelo vasco
mvp realty inc. - Manhattan, NY

Too many know it alls in this business who after 6 months working experence think they have seen and know all there is to know. After 18 years selling real estate the only thing I know for sure is there is allways more to learn

Jul 21, 2009 07:03 PM

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