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Motivational Monday: Farrah's Story

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Second Self Virtual Assistance

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With all the hubub surrounding Michael Jackson's death, you may have forgotten that we lost another American icon on Thursday morning as well: Farrah Fawcett.  I didn't realize how amazing this woman was until I watched "Farrah's Story" on Saturday.  Her courage in the face of her devastating disease is a true inspiration to all and I would highly recommend you grab a box of tissues, shut off all exterior distractions and watch the entire documentary.  I dare you not to be affected by this amazing woman.  There were two pieces of her writing that affected me the most that I would like to share here.

After learning her cancer had come back with a vengence, she wrote:

I'm lyin gin bed, trying to sleep with an IV in my hand
But it's not drugs that fill my body today, but despair
Outside my window, it's pouring rain...that big drop rain
  that has always evoked all my senses since childhood.
How I love the thunderous roar that preceeds it and
  the sweet scent it leaves behind.
Somehow, I take comfort in the fact that this purest of water
  is cleansing everything in its paths
So much like the chemicals that flow down a tube and into my veins.
I was just thinking how much I would miss the rain.
Sometimes, I wonder whether I would be able to experience it from heaven.
Maybe God lets you dip your wings down into the rain if only for an instant.
That would be nice.

And a poem she wrote for her son, Redmond (one I think all Moms can relate to):

For Redmond my boy, I will always be there.
When you are so very young, I will always be there.
When you fall, I will always be there.
When you are over 6 feet tall, I will always be there.
When one day you wake up and realize that I am gone, I will still be there.
Always...Always with you, forever in you.  Redmond, my boy, I will always be there.

There is dignity and grace in fighting for your life.  Farrah Fawcett showed us this.  May God bless her family and friends left behind.

Heather Chavez - Second Self Virtual Assistance: When There Isn't Enough of You to Go Around!

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The Brewer Team - Benchmark Realty
Benchmark Realty - Franklin, TN

Heather - I agree with you. Micheal was a sck man, and even though he was talented, I wouldn't want my family around him. Farrah on the other hand was always a good person.

Jun 29, 2009 01:52 AM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

I just wanted to have some focus on other people that left a positive impression on the world, Elizabeth.  I don't want to bash Michael Jackson because he is someone's father, someone's brother, someone's uncle and someone's son.  However, there were other positive people that recently passed away who deserve some of the spotlight, too.  Farrah was one such person.

Jun 29, 2009 02:13 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Heather - I had followed much of Farrah's career from the 1970s.  She lived such an amazing career and life.  I'm certain this is a great loss not only for her fans, but especially her family.

Jun 29, 2009 05:00 AM
Chris Fisher
Your Virtual Assistant - Concord, CA

It is very, very sad.  Thank you for sharing a little bit about Farrah.

Jun 29, 2009 05:53 AM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

You definitely need to see "Farrah's Story", Myrl, to get a real feel for the kind of person she truly was.  It's such an inspiration.

Jun 29, 2009 06:12 AM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

It was really sad, Chris.  I wasn't a major fan of Farrah, but I knew who she was (my favorite "Angel" was Cheryl Ladd...Kris Munroe).  When I saw the documentary she had made to show her fight against cancer, I found an instant positive impression of her.

Jun 29, 2009 06:13 AM
Mary Yonkers
Alan Kells School of Real Estate/Howard Hanna Real Estate - Erie, PA
Erie/PA Real Estate Instructor

Heather--I am with you.  I prefer to focus on the positive and Farrah's documentary put a positive spin on an ugly disease.  Farrah knew what was down the road for her and she wanted to help others by telling her story.  I am sure that families struggling with a loved one's sickness will benefit now or in the future.  Good to see you again.  I had a busy weekend, but now I am back in the rain.

Jun 29, 2009 06:41 AM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

Thanks for stopping by, Mary.  I wasn't a huge Farrah fan.  But I became one after I saw her documentary.  That's the legacy I would wish to leave my family when I pass.  How courageous and inspirational!

Jun 29, 2009 08:33 AM
Matt Listro
National Credit Fixers - Matt Listro - Vernon, CT
Your Credit Repair Expert

Hi Heather: I knew she had passed but did not know the rest. Thanks for sharing.

:)

Jun 29, 2009 04:41 PM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

Oh, Matt.  It was an amazing documentary.  I highly recommend it.  It made me appreciate the amazing spirit of this truly inspirational woman.

Jun 30, 2009 02:40 AM
Michele Ott
Reno, NV

Hi Heather,

For me I pulled the positive's from both Michael Jackson and Farrah Fawcett.  I too watched Farrah's documentary and was very moved.  She never stopped trying to beat her cancer.  It was truly inspirational.  Even those that were there for her were inspirational.  It is something I think everyone should watch. 

 

Jun 30, 2009 05:41 AM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

I totally agree that everyone should watch "Farrah's Story", Michele.  It has an incredibly uplifting and positive message for everyone.

Jun 30, 2009 06:43 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Heather, Farrah fought a valiant fight, best she could, and told the world about it along the way.

Jul 01, 2009 06:35 AM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

I gained a new-found respect for the woman after her passing, Gary.  What a sunny person she was.

Jul 01, 2009 06:57 AM
Not a real person
San Diego, CA

I was never a Farrah Fawcett fan until 1984 when she did "The Burning Bed." I did, however, have "the poster" in my apartment because many of my male friends couldn't afford it, so it was a great way for a closeted gay college guy to get an apartment full of guys -- LOL. Everyone except the women wanted to come see "the poster."

Jul 08, 2009 02:33 AM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

I think even closeted gay college guys loved that poster, Russel.  I was actually only 6 when she was on "Charlie's Angels".  But, I do remember all the Farrah hair product commercials on TV.  Like you, though, I was impressed with "The Burning Bed" and the other movies like that that she did.

Jul 08, 2009 02:36 AM