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Isn't Relativity The Point

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker 69190

 I have read a lot on AR these days and heard more in other places about the "good old days". Well, if you haven't figured it out on your own, then let me be the first to explain to you that those days are gone. I don't remember penny candy and if you could buy a $20,000 house in my lifetime, then they call it a lot. That's the dirt pile that you build a home on in case you aren't familiar with the "scientific term".

 I hear my parent talk about the "good old days" all the time. Here's the major problem with that mentality, they live in the same time that I do. It's called the present and the days when they could go to town with a dollar bill, see a movie, grab a burger, and go home with change are over. The time when you could go out and buy a home for next to nothing are gone as well. It's called relativity my friends, and you don't have to be Einstein to figure out the concept. The more money you make, the more money it takes. That's all you need to understand about relativity today.

 You see while it is nice to look back at all the things you used to do and used to know, how far will that take you now? Ask business owners, because I can promise you that when it comes to making money, everyone know what works. They don't dwell on what used to work, only what gets them by in the here and now. However, what it costs to live these days is suddenly a huge concern. Ask an elder what they paid for their home or a head of lettuce. The first thing that will cross your mind is that you wish either one cost that today. But again, relativity, because your elders didn't make as much money then as you do now.

 I admire the past, I am huge student of history myself. However, I am an even larger fan of acceptance and sometimes you have to except the fact the times have changed. My father argued with me to no end that the house he grew up in was worth no more than $70,000 at the most. This was three years ago and the home sold for $279,000. It's a 4,500 square foot home on Main Street with over a half acre lot. When my Grandparents bought it, they paid $18,000 for the home. It's all relative. Of course, my Dad tells me all the time about how he used to go to town with a dollar...........

 Don't get me wrong, I wish it was a perfect world as well. I wish I could make what I do now in wages and pay what you did then in prices. But then again, I bet we all do. But it never has and it never will work that way and at some point you have to accept this crazy little thing called reality. It's not fun, it's not free, but it's just the way it is these days.

 

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Lana Robbins Realtor ® Licensed Real Estate Broker
Aloha Kai Real Estate - Clearwater, FL
Licensed in Florida, Washington, and Hawai'i

JL without the past there would not be a present so I can understand why some people reminisce. Some miss the days of old. Sometimes I do too :-)

Jul 08, 2009 10:51 AM
Lane Bailey
Century 21 Results Realty - Suwanee, GA
Realtor & Car Guy

Yep...  There seems to be a little forgetfulness when it comes to noticing that they made 10% as much money... 

Jul 08, 2009 04:53 PM
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One day, 2009 will be the good old days....at least we have something to look forward to!

Jul 09, 2009 01:37 AM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

JL - Wise words, my friend.  We live in the constant present and while we can learn from the past and speculate about the future, it is the now that we really need to deal with... because that's reality.

Jul 09, 2009 02:34 AM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

The thing about the past is that we only remember the good, not the bad.  I remember working my first job for $3.00 an hour.  I remember 4 channels on my black and white TV.  I remember only Lima Beans for dinner.  I remember some great things too.  In many ways Technology has robbed kids of the great childhood I had (on the other hand I don't want my kids doing some of the stuff my parents never found out about!)

Jul 09, 2009 04:18 AM
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

As my wise grandmother used to remind me 'Kid there were no good old days'. Things are better today & don't you forget it.

Jul 09, 2009 04:49 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Hi JL

Outstanding post and right on point. this is the good news days.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Jul 09, 2009 03:28 PM
Nevin Williams
Fairway Independent Mortgage Corporation - Cary, NC
Senior Mortgage Advisor

JL - I love reading your posts.  Energetic and to the point.  The good old what?  yesterday is a cashed check tomorrow hasn't happened yet so all we have is today!

Jul 09, 2009 03:56 PM
Jesse Clifton
Jesse Clifton & Associates - Fairbanks, AK

Ah, that fickle mistress, inflation.  I remember the past with fondness, but it has more to do with having more hair and fewer pounds than the great deal I got on my first new car back in '71. 

Jul 09, 2009 09:14 PM
Freida Knight
1st Knight Realty, Inc. - Winder, GA
1st Knight Realty, Inc.

2009 is definitely an interesting time in real estate! Let's face it, our industry has changed and will change. I do not believe that you can sit back and wish for the "good old days" when anybody who could fog a mirror could get a loan to buy a house. But in 10 years I will assure you that a lot of potential buyers are going to look back at 2009 as "the good old days" when they could have gotten a great price, a great interest rate, and $ 8000 refundable tax credit. In the long run, real estate has been and will always be a GREAT investment.

But these days are more realistic. You should EARN THE RIGHT TO BUY A HOUSE! And you should commit to paying the note payments on a timely basis. This is just good business.

Life happens and people lose jobs or people die or people get divorces every day, but there are reasonable ways to deal with those issues that ALL of us face. You have to adjust and go forward.

Freida Knight, 1st Knight Realty, Inc. North Atlanta, GA

 

 

 

Jul 10, 2009 03:49 AM
Suzanne McLaughlin
Sabinske & Associates, Inc. (Albertville, St. Michael) - Saint Michael, MN
Sabinske & Associates, Realtor

JL - How I love the "good old days"!  But, if you can't make these the good old days for the future, what's the point.  My birthday card today from insignificant other read....remember you might be older than you've ever been before but, you're also younger than you'll ever be again.  A fairly good perspective from my point of view.  And, something to think about.....

Jul 10, 2009 02:05 PM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Mara- It should always make us smile. Penny candy was a nickle when I was a child.

Debe- My stepfather bought his first car for $1,200. He made a fraction of what he did when he retired.

Chris- Dylan has always been my favorite.

Christine- Mine don't get me through today either.

Tammy- Everones past made them who they are. I am 29.

Jul 14, 2009 06:18 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Vickie- Forward is a great way to go.

Sharon- Thank you very much.

Lisa- Manners are something this world seriously needs an adjustment in.

Gary- I think we all think of our good old days in one way or another. AR has helped many of us create more.

Richard- And again, it's all relative.

Jul 14, 2009 06:22 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Sally- I'm sure we could all write a book about our lives, it was my bad old days that keep me going.

April- I was lucky enough to listen and learn from mine.

Carla- Whose Carly Simon?

Hansons- Change is almost always a positive in my opinion.

Richard- Very true statement. You know I only wrote this to pick on you.

 

Jul 14, 2009 06:27 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Don- You can always learn from the past.

Russ- Now is a good time to do just that.

Tim- I believe the same my friend.

William- Your statement is well said too.

Missy- A lot of mine left as well.

Jul 14, 2009 06:30 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Integrity- Well said.

Joe- That's a great quote.

Bill- Blood pressure must have been rough back then.

Tim- I will try not to, but it's hard to control the Government.

Rebecca- Nothing wrong with remembering.

Jul 14, 2009 06:34 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Bob- I think we type better than we talk these days.

Cynthia- Hope you got the better of that washer.

Anna- House prices are a throw back in many places, that's for sure.

Christianne- I hope I make it there myself some day.

Eileen- I have never liked to look back, maybe some day I will.

Jul 14, 2009 06:38 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Bridget- I am sure they will.

YMR- We may very well.

Patricia- Acceptance is a large key to this.

Liz- Today is all we have for sure.

John- At some point we must break the cycle.

Jul 14, 2009 06:41 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Lana- no past, no present. Very true.

Lane- I know a few who realize it.

Jason- I'm with you.

Sardi- reality bites!

Rance- We can always make the days we are in good.

 

Jul 14, 2009 06:44 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Gene- I remember a lot of tough times and now things are better.

Lyn- Sounds like a wise lady to me.

Lou- Thanks for stopping by.

Nevin- I live in a constant now. It's just how I see it.

Jesse- There's just more of you to love now and you save on shampoo.

Freida- This industry will always change, that's why I like it.

Suzanne- I think it's a great point of view.

Jul 14, 2009 06:49 AM