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The Speed of Trust by Stephen M. R. Covey

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Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty

I've read many real estate and business books over the last few years, but few have had the direct and immediate impact as The Speed of Trust by Stephen M.R. Covey (son of Dr. Stephen Covey, author of The 7 Habits of Highly Successful people).

It's important to me that my clients and I work together as a team during our transactions. When I got into the real estate business, my driving motivation was to help people. I like helping people make big decisions in their lives. I like to see people skeptical about real estate agents start a transaction with me and then to watch over the time the mistrust on their faces disappear. I know once we have a certain level of trust that they are going to make good decisions when they buy or sell.

Every day, in very simple ways, we have the opportunity to increase or decrease our credibility. Here's one example of something I do to increase my credibility: When I meet or speak to clients the first time, I make a little promise or two. The promise can be something as simple as promising to call back on a certain day or time or promising to send a market report the next day. The point here is that I am very specific about what time I will be getting back to them. I don't say "I'll get back to you soon," or
I'll be getting back to you in a day or two." I'll say "I'll be getting back to you tomorrow at 10:00 am." Then I schedule it in my phone, and I make sure I do it at the exact time I said. Then when I call I always start with the words "I promised I would call you at 1:00 pm, so that's why I'm calling you now. Hopefully I am demonstrating that when I say I'll do something I really mean it, even if it's something as simple as a phone call."

That's a quick example of little thing you can do to influence the speed of trust in a relationship. For a much better explanation I suggest you read the book or visit the website The Speed of Trust.

 

 

Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

What a great way to instill trust in people you are just meeting.  You say you are going to do something and then you prove to them that you are a man of your word.  I love it!

Jul 21, 2009 02:08 AM
Janie Coffey
First Coast Sotheby’s International Realty - Ponte Vedra, FL
Uniting Extraordinary Homes w/ Extraordinary Lives

absolutely great point, I never thought about scheduling it in my phone, thanks for the great tip.

on anotehr note, my maiden name is Sederberg, outside of my immediate family, I have never met anyone with the name.  they named it after Cedarburg Wisconsin, where they settled from Sweeden at the turn of the century!

Jul 21, 2009 09:31 AM
Maureen McCabe
HER Realtors - Columbus, OH
Columbus Ohio Real Estate

 

I just am not that committed.  I wish I were. 

Sounds like a good book that I probably would never read...

Noticing Janie's comment I have been to Cedarburg WI.

Jul 26, 2009 11:22 PM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info

I have heard he's a good author and I'll try to pick one of those books up at the library next time!

Aug 12, 2009 08:02 PM