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I Want To Be Your Friend, Bill Gates

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty, Ann Arbor, MI

Microsoft's Bill GatesI just read a news piece where Bill Gates admitted to backing away from the high-tech environment he is hugely responsible for creating.  It seems that real life personal connections rather than electronic friendships might actually be something to value.  Yes, I am paraphrasing, inferring, and assuming, but Bill, I suspect you are someone just like me.  OK, at least on this one point....

Yahoo! News reports "Bill Gates quits Facebook over 'too many friends' ".  Not a problem I necessarily have on Facebook given my once monthly or so visits there but I definitely know where he is coming from.  Enough is enough.  Can't we have a private thought or moment any more?  Must we, must YOU continually update everyone with your whereabouts, your activities, your thoughts, plans, successes, and (probably not) your failures?  Please.  Tweet me not. 

The article noted that he had trouble figuring out whether he "knew this person, did I not know this person" and that "It was just way too much trouble so I gave it up."

Yahoo! imageGates also admitted to not being that big on texting, not being a 24-hour tech person, and that he reads - sometimes not on the computer.  I would like all dying newspapers and publishing companies to sit up and take notice since there could be a backlash coming.  Some/many of the literary public want to curl up on a chair or tuck into bed and not wonder if their wireless will go that far or if the battery is going to die and need to be plugged in, leaving the reader entangled in cords.  They may not want a history stored somewhere of what they've been looking at or reading for the world to somehow resurrect if they can and care to, for whatever reason is deemed necessary, fun, or stalker-like.

While Gates admits that he envisioned a computer on every desk and in every home, and that the tech revolution has been "hugely beneficial", he seemed to caution against overuse.

"All these tools of tech waste our time if we're not careful."

Amen.

Amen.

Amen.

The Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation is proof that Bill Gates lives by his words.  People and charities deserve more attention than self-promotion via social networking.  It is is real, besides.  I can't remember Bill Gates ever promoting himself - he was in the news because others wanted to promote him.  Do the right thing and you won't need to pat your own back.  There will be plenty of people lining up to pat your back for you.

Come on Bill, don't you want to be my friend?  OK, OK, just testing.

    

 

Comments(8)

Ally Wangsness - Seattle Real Estate Broker
RE/MAX Metro Realty, Inc. - Seattle, WA

Nice post, Susan. Yes, I would like to be Bill Gates friend, as well. Living in Seattle I know a couple people who grew up with him, work for him, etc. But.........alas, he is not my friend. :-)

I am a fan of Bill Gates though. He has accomplished a lot and he has done a lot of good things for the community.

Just my $0.02. :-)

Jul 25, 2009 11:58 AM
Susan Walters
Keller Williams Realty, Ann Arbor, MI - Ann Arbor, MI

I am not expecting contact from Bill any time soon.  :)

Jul 25, 2009 12:10 PM
Bob & Carolin Benjamin
Benjamin Realty LLC - Gold Canyon, AZ
East Phoenix Arizona Homes

I think if there were 10,000 "friends" it might get a bit overwhelming.

Jul 25, 2009 12:19 PM
Susan Walters
Keller Williams Realty, Ann Arbor, MI - Ann Arbor, MI

How would you ever fit them at your backyard barbecue?!

Jul 25, 2009 12:45 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I did delete some facebook "friends" that I just couldn't figure out who they were.  I also blocked some relatives that I really don't want to know ANY of my business. 

Jul 25, 2009 01:54 PM
Susan Walters
Keller Williams Realty, Ann Arbor, MI - Ann Arbor, MI

Tammy, don't we all have relatives like that?  And yes, "Who ARE you people?!" I have been known to ask on more than one occasion. 

Jul 25, 2009 03:50 PM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate

Susan, I know it is over whelming at times. I know folks don't want to hear every little detail about your life. I know it can get out of hand.

Wisdom is knowing the difference.

 

Jul 26, 2009 12:13 AM
Susan Walters
Keller Williams Realty, Ann Arbor, MI - Ann Arbor, MI

I know you get it Missy.  :)

Jul 26, 2009 02:04 AM