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Confessions of an (!) Addict

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Prime Properties

Exclamation pointIt's time for me to step forward.  I want to publicly declare that I have a problem.  I suffer from an exclamation point addiction.  At the end of many sentences, my finger automatically goes to the SHIFT key and begins the process of placing an exclamatory symbol after my latest thought.  Why do I do it?  I really don't know.

Maybe it's an effort to add the inflection I know you're missing by not hearing me speak these thoughts, maybe it's because I want to be sure you read what I said.  I just don't know.  But I am catching myself doing it all the time, so I want to come forward and ask for help.

And this does not stop at (!).  It applies to several other overused punctuation marks and things.  I also overuse the (...) and the (-).  Now, as a former English major, I know it's wrong, but I just can't seem to help myself.  I have had minor success eraditcing the :) from a lot of my work, but I have a long way to go.

I am going to consider this post my first.  There is not one exclamation point in here... until now!  I just had to sneak one in.  Do you see what I mean?  They're just infectious, they love to sneak in and sometimes where they don't belong.  I fought hard to not put one on that last sentence.

I know there are other punctuation junkies out there, so take this post as your intervention.  Stop the abuse of our readers and make sure we are not over-taxing them by saying everything with emphasis or undue pauses.  Make your posts as easy to read as they are full of excellent content and thougtfulness.  I've seen you, I know I'm not alone.

Good luck getting "clean."

Maureen Maureen
Orangeburg, NY
Christina - STOP!!!!!!!!  Embrace your inner (!)
Jun 08, 2007 12:20 AM
Suzanne Sands
Pavao Real Estate - Somerset, MA
Somerset MA Real Estate

Christina,

I am sooo bagged! See I can't stop... yes, I may have a problem. :) LOL!

Jun 08, 2007 12:20 AM
Craig Schiller
Trempealeau, WI

Christina...

You see I have a slightly different problem...

Can you figure it out?

Me 

 

Jun 08, 2007 12:26 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro

Hi Christina,

There must be a psychological explanation. I am guessing since we can no longer see facial expressions we feel we must add marks for emphasis. The ... probably comes from Um, um, um of real speech being too long to type. When you start using the texting version of words like BTW and OMG and whatever else is out their in your posts and comments, we will know you are a beyond hope with the English language. And you will be in good company with many of the rest of us!!)

Jun 08, 2007 12:39 AM
Nalliah Thayabharan
Expert Building Inspections Ltd - Markham, ON
Home Inspector - Commercial Building Inspector Toronto

Hi  Christina!

Sounds like something very interesting.

Nalliah Thayabharan

Commercial and Residential Building Inspector

Expert Building Inspections Ltd

Jun 08, 2007 12:47 AM
Cheryl Johnson
Highland Park, CA

Well,  I do tend to sometimes pause as I speak, hence the ......  gathering up my deep thoughts, no doubt  :-)   And, well, if you tend to hand gestures, of course you need the !!!!!!!!!! when you type......

 

Jun 08, 2007 12:51 AM
Christina Lackey
Coldwell Banker Prime Properties - North Syracuse, NY
Syracuse Central New York Real Estate

.Maureen- I have been trying so hard to eradicate my inner (!)...!  You mean it's okay!?!?

Suzanne- I am glad to know I'm not alone.

Craig- I have that problem too... most of the time... it depends on the time of day...

Cheryl- I'm glad you can sympathize.  It's a common problem here in the rain, I think.

Teri- LOL.... er... uh... I mean... I'm laughing out loud at your commentThanks for reading.

Nalliah- Thanks for reading and commenting.

Jun 08, 2007 12:53 AM
Christina Lackey
Coldwell Banker Prime Properties - North Syracuse, NY
Syracuse Central New York Real Estate
Cheryl- Yes, I am a gesturer, even when I'm on the phone, so maybe that spawns the need for multiple !!
Jun 08, 2007 12:54 AM
Mana Tulberg
805 County Real Estate - Camarillo, CA
Real Estate Agent - Camarillo CA

Christina, I over use the (!). I don't usually place one, but I put as many as my heart desires that day at an end of a sentence.

Yes, I admit it I am an exclamation point junky!!!! (See what I mean?)

Jun 08, 2007 10:15 AM
Christina Lackey
Coldwell Banker Prime Properties - North Syracuse, NY
Syracuse Central New York Real Estate
LOL It's so nice to find others that suffer the same addiction.  And I just needed to be silly for a little while.
Jun 08, 2007 01:26 PM
Jack Haydon
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater Beach, FL
Clearwater Beach Condos - Real Estate Homes for Sale

LOL....I love to use....and :0 as often as possible....

Jack

Jun 08, 2007 01:36 PM
Susie Roscoe
Signature Realty Associates - Brandon, FL
Real Estate Specialist | Brandon, FL

Christina - if there is a 12 step program for this...SIGN ME UP!!!  I too suffer and enjoy it thoroughly!!  As long as you can still capitalize your words properly...use some form of punctuation at the end...and use the Spell Check...I think you'll be alright!!!

PS...I truly appreciate your !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!'s at the end of your sentences!!! 

PSS....Have a GREAT WEEKEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jun 08, 2007 10:29 PM
Christina Lackey
Coldwell Banker Prime Properties - North Syracuse, NY
Syracuse Central New York Real Estate

Jack-  Yes, I have a problem with... too... a big problem there... maybe the (!) is a gateway punctuaction mark.

Susie- We may have to start a group of our own.  It seems like we might have some fellow members here.  I am a fan of spell check, though... and I do capitalize, so I can feel good about that.  I am glad you appreciate my !! and have a great weekend to you too!

Jun 09, 2007 12:36 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
I love.................................Okay, I'm done...just for this comment..haha!  Oops...did  you see that a bunch of pauses.......and then an exclamation. I can't be that bad...do you think????!!!!!
Jun 09, 2007 02:15 PM
Christina Lackey
Coldwell Banker Prime Properties - North Syracuse, NY
Syracuse Central New York Real Estate

Sally- LOL no, you are definitely a mild case of the addiction.  Maybe you should try to catch it now before you become incurable like I am! 

Jun 10, 2007 01:23 AM
Susie Roscoe
Signature Realty Associates - Brandon, FL
Real Estate Specialist | Brandon, FL

Christina - Maybe we need to be DIAGNOSED by the AR doctors!  I enjoy the "symptoms" of AR, the improper usage of "keys" on my laptop...as well as "the need" to blog daily even when I can't come up with someone creative on my own...and then the "desire" to check my points compared to someone else in my county/city.  What do you think?  ***How much schooling will it take to be the first A.R. Doctor online? 

YOU are a HOOT!!! 

Jun 10, 2007 05:07 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
Christina:  In all my comments I have a bunch of periods. I used to be told that my sentences were too long and break them up.....so that is what I do...ha!
Jun 10, 2007 05:18 AM
Christina Lackey
Coldwell Banker Prime Properties - North Syracuse, NY
Syracuse Central New York Real Estate

Susie- I think we need some AR doctors... I mean, if there are gods, there should be doctors too, right?  LOL.  hmmm... training.  Sounds expensive!  All the symptoms are there.

Sally- That works- just break them up with a bunch of... whatever it takes, right?

Jun 10, 2007 08:45 AM