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Is Your Blog Provocative?

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Real Estate Agent with Integrity Real Estate
Business Blogwire, a blog written by Easton Ellsworth, had an interesting post titled When is Blogging a Waste of Time?  10 Nasty examples.  Proof in point: Sometimes it's easier to define something by saying what it shouldn't be rather than what it should be.  Blogging remains at best an ambiguous business pursuit with relatively few guidelines and rules.  That's what I like best about it.

 In summation of Ellsworth's perspective, you're wasting time blogging when:
  • You add little or no value to your audience.
  • Your time would be better spent talking to individuals.
  • You are mean.
  • Your posts are anything but original.
  • You plagiarize.
  • You over edit before publishing.

You're writing to "thin air" unless your thoughts are authentic and relevant.  Don't think for a moment that every word in every post has to be serious to have value.  Not true.  Much of what I write in blogs, I write playfully, yet thoughtfully.

I'm blatantly guilty of violating at least 2 of Ellsworth's principals.  Occasionally, my posts on Title-opoly are mean spirited.  The title industry is presently in a frustrating state of flux.  At times, I sound more like a political activist than a professional speaker.  It's the nature of the beast and sometimes bloggers have a duty to stand their ground. 

I'm also guilty of over editing and nervously correcting posts.  It may not be such a bad thing since our blogs are essentially our public face.  Still, excessive editing could conceivably strip a post of it's passion and is something to consider.

What elements should a post contain if it's not to be a waste of time?


A post should be provocative if nothing else.
  The word provocative implies that a thing is stimulating or exciting, as in discussion.  When searching for your blogging voice, it's imperative that you remain true to yourself without being overly concerned about the feelings of others.  A little dose of controversy hurts no one.  A post on Active Rain, especially one that's featured, has a potential readership in the hundreds, even thousands.  Not everyone is going to like, or agree, with your talking points.  Rather than pandering to the mob, it's better to speak your mind and handle comments candidly and gracefully. 

For an example of a man who knows how to field questions, visit the comment thread to Jason Sardi's post from yesterday.


Have you noticed that political discussions are generally avoided on Active Rain?  That doesn't make sense to me.  We're all adults and politics, like sex or religion, are a fact of life. 

In the words of Michael Eric Dyson: You are no longer innocent, you are condemned to awareness.

Business is simply a reflection of societal needs and desires.  Why shouldn't a business blog confront every facet of daily life?  I'm careful not to pioneer exceedingly new ground on this blog, but political debate will become a part of Title-opoly before long.  I've learned, through trial and error, that a planned series of controversial posts attracts a larger, more loyal, and more vocal audience.  Notice that the word planned was used intentionally.  It's not good form to write a post or comment while angry.

Bloggers have a responsibility to maintain a patently enthusiastic tone in posts.
  Don't feel inadequate if you're unable to perpetually motivate in the tradition of Tony Robbins.  I certainly can't.

Now consider using the words enthusiastic and optimistic interchangeably. 

Tom Peter's wrote: Those who exude optimism and self-confidence inspire optimism and self-confidence in others.

Most importantly, a blog should create a bigger and more meaningful world for it's audience.  Never underestimate the power of your words and the effect they have on people who trust you.

We write, I believe, to educate, enlighten, and inspire others.  Blogging is about engaging readers emotionally and giving them something to think about.

My cyber goal: To make my blog a place where the practical and the impractical become one and the same.

Michael Hutchins - Consumer Advocate, Chicago
Michael Hutchins Ent. - Chicago, IL
Great post Ed.  You've made the Week in Review!
Jun 10, 2007 11:00 AM
Ed Rybczynski
Integrity Real Estate - Havre de Grace, MD
Your Source for Local Real Estate

Michael

Thank you! 

Jun 10, 2007 11:10 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

Ed...

I got so caught up in the comment thread that I had to scroll up just to remember what the title to your post was. LOL.

Okay. Back to provocative...My question to you is...Do you see "stirring the pot" as provocative? <insert standard evil grin>  

TLW...ROAR!

Jun 10, 2007 11:24 AM
Ed Rybczynski
Integrity Real Estate - Havre de Grace, MD
Your Source for Local Real Estate

TLW

"Stirring the pot" is the metaphorical cathedral of provocative thought and the reason I blog.  Thanks for stopping by. 

Jun 10, 2007 11:30 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL
Ooops. I probably should have mentioned that was a rhetorical question. LOL.
Jun 10, 2007 12:18 PM
Ed Rybczynski
Integrity Real Estate - Havre de Grace, MD
Your Source for Local Real Estate

Hi TLW

Not a problem, I would have answered anyway. 

Jun 10, 2007 12:31 PM
Tony Gallegos
Cognicorp Mortgage Banking Advisory - Marietta, GA
Ed - I don't know any good writer that is pleased with their writing...yours is top notch. I don't know if I necessarily agree a post has to be wholly positive. Sometimes your passion can direct you to write something that is not positive. Another great post.
Jun 10, 2007 04:35 PM
Ed Rybczynski
Integrity Real Estate - Havre de Grace, MD
Your Source for Local Real Estate

Tony

Funny you should mention the prospect of a post being something other than completely positive.   The original draft of this post echoed your opinion.  The change was made because I was targeting "newer" bloggers who may be thinking about launching outside blogs targeted to local audiences.  I didn't want to provide direction that could be initially harmful to their cyber pursuits.  Like you, I think bloggers ultimately have a duty to create controversy.  It gives readers a reason to pause and to think.  Thanks. 

Jun 11, 2007 02:09 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

engaging readers emotionally and giving them something to think about

Some people think emotions are a sign of weakness....I don't believe that. Showing emotions shows a person from the inside. That's strenth. Not afraid to be "seen".  How else would we know if a person is true or not? And this is not to be confused with people running around confronting people to try and make a fool out of them. Hmm...Am I still on track?  I started running around looking back at your post and comments..haha...good post although I am geared to positive...and controversy sometimes...when it comes to people abusing other people, places and things...okay...i better get off now.

Jun 12, 2007 03:44 PM
Ed Rybczynski
Integrity Real Estate - Havre de Grace, MD
Your Source for Local Real Estate

Sally

Great comments.  Thank you. 

Jun 12, 2007 11:39 PM
Jeff R. Geoghan
Coldwell Banker Realty - Lancaster, PA
REALTOR, Marketing Manager
I'm more and more excited about the idea of including video in the blog to speed the connection process between reader and author.  I'll be working that angle in the days to come - stay tuned!
Jun 13, 2007 04:56 AM
Linda Reynolds
Bradenton Real Estate - Linda Reynolds - Bradenton, FL
Bradenton Real Estate
Thanks for the good tips, it is always good to keep checking ourselves to make sure we are not waisting our time blogging.
Jun 15, 2007 12:03 AM
Ed Rybczynski
Integrity Real Estate - Havre de Grace, MD
Your Source for Local Real Estate

Jeff

Thanks for commenting. 

Jun 15, 2007 10:41 PM
Ed Rybczynski
Integrity Real Estate - Havre de Grace, MD
Your Source for Local Real Estate

Linda

I agree, it's important to stop and revisit our strategies regularly.  I appreciate your stopping by. 

Jun 15, 2007 10:45 PM
Paul Viau
Nova Scotia Real Estate Blog - Halifax, NS
Nova Scotia Real Estate Blog + Photo Services
Yeah - good one. i believe you need to keep your blogs informative, but yet upbeat and make them stand out. Do something different for once - Out Of the Box!
Jun 16, 2007 03:53 AM
Ed Rybczynski
Integrity Real Estate - Havre de Grace, MD
Your Source for Local Real Estate

Paul

Very well said.  Thanks for sharing your opinions.  Your voice is always appreciated here. 

Jun 16, 2007 04:22 AM
Ed Rybczynski
Integrity Real Estate - Havre de Grace, MD
Your Source for Local Real Estate

Deborah

Very insightful and very well said.  Thank you! 

Jun 20, 2007 11:15 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

Hey Ed,

I have found that once I put myself out there and be me, the rest takes care of itself.   So, I advise everybody the same thing.  One of the reasons you are such a proficient writer is because you don't hold back.....I believe that is so important.  Excellent work again.

Jul 18, 2007 08:26 AM
Coach Steve Toth
Real Coaching Radio Network™ - Broomfield, CO

Hi Ed;

I'm concerned that when you achieve your goal you will no longer be in our dimension anymore and we will not be able to enjoy these great posts.  Anyway, this one deserves to go on the top.  I also would like to encourage you to write professionally.  You got some natural talents and you shouldn't use it all just on blogging.

To Your Success,

Coach Steve

Jul 20, 2007 05:36 PM
Diane Velikis
Coldwell & Banker Busch Real Estate - Luzerne, PA
Luzerne County Real Estate

I too am guilty of over editing a bit. Another one of my flaws is PAY ATTENTION to the group.... If you need to vent frustration in say anything goes don't by mistake send it to weary souls.... Each group here has something to offer... And I like everyones input....But respect the groups individuality...

Diane Velikis

Jul 20, 2007 11:47 PM