Here are three things that I know will change your life for ever:
1) You are the person responsible for your life.
a) No it's not your parents, your spouse, or your boss, it's you. It's up to you to make the changes you'd like to have in your life.
b) So knowing that, you need to take action.
2) Goals: Setting goals is critical for change to happen. Here are 7 steps to setting goals
a) Decide exactly what you want.
b) In clear as possible write it down; write it down so simply a child could understand them.
c) Set deadlines, if you have to change them later OK, but write down deadlines.
d) Make a list of every thing you can think of to help you achieve your goals.
e) Organize your list, than prioritize it, do what's more important first, than second and so on.
f) Take action on your plan now.
g) Now most important do something every day toward achieving your Goal.
This is what it will take to move you to where you want to go. If you think you'll have a challenge doing this find a support group, mentor, trainer, or coach.