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It Can Happen To You - Part III In Series To Turn You Into A First Time Homebuyer

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Real Estate Agent with Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty

I speak with many people who feel they will never be able to buy a home of their own and you know what?  Unfortunately many of them won't.  Oh it's not that they couldn't.  It is that they defeat themselves before they start. This is the third post in a series to help you prepare to become a home owner.  

Dream houseWhen we close our eyes and imagine the house we want to live in we all have different pictures.  Most of us will see a dream home.  Many people are realistic enough to know that they can't afford the dream house but what exactly can they afford?  If you don't know where you should start, how are you ever going to get to your goal. Don't allow self defeating thoughts to stand in your way.

Avoiding Self Defeating Road Blocks


I Can Never Afford To Buy A House - You should be a meet with a Mortgage Adviser who can let you know just where you are at.  As discussed in previous posts in this seriesbalance they can check your credit, offer advise on how to improve that, and let you know what you can afford based on today's income.  They can also let you know some information that may help if your income is not at a level to allow home purchase at this time.  It is important to know how much you should be making to be able to afford to buy a house.  This may be just the push you need to get out there and hustle for that raise or start looking into a new line of work.


Where Do I Start? - The road should take you towards finding a Real Estate Buyer's Representative.  A Buyer's Agent will help you to see what types of houses you can currently afford and how condition, location, and other factors affect the prices.  You should interview to find the right Buyer Representative for you.  Find one that you can relate to, who seems to have your best interests in mind, is patient with your questions, and offers you alternatives.  The agent should have resources that will help you along the rest of your journey.

Every House I See Costs More Than I Am Qualified For - The biggest roadblock for many potential Home Buyers is learning the difference between Wants & Needs.  We need to determine what we need right now.  The first house you buy can not be the dream house you envision unless you plan to save and live for a long time under a landlord's roof.  It might be great to live 5 minutes from the office but if houses in that area are out of your financial reach you might find a longer commute will bring you a house you can afford.  It would be wonderful to have a lot of extra rooms for the children of the future but right now it might be just the two of you and you can live in a 2 BR very comfortably for now.  You may want land and open spaces but can't pay for a large lot right now.  Your Buyer's Representative can help you sort out your wants and needs and that may allow you to close your eyes and see a home you can afford now or in the near future and give you the push to make it come true.

Thomas A. Edison said "Good fortune is what happens when opportunity meets with preparation"  I wish you good fortune as you prepare yourself for home ownership.

Part One of this It Can Happen To You series discussed how to save for a down payment and closing costs.

Part Two of this It Can Happen To You series dealt with working on your credit.

Working with an experienced Buyer's Representative can help guide you to what is best for you.  I work in Orange, Ulster, or Sullivan County NY and I would love to be your Buyer's Agent. If you are looking elsewhere I would love to find someone in your chosen location to help you.  Give me a call or send an email today.

Comments(33)

Paddy (Patricia) Pizappi
Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty - Pine Bush, NY
Real Estate Associate Broker Hudson Valley NY

We just got a book of Edison and Henry Ford quotes when we visited their estates in FL.  There are so many great ones in there. This one is a favorite.  

Aug 26, 2009 02:00 AM
Nicholas Goraczkowski
Aurora, CO
Your Mortgage Resource - (720) 83-RATES

This is a great guide to get someone started. If you think you can or think you can't - You're right. Another good quote that applies to your post.

Aug 26, 2009 03:05 AM
Team Honeycutt
Allen Tate - Concord, NC

I enjoyed your post.  I think I'll go back and read the other 2 parts.

Kathy

Aug 26, 2009 03:43 AM
Emily Lowe
RE/MAX Homes and Estates, Lipman Group - Nashville, TN
Nashville TN Realtor

Great post!  I have been working on a series for the first time buyer, but just the process of buying, not the "getting TO the point" of being able to buy.  I like it!

Aug 26, 2009 03:47 AM
Sheldon Neal
Bergen County, NJ - RE/MAX Real Estate Limited - Maywood, NJ
That British Agent Bergen County NJ

Excellent help with the 'roadblocks' Paddy !

Cheers

Sheldon

Aug 26, 2009 03:53 AM
Patricia Aulson
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES Verani Realty NH Real Estate - Exeter, NH
Realtor - Portsmouth NH Homes-Hampton NH Homes

Hello Paddy,

I like this post very much ....I've sent it along to some people who will benefit by it as well.

Thanks again,

 

Patricia Aulson/portsmouth nh homes

Aug 26, 2009 05:13 AM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Hello lovely! Awesome post! Wish I were home to put a butterfly on it. ;-)

Aug 26, 2009 05:37 AM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

Great and informative post. I just hope that we don't get rgoal now, and you put it in very clear language. 

Aug 26, 2009 05:44 AM
Nancy Conner
Olympia, WA
Olympia/Thurston County WA

Excellent post!  And so important for first time home buyers to realize the benefit of getting their foot in the door of home ownership, even though their first home may be a modest one.  I think the hardest thing is when they have their heart set on the kind of home that is usually a 2nd, 3rd or 4th home - & that they just can't afford.

Aug 26, 2009 06:57 AM
Patrick Randles
Nova Home Loans - Tucson, AZ

A little reality never hurt anyone...I enjoyed the post and hopefully, you cleared up some questions/issues for some potential buyers. Keep it up!

Aug 26, 2009 07:12 AM
Paddy (Patricia) Pizappi
Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty - Pine Bush, NY
Real Estate Associate Broker Hudson Valley NY

Thanks Nicholas That is another good quote and very true

I hope you do Kathy. 

I have done some first time buyer posts but there are so many who feel that they never will be able to buy anything and I hope this will help some of them Emily

Why thank you Sheldon

I am glad you think it will be helpful Patricia. 

Awe thanks Sis Where are you today??

Thanks for the comment Joe

A lot of them what more than they can afford and it is helpful to understand that they can get there just not right away.
Thanks Nancy

So true Patrick Reality in Realty is important

 

Aug 26, 2009 08:01 AM
Chuck Carstensen
RE/MAX Results - Elk River, MN
Minnesota/Wisconsin Real Estate Expert

In my area there are a lot of pretty solid homes that if you calculate a payment are as much or less the rent.

Aug 26, 2009 09:40 AM
Jennifer Fivelsdal
JFIVE Home Realty LLC | 845-758-6842|162 Deer Run Rd Red Hook NY 12571 - Rhinebeck, NY
Mid Hudson Valley real estate connection

Paddy If these steps are adhere to, the buyers will most likely realize his or her dream.  Your style of writing was rather engaging.

Aug 26, 2009 02:48 PM
Jennifer Fivelsdal
JFIVE Home Realty LLC | 845-758-6842|162 Deer Run Rd Red Hook NY 12571 - Rhinebeck, NY
Mid Hudson Valley real estate connection

Paddy If these steps are adhere to, the buyers will most likely realize his or her dream.  Your style of writing was rather engaging.

Aug 26, 2009 02:48 PM
Chris Olsen
Olsen Ziegler Realty - Cleveland, OH
Broker Owner Cleveland Ohio Real Estate

Hi Paddy -- Starting with the right agent truly does make all the difference in the world, they are the hub.

Aug 26, 2009 03:51 PM
Paddy (Patricia) Pizappi
Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty - Pine Bush, NY
Real Estate Associate Broker Hudson Valley NY

That's great Chuck.  It is true most everywhere. 

Thank you Jennifer.  I hope it will catch the interest of the potential buyers out there.

Absolutely Chris.  The right agent can make all the difference.

Aug 26, 2009 10:05 PM
TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

Paddy, This has been an enlightening series. The right agent can make all the difference in the world. P.S. - Thanks for the re-blogs...

Helping you live your American dream...

Aug 26, 2009 10:40 PM
Paddy (Patricia) Pizappi
Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty - Pine Bush, NY
Real Estate Associate Broker Hudson Valley NY

Thank you Michael.  And the reBlogs are my pleasure.

Aug 26, 2009 10:49 PM
Ed Kaminsky
Kaminsky Real Estate Group/Shorewood Realtors - Manhattan Beach, CA
Ed Kaminsky

Curious, do you run live 1st time home buyer seminars in your area and if so, what are your best methods for building attendance?

Aug 28, 2009 06:21 AM
Paddy (Patricia) Pizappi
Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty - Pine Bush, NY
Real Estate Associate Broker Hudson Valley NY

Hey Ed I am not sure what that has to do with my post.  I can do a blog post on that in the future but I think the best method for attracting seminar participants is to have the event hosted by a church, civic group or other group so that they can talk it up. 

Aug 28, 2009 10:14 PM