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It’s Not When You Get Up…It’s When You Wake Up.

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Real Estate Agent with Midwest Properties of MI - Grand Rapids

I lovingly call the above title one of my "daddy-isms" (is that a word?).  I have so many memories of my dad using this statement, mostly when he wanted to make sure us kids had been paying attention to what was being or had been said.  To this day I don't know where he got this statement or any of the other's for that matter...but many of them have stuck with me.

I recently attended a Learning Session Series in which Lola Audu was teaching and was very surprised to find REALTORS who had been in this industry for 3-5 years that had no knowledge of Zillow, Craig's List, Blogging Networks or any idea of what blogging is and the benefits it can offer.

Wake UpI will be the first to admit I'm relatively new to the real estate industry and have much to learn however I already know the importance of the internet (even though I may not understand all the in's and out's yet) and will continue to learn until it becomes comfortable.

It just amazes me....even when agents are supplied this valuable information how easily they can and will discount it.  (IT'S NOT WHEN YOU GET UP..... IT'S WHEN YOU WAKE UP!) The system(s) they are currently using may still be working for them now however I have seen during my time of involvement in real estate that it is continuously changing and that to survive you must be open to learn more and...still more. 

I have entered this career with my eyes wide open and have found something that I believe I definitely have in my favor.  I will not ignore or discount change. Change never comes easy....we all know this and while some of us will push forward...others will dig in their heels.  I choose to be one that pushes forward....even if it's in small steps.

As a previous Customer Service Manager in the automotive quality industry I forever found myself in a position of what I call...switching and morphing.  I became quite good at it out of necessity for it was a matter of survival.  I believe the same applies here in my career as a REALTOR.

I have many of these "daddy-isms" which I am so thankful my father left with me...more often that not they prove to be quite insightful, maybe even thought provoking, or just give me a little smile or chuckle. My favorite daddy-ism, which I heard almost each time I was to enter a room (with my dad present of course) "Mention her name and you hear the flutter of her wings" (The Angle).  It's funny how you find just how much you miss and remember the small things from your parents for I never really thought much about the "daddy-isms" before.

It's time to embrace the change so you are not someone that is left behind....

It's time to wake up now!  

 

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All content is original, courtesy of Therese VanderMeer - Realtor - FlexIt Realty

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Therese is selling and marketing properties in the Greater Grand Rapids, MI Area and surrounding communities while specializing in Jenison, Hudsonville and Grandville.

Contact Therese directly at 616-780-0786 or by email at tvmhomes@sbcglobal.net 

Happy to be Providing Buyers and Sellers a Higher Standard of Personalized Service

 

 

 

 

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Tammy Stone
Prudential Preferred Realtors - Grand Rapids, MI
"Eco-Green" Agent in West Michigan

Love the graphic!!!  You are so right, everyone needs to wake up to technology... it is here to stay.

BTW (code for By the way) another thing you get to learn online... I met you at Lola's first blogging seminar when it was snowing like crazy.  We sat at the same table. :)

Jun 14, 2007 07:27 AM
Donna Lueder
Integrity Group Inc. - Boise, ID
Meridian Idaho Real Estate
Waking up is something everyone needs to do. I agree with you completely. There is alot of information out there and we need to keep up with it... Nothing is worse than having your buyer or seller telling you what is the latest and greatest.
Jun 14, 2007 07:50 AM
Lola Audu
Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate - Grand Rapids, MI
Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI ~Welcome Home!
Enjoyed reading this post Therese.  We have an African proverb that goes along these lines..."Whenever you wake up, it's morning for you."  In a sense, coming into the real estate profession at this time is a gift...you don't have the luxury of sleep walking in your career in a way that may have been possible in the past.  Great graphics!
Jun 14, 2007 09:05 AM
Therese VanderMeer
Midwest Properties of MI - Grand Rapids - Jenison, MI
Realtor-Greater Grand Rapids, MI area communities

Hi Tammy:  Oh my Gosh!! I remember...thanks for blowing the fog out of my brain.  Great to hear from you and keep in touch.  :)

Hello Donna:  Thanks for stopping by and you are so right... I know I have much to learn yet but I'll keep plugging away!!

Hi Lola: I loved the African proverb and thanks for everything.

 

Jun 14, 2007 11:20 AM
Stefan Scholl
Buyer's Broker of Northern Michigan, LLC - Petoskey, MI
Northern Michigan Real Estate

Therese,

There are many indeed who don't seem like they will ever wake up.  I guess that makes it a little easier for those of us who keep up.

Jun 14, 2007 03:47 PM
Carol Smith
Casmi Photography - Mebane, NC

Therese,

Wonderful post! And in my world "daddy-isms" is a word.  My dad had plenty of them!  Of course some are not fit to print in an open forum.  :)  One of my favorites has always been:  Sit down and shutup, or stand up and be heard.  The choice is yours.

I believe that if you stay current with trends, information, techniques and culture that you will survive much longer in this business than those that don't.  When I have mentioned Trulia, Zillow, Fossons and others at our office meetings I have agents say things like "Where do you find this stuff?"  "Do you stay up all night looking at this stuff?"  "I don't have time for all that junk."

When I hear those things I have one standard response:  "If you were building a house would you not learn about all the tools you would need to do so?"

I know that we all need to make money in order to pay our bills.  That's a given.  But in the grand scheme of things I get much more out of making friends, building relationships, learning from others and sharing what I do know.  My bank account may not reflect notable wealth, but personally I feel richer than Donald Trump. 

Jun 15, 2007 12:00 AM
Therese VanderMeer
Midwest Properties of MI - Grand Rapids - Jenison, MI
Realtor-Greater Grand Rapids, MI area communities

Gary:  Well said...hey, that could be a Gary-ism some day!

Stefan:  Thanks for stopping by and I couldn't agree more although I must admit keeping up is hard!

Carol:  Nice to hear someone else has daddy-isms, I also have a few that just shouldn't be shared!  :) I couldn't agree more with your statement "In the grand scheme of things I get much more out of making friends, building relationships, learning from others and sharing what I do know.  My bank account may not reflect notable wealth, but personally I feel richer than Donald Trump."  Loved it!

Just one more daddy-ism to share..."It's better than a sharp stick in the eye."  Is there anything not better than a sharp stick in the eye?!! I wonder.  :)

Jun 15, 2007 12:45 AM
Ed Vogt
Midwest Properties of Michigan - Grandville, MI
Grandville, MI Midwest Properties
Therese - you must've been a daddy's girl (like me).  What wonderful influences our parents are. Nice tribute, too so close to Father's Day
Jun 15, 2007 06:47 AM
Therese VanderMeer
Midwest Properties of MI - Grand Rapids - Jenison, MI
Realtor-Greater Grand Rapids, MI area communities
Thanks Ed for the kind words.  :)
Jun 15, 2007 10:57 PM
Gena Riede
Riede Real Estate, Lic. 01310792 - Sacramento, CA
Real Estate Broker - Sacramento CA Real Estate (916) 417-2699
Therese, very insightful. I love your daddy-isms and isn't nice that you have grown enough as a person to be able to appreciate your parents so many don't and it's refreshing to here that you do. Change is harder for some than for others and has no age barrier. But, if your goal is to have a relatively peaceful life with less stress and go forward, change is inevitable.
Jun 16, 2007 04:29 PM
Therese VanderMeer
Midwest Properties of MI - Grand Rapids - Jenison, MI
Realtor-Greater Grand Rapids, MI area communities
Gena:  I couldn't agree more and yes one of my goals is to definitely have a more peaceful life with less stress for my previous career was incredibly stressful.  I can definitely deal with stress if need be however I would much rather run at things head on and defuse a potential stressful event if at all possible.  Thanks for stopping by.
Jun 17, 2007 12:37 PM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate
Therese, you need to post more, you are an excellent writer. I did buy a coat just like yours in RED. LOL
Oct 13, 2007 06:36 AM
Therese VanderMeer
Midwest Properties of MI - Grand Rapids - Jenison, MI
Realtor-Greater Grand Rapids, MI area communities

Missy,  Thanks for the kind words and stopping by my Blog it is very appreciated.  I know I must push myself harder to get more involved on AR...I seem to keep jumping in and then jumping out.

Glad to hear of you purchase...what great taste you have!!  Enjoy.  :) 

Oct 13, 2007 07:27 AM