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Body Language Speaks Louder Than Words

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Realty MD RE License 579412

Body Language Speaks Louder Than Words

The majority of face to face communication is not verbal, so to ensure that your thoughts and intentions are properly communicated to a potential client, follow these body language guidelines:

  • Proper Posture - Your mother was right.  Stand up straight and confidently with your stomach in, chest out, shoulders back and head up, do not slouch.  Lean in slightly to show interest when you are speaking with a potential client.  When you are standing be careful not to stand with your hands on your hips or with your arms crossed, as you may convey the wrong message.  Standing with your hands on your hips can give the message that you think you are superior to your client or indicate an impatience with them.   Be sure that your clothes are neat, if you are a man that your shirt is tucked in, your tie is straight (if you wear one) and clean.  Body odor can give off a bad message too. 
  • Firm hearty handshake - Get a grip on this important communications component by holding the person's hand firmly with dry palms.  For women, extend the whole hand, not just the fingers and be sure not to give a limp handshake or one that is too firm so as to give the shaker a feeling you are going to break their hand.           
  • Eye Contact - As listening is the most important aspect of communication, demonstrate it by establishing and maintaining eye contact.  And, in keeping with communication, remember to listen attentively and not talk too much.  I once received a fortune in a fortune cookie that said:  "Confuscious Says:  Wise man closes mouth and opens ears."
  • Genuine Smile - Smiles radiate positive energy and show interest, excitement and concern.  Before you meet with someone be sure that your teeth are clean (and the lettuce from your salad at lunch isn't between your teeth). 

 If you are thinking of buying or selling a home give me a call today and we'll talk about the market conditions and what your home could possibly be worth in today's market place if you are thinking of selling.  You can save thousands by listing your home with Advance Realty Anne Arundel Inc..  If you are considering buying a home, there is no better time than now to buy.  The tax savings and wealth building a lone is worth the plunge into todays market.

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June Piper-Brandon, Broker - Advance Realty Anne Arundel Inc.

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June Piper-Brandon ~ Associate Broker ~ MRP, AHWD, CDPE, ePro

Coldwell Banker

410-292-0100 - Direct   410-461-7600 Office

June Piper Brandon - Agent with Century 21 New Millennium

June Piper Brandon - Agent with Century 21 New Millennium

Comments(4)

Dawn Rueger
Beiser Realty - Oshkosh, WI

Great tips June! I am a big big believer in that your action and body language speak louder than words.

I also always try to maintain a smile even while on the phone cause that can translate to the client as well.

Sep 17, 2009 02:17 PM
Roseann Annis
Prudential Homesale Services Group - Camp Hill, PA

June, 

Yes, our body language conveys how interested and focused we are in what another individual has to say.  By breaking our natural pre-occupation with everything else around us and approaching a client or customer enthusiastically and courteously,  we have a good chance of moving to the next level, i.e., gaining rapport.  I sometimes find it difficult to do this- especially when having a frustrating, demanding day.  Yet, I would expect positive body language from anyone whom I am meeting for the first or 31-st time!

Sep 17, 2009 02:22 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Good tips June - I do a lot of networking and its always amazing me that people just don't know how to give a nice handshake - more so women.  We give classes on this stuff from time to time for people new to the businesss world.  They all have to learn sometime!!

Sep 18, 2009 05:57 AM
Sara Goss
HatmakerGroup.com GMAC Real Estate - League City, TX
Realtor - Houston Bay Area, Texas

Hi June, These are all good tips. What to do with my arms is the hardest for me. I dislike when someone won't look me in the eye, what are they hiding?

Sep 19, 2009 03:50 AM