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Life is DIFFICULT and Full of PROBLEMS....Oh really?

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Education & Training with REALTOR & CEO The 3B Method Seminars

I hope you do not see this as just another wall of words...My pictures are not uploading so all you get are words! Oh well! So be it! I am pushing POST ANYWAY!

A MOTIVATIONAL MOMENT WITH LIZ...

This motivational moment will be just a bit more than a moment but it is something that has been strongly on my heart to share...I hope you print it, keep it, share it!

So, do you agree that life is difficult? I feel that several that read that can agree that in one way or another things are just not as great as they could be. Several read that and know exactly where my heart is and know that the answer to life's most difficult questions are only found by a true realization that difficult situations are really only what YOU make of them.

Are you going to let life's challenges slow you down or are you going to put your boxing gloves on and win the battles before you?

Are you going to sit and waste precious time by waiting on things to get better when in just a change of your own heart you can accept victory over every situation you face!

I was recently asked "Liz, how in the world do you stay positive all of the time?" Do you just fake happiness or really, please tell us - what is the secret?"

Well, I have to tell you...I never fake happiness. Those close know I wear my feelings on my shoulders and every day is a choice in being a good day or a bad day...the truth is all days are good, even really, really bad ones...just some are the "best" they can be under certain situations.

I have problems just like you. I have teens (enough said)...I have been married over 15 years (enough said)...I depend on this economy to feed our family and pay our bills (enough said), I wake up, I write, I read, I work, I play, I run kids everywhere, I work, I play, I eat, I Facebook, I LinkedIn, I Blog, I list houses, I sell houses, I travel and speak, I coach,  I train, and I work...(enough said)...

Did anyone notice that work is different than the things I do that produce income? That is secret # 2 - Love what you do and what you do is never work...

Here is the Big Secret that is #1...

I want to share it with you and I hope that for someone it is the answer you needed today.

I can't take credit for this acronym...I learned this from another that learned it from another...

D.i.f.f.i.c.u.l.t

D - Dreams Awaken NOT Shaken

i - "I" can do this attitude

f - follow your heart

f - find support

u - understand patience

l - love always

t - take nothing for granted



P.r.o.b.l.e.m.s.

P - predicitons

 


r - reminders


o - opportunities


b - blessings


l - lessons


e - everywhere


m - messages


s - solvable

You see, we change our life when we change our heart. Lucy in the Peanuts cartoon said it best "I don't want ups and downs. I want ups and ups and ups!" Well, Lucy...I like the way you think!

Do not get lost in your problems or tied down with difficult issues~ When you do this you will lose your strength, your vision, your confidence and your security. Learn to cultivate an attitude of JOY with problems by realizing they are inevitable and they all have a purpose of growth in one way, shape or form! Know that rocks are always in front of you...Stumbles, bumps and bruises but you can be quick to get up, wipe off the dust, stick on a bandage if needed and be better, faster and stronger!

When Life give you Lemons - make Lemonade! When life throws a curve ball throw one right back by being ready! Be thankful for challenges, be thankful for growth, be thankful for the problems and for eyes of FAITH!

Have a super week of problems! Oh, sorry! I just had to end this that way~

Elizabeth Ward Small, REALTOR

National Motivational Speaker

 

 

 

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Matt Grohe
RE/MAX Concepts - Des Moines, IA
Serving the metro since 2003

Liz: Congrats for maintaining such a positive upbeat attitude. We all get to choose the lense through which we view life.

Sep 21, 2009 04:49 PM
Elizabeth Ward Small
REALTOR & CEO The 3B Method Seminars - Burlington, NC

Matt: Thanks! I agree! Make it work! What other choice do we have?

Sep 21, 2009 04:54 PM
Elizabeth Ward Small
REALTOR & CEO The 3B Method Seminars - Burlington, NC

I love Wayne Dyer and read everything I can get of John C Maxwell! Thanks for sharing...I will look at that one!

Sep 21, 2009 05:30 PM
Ralph Gorgoglione
Metro Life Homes - Palm Springs, CA
California and Hawaii Real Estate (310) 497-9407

Very true.

Everyone has their life issues.  Even the ones that you think don't.

Thanks for posting the Great Word Wall of China........

Sep 21, 2009 05:53 PM
Charles Perkins
Charles G. Perkins, CPA - Burien, WA

I have to agree the best things in my life have come because of mementary hardships.  Hardships can force change and open ones eyes to what others have gone through in the past. 

Sep 21, 2009 06:43 PM
Vicki Pedersen
Pedersen Real Estate - Riverside, CA
Providing Exceptional Real Estate Service

Elizabeth,  What a truly inspiring "Motivational Moment."  I'm generally a very positive person but dealing with some extremely difficult clients of mine (sellers) in the last few weeks has worn me down and got me discouraged.  Your post is exactly what I need to pick myself up and dust off and start anew with a great attitude. 

Sep 22, 2009 02:47 AM
Anonymous
Simone Barrett

Wow, you are good.  I am going to print this and keep this as reminder.  Thanks.

Sep 22, 2009 09:36 AM
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Chad McBain
RE/MAX R.E. CENTRE - Guelph, ON

Great post Liz. I For those that need some ideas and love to read you may want to try something from Ekert Tolle, Rock Thomas, or my fave Tony Robbins. Have a Great and hard week. Cheers.

Sep 22, 2009 01:04 PM
Elizabeth Ward Small
REALTOR & CEO The 3B Method Seminars - Burlington, NC

Ralph: Thanks for posting...Love it...The Great Word Wall of China!

Sep 22, 2009 03:07 PM
Elizabeth Ward Small
REALTOR & CEO The 3B Method Seminars - Burlington, NC

Charles: Agree...The best things in life are not what we have but who we are and who we are with!

Sep 22, 2009 03:08 PM
Elizabeth Ward Small
REALTOR & CEO The 3B Method Seminars - Burlington, NC

Vickie: Glad this helped you add sunshine to your day!

Sep 22, 2009 03:10 PM
Elizabeth Ward Small
REALTOR & CEO The 3B Method Seminars - Burlington, NC

Chad: I can't wait till the day my books are published and I will be a FAV! :) lol

Sep 22, 2009 03:11 PM
Gary Coles (International Referrals)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate
Liz, Great post and you didn't need the photos at all. Thanks for the motivational moment.
Sep 22, 2009 03:16 PM
Elizabeth Ward Small
REALTOR & CEO The 3B Method Seminars - Burlington, NC

Thanks Gary! I had some cool ones to use but technology and I had a war yesterday! I still won the war!

Sep 22, 2009 03:21 PM