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Real Estate Agent with Mezzina Real Estate & Insurance

The Bell Tolls for thee

  

In my recent post, The Death of a Weblog, I received a great number of responses. The post was meant to be a kind of warning to somebody. A warning to whoever would listen, that all this talk of POLITICS and blame of the country's economy on the other party could result in a mass exodus of our most talented contributors here at Active Rain (no, I do not consider myself to be one of those talents).  And, when I wrote the piece, I was not even sure whom I intended the warning to be directed at, or, what I expected them to do about it. So, when I hit the post button and went off to sleep, I never expected such a collection of heartfelt communication from both sides of the political fence. Unfortunately, I was unable to respond to each and every one who left a comment.

First, I want to thank everyone for their contributions to, what I felt was, a very real issue of the day here at Active Rain. And, while it was a bit of a cynical view of what blogging has become here at Active Rain, it was not about the death of blogging here. I was however referring to another site where (trust me) the exchange of meaningful ideas has all but ceased to exist. It was once a great place to stop by to get good industry related information that would increase your business. It was kind of what Active Rain is today. It was there, where I had learned about Active Rain and other blogging web sites. But, that Web Blog is by all measurements - dead.

Second, here at Active Rain, I can assure you, the blogging community is alive and well. Just look at all the response I got from my original post. Heck, one Rainmaker even called me direct instead of leaving a comment. I am sorry we did not get to talk much since I was in the car in the middle of the Jersey Pine Barrens. All of the comments were thoughtful communications of what life on the internet looks like, or, should look like, to them. Thankfully, most want to leave the dialog open regarding POLITICS and RELIGION and acknowledged the fact that we, as both society and real estate professionals, work and live in a very complex world. Yet, many agreed that when the topics are injected with POLITICS, they would just as soon move on.

That was my fear and the reason behind my post. The fear that if we continue to draw a line in the sand over who is responsible for what went wrong, or, who is taking us all to hell in a hand basket. Then the talent I see here with all the great advice freely given, will just walk away. I don't wish to point out the out weblog to you, but the talent has moved on. And, then, like the weblog I am referring to, this Weblog will also die. So, my plea to you is that you be kind. Watch what you write. And try to offer a solution without placing blame. Or, at least, refrain from name calling.

For as in the poet, John Donne, asks, "for whom the bell tolls?" It tolls for all of us. Thanks for reading.

Jerry Murphy, CRS, SRES
Long Realty West Valley - Anthem, AZ
Anthem, Phoenix, and Scottsdale AZ Real Estate

Hi Greg, I read your original post and this one.  And I agree with you about the caustic nature of some of the bloggers out there.  It is the false bravado that the internet has provided to some.  People now write things to one another that they would never say face to face.  If they did they'd be punched in the nose.  I don't always agree with some of the political discourse exhibited here on Active Rain, but when I disagree and choose to respond to someone's post, I do it in a civil manner.  No naming calling or finger pointing.  As a society we have lost a lot of civility and dignity.  It's a shame.  Great posts, both of them.  Best of luck to you.

Oct 14, 2009 02:53 AM
Gregory Bain
Mezzina Real Estate & Insurance - Little Egg Harbor, NJ
For Homes on the Jersey Shore

Thanks, Jerry. I would not have posted this second one except it seemed easier than trying to go back and address all thos comments. Civility - I like the sound of that word.

Oct 14, 2009 06:14 AM
Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

well said, I just wish people could get along and agree to disa gree without all the anger... we need to stick together now ..not fight each other... thank you very much

Oct 14, 2009 05:16 PM
Gregory Bain
Mezzina Real Estate & Insurance - Little Egg Harbor, NJ
For Homes on the Jersey Shore

Debra, thanks for reading. I think we can have two sides of a story and both be wrong. But, the name calling and finger point needs to stop.

Oct 15, 2009 05:28 AM
Maureen McCabe
HER Realtors - Columbus, OH
Columbus Ohio Real Estate

"A warning to whoever would listen, that all this talk of POLITICS and blame of the country's economy on the other party could result in a mass exodus of our most talented contributors here at Active Rain (no, I do not consider myself to be one of those talents). "

Don't tell anyone but I do consider myself to be on of the most talented contributors here and the politics is NOT going to chase me away.  I mostly ignore it.  Easiest way for me to ignore it is not read it.  

Some often featured, long time members are using politics and finger pointing, to stir the pot.  I have stopped reading some of long time members and will probably stop reading more as the frenzy continues. 

It is outside ActiveRain too.

I want to say we've always had it but maybe not so much in 2006 and into 2007...

It is not "my cup of tea" but I can ignore it and continue to use ActiveRain.

Oct 18, 2009 11:17 AM
Gregory Bain
Mezzina Real Estate & Insurance - Little Egg Harbor, NJ
For Homes on the Jersey Shore

Maureen, you have every right to consider yourself among the best. I stop by often and was mostly a closet viewer of your blog and ActiveRain. I would leave comments once in awhile and then going back to my closet. After reading the many success stories here, I have decided to try my hand to contribute too. While at times politics and real estate are so intertwined, that they can not be separated i.e., interest rates, federal and state loan programs. But, the stuff I have been seeing looks more like a re-hash of the Rush Limaugh or Rachel Maddow TV shows. And, I think it was the death of a Canadian Real Estate Blog where agents such as yourself shared the secrets to success in the business. Thanks for reading and thanks for all your ActiveRain contributions.

Oct 19, 2009 01:33 AM