In part I, I shared the first 7 Principles developed in 1997 by Thomas Leonard, the founder of http://www.coachu.com/. About 200 of us worked with Thomas in developing these 28 Principles of The Law of Attraction. His book, The Portable Coach, written in 1998 outlined these 28 Principles and is a very comprehensive guide to working to make yourself attractive!
In coming weeks, I will share the other 14 principles. Hopefully, they'll give you some insights into making the Law of Attraction work for you. Notice that many of these steps are about YOU. The Law of Attraction works when you have taken care of the junk in your life that might be repulsive! Summer is a good time to simplify!
8. | Become Irresistibly Attractive To Yourself - Stop doing what you know is bad and start nourishing yourself. Stop trying to meet other's expectations. Stop comparing yourself to others. Stop trying to be good-BE RADICAL-or at least very authentic. Stop setting yourself up and start making it easy-narrow your focus. Start saying NO a lot. Start trusting your inklings. Striving is unattractive. Be yourself. | |
9. | Get a Fulfilling Life, Not Just an Impressive Lifestyle - How much of your life is being consumed by your lifestyle? Consider the distinction attraction vs seduction. Consider other ways of living. What about your life isn't really you? What is normal for you (even if it isn't for others). What would your ideal life look like? Do you need to downsize? Simplify? Stop striving, acquiring and pushing. | |
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10. | Promise Little, Deliver Everything - Promise far less than you know you can deliver. When you consistently deliver more than is expected, new customers are drawn to you. Surprise others by delivering because of the joy of it. Delivering everything becomes evolutionary: you grow each time you stretch the limits. Test this:Stop making promises altogether. Just do-like nature. Have reserve so you can deliver. Deliver all they expect and more and/ or and different. | |
11. | Create a Vacuum That Pulls You Forward - When there is room, a vacuum creates space and there is energy for the good stuff. Attract rather than chase. When the resistance is gone, you are lighter and more conductive. Let go of what you do not want or need. Create a conflict... promise the near-impossible and have the promise/commitment pull you forward. | |
12. | Eliminate Delay - Refuse to wait for things. Become demanding. Respond to others immediately. Maintain no inventory of to-do's. Be able to integrate change and respond immediately. Reduce your processing time. Eliminate fear based delays. Know what to respond to and what not to-get good at filtering. Automate responses. Increase your bandwidth and CPU Before you need to. Find out why you are delaying. | |
13. | Get Your Personal Needs Met, Once and For All - Tell people what you need and ask them to satisfy your needs. Pay more attention to needs and satisfaction. Identify one major need and satisfy it. What are your pivotal needs? Think about what you can not get enough of....that there still is a black hole- This is a sign of a need. Once you identify them, you can clear up a lot of things at once. How do your needs help you? What would it take to satisfy your Pivotal Need permanently? | |
14. | Thrive on The Details - If you respond immediately to the little things, there are many more opportunities. Be in the present-you can do something about it. Overrespond. Start a ripple effect with taking care of details impeccably. Improve something instantly. Notice nuances and early messages. Make fewer errors. Suffer fewer consequences. Create better matches. Put your Integrity first, then your needs, then go do whatever you want. | |
Take a look at these and decide if you want to make some shifts in areas that would give you more energy and make you more attractive. We'll look at 7 more next week.
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