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Saying Goodby to A Kitty Friend - Mr. Mac

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES

Today we said goodbye to Mr. Mac, our 20 year old 20 lb orange red mountain lion of a cat.  We were not Mac's first family but we were his last and nobody loved him better.

Mac came to us after losing his original homeowner to cancer.  He made a brief stop at my brothers but another, far less mannered feline, made the situation untenable.  Mac moved onto Howell Avenue and never looked back.

He was known to one and all, afraid of neither man nor beast and fairly indiscriminate with his affection. Our next door neighbor reported one day that Mac, sensing a new opportunity, entered an open door and made himself at home in an upstairs bedroom.  Location was not a deterrent to a good nap.

A strappingly handsome chap, Mac was stolen one year from our front yard  by someone who wanted to give him as a Christmas present.  We recovered him, weeks later, only because he had been rescued (yet again!) by the neighbor of the woman who did NOT want him as a Christmas present but saw our wanted poster at the local vet's office.

He loved to eat and expected a full bowl at all times.  Chicken was a favorite along with my morning cereal but shrimp put him right over the top.  He kept his own dining hours and expected that I would match my routine to his. Not much for playtime, Mac preferred to supervise rather than participate in any activity that required excessive locomotion.  That being said, a loose shoe string or belt always got his attention.

Mac enjoyed a good college basketball game and was a Redskins fan but thought golf was a snooze.  And NACAR?  He didn't give it the time of day. He loved sleeping in the garden, most often under a spread of hostas or on the chaise.  He claimed a chair or sofa in each room in the house and did not take kindly to being moved.  After all, it was his house and we were there at his indulgence.

He was my constant companion and I will miss him dearly.

Posted by

Michael Bergin

Your Realtor in Alexandria and Northern Virginia - ABR - SRES - Military Relocation

Ann Allen Hoover
RE/MAX Advantage South - Hoover, AL
CDPE SRES ASP e-PRO Realtor - Homes for Sale - AL

Michael, this is a wonderful and loving tribute to Mac.....I am so sorry that you have lost your dear friend.

Nov 21, 2009 07:56 AM
Michael Bergin
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES - Alexandria, VA
Northern Virginia Real Estate

Thank you Ann.  He was a buddy and a pal.

Nov 21, 2009 07:59 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Michael, we put our long time friend down this past winter, it was a tough time. We also lost a few more of our other kitties, barn type half in half out kitties, it is always so hard.

Mac sounds like he was your best friend, what a cat! You wrote such a loving tribute to him. My thoughts are with you. Our pets really are family, no denying that.

Nov 21, 2009 07:59 AM
Syreeta Saunders
Keller Williams Realty Centre - Randallstown, MD
Keys, MBA - The Keys2Day Team

Very sad to hear about Mr. Mac.

Nov 21, 2009 08:00 AM
Michael Bergin
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES - Alexandria, VA
Northern Virginia Real Estate

Andrea - We just had a bit of an Irish wake for Mac, telling stories, sharing phots and pouring a bit of whiskey on his grave.  He was quite a cat.

Syreeta - Thank you

Nov 21, 2009 08:03 AM
Bob & Carolin Benjamin
Benjamin Realty LLC - Gold Canyon, AZ
East Phoenix Arizona Homes

This is sad -- we understand -- we had a wonderful fellow who lived to be almost 20 and he was special -- and years later still missed. All the best.

Nov 21, 2009 09:19 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Michael, this fellow clearly had a long and wonderful life, and knowing that doesn't make it any easier to say goodby.  Big hugs!

Nov 21, 2009 09:24 AM
Michael Bergin
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES - Alexandria, VA
Northern Virginia Real Estate

Bob and Carolin and Patricia, Thank you so much for your kind words. I truly appreciate your thoughts.

Nov 21, 2009 09:36 AM
Jane Peters
Home Jane Realty - Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles real estate concierge services

Sorry, Michael.  This is exactly why I won't have animals.  That and the fact that I would never leave the house.  It is too heartbreaking.

Nov 21, 2009 09:43 AM
Elizabeth Bolton
RE/MAX Destiny Real Estate Cambridge, MA - Cambridge, MA
Cambridge MA Realtor

Michael I'm so sorry to hear about Mac - what a handome cat - he's magnificent  This is a marvelous tribute to him - and one that will mean so much to you years down the road. He had quite the adventurous life and sure ended up with the right family.

Liz

Nov 21, 2009 01:45 PM
Donna Yates
BHGRE - Metro Brokers - Blue Ridge, GA
Blue Ridge Mountains

Michael:  Mac sounds like one fortunate cat to have you as his family and I know it works both ways.  He is quite a handsome cat and I enjoyed the story very much.  I am truly sorry he is gone now and I do know the pain of such a loss.  Fortunately, in time, the great memories will come to mind more and more and you will find a lot of comfort in those memories.  I recently acquired a cat that looks very much like Mac and he certainly has the very same demeanor.  I am a dog lover but like Mac, my Pumpkin is quite special.  Take comfort in knowing that Mac knew he was loved and well cared for.

Nov 22, 2009 04:27 AM
Michael Bergin
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES - Alexandria, VA
Northern Virginia Real Estate

Jane - It is heartbreaking but the reward is all its own.

Liz and Donna - Thank you so much.  He was a magnificent fellow and we had a proper Irish Wake for him, complete with stories, pictures and liquid refreshment.  I think he would have liked it very much.  He was even on the prayer list at church this morning.

Michael

Nov 22, 2009 07:15 AM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate

Michael, I lost my 19 year old cat a year ago to cancer and it nearly broke my heart.  It is amazing how some pets become so much more.  I am very sorry for your loss.

I dropped by because you left a nice comment on my Speechless Sunday post about sculling and crewing.  I just started classes with 8-person shells and LOVE it.  Are you an avid rower?

Nov 22, 2009 11:31 PM
Michael Bergin
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES - Alexandria, VA
Northern Virginia Real Estate

No, but my wife took up rowing (8 person shells) for her 50th  and she loved it too.  Rowing on the Potomac though can be a rough ride - having the shell flip because of rough water and passing boats was not unheard of. 

We think Mac had a small stroke - enough to blind him and leave him dragging a leg.  Heartbreaking indeed.

Thanks for stopping by, we'll see you again I hope.

Michael

 

Nov 23, 2009 07:34 AM
Lee & Carol Barbour, REALTORS
Murphy and Hayesville, NC; Hiawassee, Blairsville, Blue Ridge GA - Murphy, NC
Mountain Living Team in Murphy NC and North GA

So sorry for the loss of Mr. Mac. It's obvious he was dearly loved.

Nov 23, 2009 02:12 PM