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Sad Saturday...Prayers and Help Requested.

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Real Estate Agent with Pine Knoll Shores Realty NCRE# 242843

As usual, I woke around 4:30 AM this morning. Trying to be quiet and not wake up the rest of the family, I logged into Facebook, and noticed that my husband had added a link to his wall to a newspaper article.  His childhood friend Todd, along with his two small children and his teenage brother-in-law, were killed in a car accident on Thanksgiving Day as they headed to a family reunion. 

I looked in the bed again, to notice that Roger wasn't there...I found him sitting at his desk with tears in his eyes.  He had been on the phone with friends all night remembering Todd and all of the good times they had.  As old friends log on to facebook, they continue to call with their surprise and sadness.  Todd's Wife, Deva, survived the accident, but with serious injuries.  As a mother, wife and sister, I cannot begin to imagine what Deva must be going through right now.  

 

(To read the entire article, click here: www.statesman.com)

 

Roger, My husband, just received a message from Todd's sister, Rebecca, with a request for help and to please pass along.  At a time when I know that nothing I can say will make them feel any better, I can pass this on and hopefully it will help them.  I count my blessings one by one today and will pray without ceasing for Todd's Wife and family.

Below is the message from Rebecca:

Roger,Thank you so much for your prayers and concern,we apprecite it greatly..Actually there is something you can do to help me as well as Deva and the Family..As you probaly know,Deva has been in school full time,and Todd was attending also,and with two children,...they never had alot of money..So now Deva is stuck with a burial of not one but three...And she did not ask for this,and she as well as Todd and the children did not deserve this..So im asking of all friends to please post The Szymankiewicz Memorial Fund so maybe others will re-post it,and maybe they will donate..Every little bit helps so that we can have Todd and the children buried..Deva's plans are to have a service in TX for family and friends,and then after that at Todd's request,she is escorting Todd and the children to Chicago,where there will be a final service for family and friends and Todd and the children will be laid to rest by the Szymankiewicz ancestors..So,Todd was my closest brother,my heart,and I loved my Bean and Casi like no other,and Deva is like my sister,and it is my duty to try and get everyone to help and get the word out there..Thank you so much...The Szymankiewicz Memorial FundAustin Federal Credit Union 1900 Woodward StreetAustin Texas 78741(512)444-6419http://www.facebook.com/l/277ae;www.austinfcu.com Thank you so much Roger, Rebecca Szymankiewicz Perez.

 

Please feel free to reblog, copy and paste on facebook, or anywhere else you can think of.  As Rebecca said, "Every little bit helps".

 

 

Comments(8)

Charles Buell
Charles Buell Inspections Inc. - Seattle, WA
Seattle Home Inspector

Amy, I hate hearing about stories like this.  The lives cut short---the lives destroyed of those left behind.  So many difficulties all the way around.  All in an instant.

Nov 28, 2009 06:08 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Amy - Seems like such a senseless tragedy ... such a heart-wrenching story.

Nov 28, 2009 06:11 AM
Toula Rosebrock
Diane Turton, Realtors, Forked River, NJ - Lacey Township, NJ
Broker/Sales Associate, Realtor, Lacey Township,

ToulaRosebrock,com

Hi Amy:

So sorry to hear about this...

What a terrible tragedy.

Nov 28, 2009 10:22 AM
Nevin Williams
Fairway Independent Mortgage Corporation - Cary, NC
Senior Mortgage Advisor

Amy - How heartbreaking.  My prayers go out to you and your family.

Nov 28, 2009 01:22 PM
TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

Amy, Such a tragic loss. I too hate to hear stories like this too...

Helping you live your American dream...

Nov 28, 2009 08:16 PM
Alexander Harb
Knights Investing - Mesquite, TX
Dallas, Texas Real Estate Investing

I am posting this in "Christianity and Real Estate" as a prayer request........

WOW... after the joys of Thanksgiving, the pain of life starts all over again......

We enter into the Kingdom of God by "The narrow gate........ hard is the way...........few find it....."

 

KEEP RUNNING the RACE..
Your reward will follow you!

\O/

Nov 30, 2009 04:15 AM
Marian Goetzinger
Pine Knoll Shores Realty 252-422-9000 - Pine Knoll Shores, NC
Crystal Coast Real Estate NC

Amy, I always try to read your posts and respond immediately but I had to take some time with this one.  It is such a horrible senseless tragedy and so many young lives gone that I couldn't hardly get my head around it.  Of course, knowing how sad Roger is hurt me but I keep thinking about the driver who was the grandmother of the youngest two children.  As a grandmother myself I kept thinking about her and how unbelievably sad and devastated she must be.

I'm glad to hear that money is coming in to help.  God bless them all.

Dec 02, 2009 03:17 AM
Amy Hahn
Pine Knoll Shores Realty - Morehead City, NC
Realtor/Broker - Crystal Coast, NC

Thanks Mom!  It is such a sad story, and so close to home.  Roger is actually handling it very well, and is staying strong in order to help Todd's Sister and wife as much as possible.  Donations continue to come in to help with the cost of things, and the support from friends and even strangers is so appreciated by all involved.  Keep them in your prayers.

Dec 02, 2009 03:22 AM