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Remind me again - Why am I keeping my house?

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Education & Training with Divorce Real Estate Institute, LLC BRE# 01719958

Drowning in Debt

Meeting after meeting with "distressed homeowners" has me begging the question:  Why should they keep their house? And this is not about a *payday* for me; it's about a business decision for the homeowner.

Picture this:  A 40-something couple, bought their house near the top of the market with 10% downpayment.  They have two small children, are self-employeed, and very hard-working, ethical people.  They owe $800,000 and their house is now worth $390,000.  Their business has suffered, and they easily qualify  - and get approved for - a loan modification.

The loan mod slashed their $6,500 payment to $3,500, restarts their note beginning now, for 30 years.  It does not lop off any of the principle, so they still owe $800,000.  At the end of the life of the loan, when it's all said and done, they will have paid $1,260,000 for this house. 

The husband looks at me and says, "Why am I going to work my tail off, to end up paying 3X what my house is worth?  Why don't I just stop making payments now, short sell it and save $21,000 during the 6-month process, which will cover a year's worth of rent somewhere, rebuild my credit and purchase again in two years?"

He reminded me that everyone in his neighborhood has moved and he is the only "fool" left on the block that owes more than $400,000 on his house - double that, as a matter of fact.  Furthermore, he says, "If I pay $350,000 for another house in two years, I can double-up on my payments (not exceeding the $3,500 loan mod payment) and pay the thing off in 15 years. 

"I have to think about my future, my kids' future, their college, my retirement.  I don't have an extra million dollars to throw away on this place.  I understand completely, the moral dilemma.  That is why I haven't pursued this option until now.  But there comes a time when I have to look out for myself and my family, and if that means cutting my losses now to ensure a secure future, then so be it."

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Laurel Starks, Divorce Real Estate Analyst - Keller Williams Realty, Rancho Cucamonga, CA

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Tina D Saporito, Your Dedicated Palm Desert, CA Realtor Since 2005
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I have to agree that loan modifications that don't reduce the principle amount are only prolonging this distressed market. If you truly have a hardship and you qualify for a short sale, I would suggest doing one while the banks are allowing them.

Dec 08, 2009 04:34 AM
Craig Richardson
National Realty - McLean, VA

Laurel, who ever imagined we'd get to a point where a father must make these types of decisions for his family on such a widespread basis.  It's rough out there.

Dec 08, 2009 04:53 AM
Minna Reid
Reid Real Estate Group LLC - Jacksonville, FL
Broker/Owner

More and more people will come to this same realization and already are...It just makes no sense to stay when faced with those prospects.

WHY STAY?

Dec 09, 2009 06:26 AM
Thomas McCombs
Century 21 HomeStar - Akron, OH

The issue is responsibility. You have a responsibility to your lender. But you also have a responsibilty to your family. Which one comes first when there is a conflict? 

The assumptions that drove the decisions to buy and to borrow were the same for both the borrowers and the lenders. Had the assumptions been different the actions would have been different. Now for some reason many believe that the borrowers should bear the entire cost of the housing price collapse all by themselves.

"Tain't right. It's only fair that the lenders participate in this disaster, and as a matter of fact, they are. But we all have to start toning down the noise directed towards the poor borrowers.

"This is a great time to buy a house."

Akron, Ohio

Dec 20, 2009 07:45 AM
Brian Brumpton
Keller Williams Boise - Boise, ID
Boise Idaho Real Estate

You have a responsibility to your family to protect and provide for them.  Keeping up with this is just another bad financial decision.  Not even the lender would keep going with that type of investment.

Dec 23, 2009 02:23 PM