The past year has not been kind to divorce lawyers. Divorce is down 4% nationally. Things are different now. The drop in housing prices combined with a declining economy is making couples who would normally part ways stay the course and stick to their vows of death till us part.
So many couples are underwater on equity in their homes that they can't sell - split the money - part ways and start their lives anew. If they bought the house jointly and one spouse decides to abandon ship the house could go into default their credit gets creamed for five years.
In so many cases homes have turned from sound investments into a toxic assets. The cost of living has gone up. Unemployment is on the rise - and because of this bad economy many people who hate each others guts are choosing to stay together because there is no money to split up and no money left for alimony and child support once all the bills are paid.
During my parents time which was after WW11 people who couldn't stand each, and there were lots of them, stayed together for all kinds of reasons. One big reason was economic. A lot of women didn't work, my mother included, and there weren't as many opportunities for women in the work place like there are now. If a husband left his wife back in the 50's without any money she would likely have to struggle just to survive. If she was taking care of the kids the ante went up.
I wonder what is going to happen after the dust settles. If the economy and the housing market continue to decline for a couple of more years and take their sweet time coming back how are married people who wanted to part ways a long time ago going to stem the tide? Maybe they'll find a way to work things out. Maybe not. Will the floodgates open for divorce filings once the economy begins to swing the other way?
I guess the divorce lawyers will be waiting on the sidelines biting their nails and watching the scoreboard until the game changes.
If you or somebody you know is caught in a bad domestic situation please contact me about doing a Loan Modification or a Short Sale.
ROBIN BASICHIS - CBC PROPERTY SOLUTIONS
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