So this week I have had the opurtunity to deal with some clients who were very hostile from the beging and all through out our dealings. The end result was YES! I did find them a home and YES I did manage to sell their home! For whatever reasons the other party had they decided to fight all the way through our dealings. We will all come across people in our careers who have the potential to be like this! Here are some pointers that I have found to work. I hope someone can make use of them!
If you notice temper rising during your dealings, stop and address it. I see, Mr. Doe,you are feeling upset. Would you like a drink of water, or some time to calm down before we continue?" Most people will rein in their temper if it is addressed before it becomes full blown. Always speak calmly and never try to out shout. One ploy that works is to say, the louder you speak the more difficulty I have understanding you. Please talk in a normal voice so we can be sure we have understood each other throughout the interview.
Explain to the person you understand what it is they want from your business. Explain the criteria for getting what this person needs and tell him you will do your best to help him but there are rules, regulations and laws which may prevent you from doing so. At this point, express your genuine desire to help. If he understands you care and are trying to find ways from him to qualify, there will less likely be an outburst if you are unable to meet his needs
Never put yourself in risk of getting hurt! The deal is never worth it!
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