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It's Monday - What Will You Be? A Vitamin or a Victim?

By
Real Estate Agent with Better Homes And Gardens Real Estate Gary Greene

Daily Dose by Veo_Are We Victims?

Some people allow events, people and circumstances to impact them permanently negative! These people are victims. You recognize a VICTIM like so:
  1. They mope, whine, opine and wish things were like they used to be....way back when.
  2. It's never their fault, there is no forgiveness or acceptance.
  3. Negativity poisons their passion?
  4. Setbacks cripple compassion and chinks their soul.
  5. Hopelessness brittles their heart and turns their futures fruitless.
  6. Misery loves company. They throw impromptu pity parties to infect friends with their victim-virus.
  7. They are mean and small and petty.
At times, life's hard, unfair and brutal. How we handle accidental adversity and unexpected impact is up to us. Victimhood is a choice, so is Vitaminhood.

Are We Vitamins?

Some people allow events, people and circumstances to impact them permanently positive! These people are Vitamins. You recognize a VITAMIN like so:

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Comments (2)

Marianne Cherico
Interiors by Marianne Cherico - Foxboro, MA
Home Stager -Massachusetts and Rhode Island

I agree, victim mode just doesn't work for me. Victims "suck the life out of you". There are many "vitaman people" who have been through real adversity and inspire those around them. It is not our circumstances but our attitude that makes us victims or vitamins!

Jan 24, 2010 11:04 PM
TERRY DRISCOLL
MAINE HOME REALTY - Bath, ME
REALTOR - Buy or Sell in Any Season!

Vitamins = energy, vim, vigor, stamina = no time to stop and wallow.  Victims have too much time on their hands - - go do something!  Anything, and you won't have to be a pill.

Jan 25, 2010 12:52 AM