How to bring change into your life.
1st. Pretend that all you now believe to be real, is not, and that all you wish to be real, is. If only for a few minutes each day.
2nd. Then, act like all you wish to be real already is real. With just a word here, a sentence there, or some little demonstration. If only in private.
3rd. Before long, you won't even remember what you used to believe was real. Pretend you already do this stuff whenever you want change.