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What Have I (or You) Got to Complain About? Meet Butch Lumpkin, You Might Look at Your Life a Bit Differently

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Real Estate Agent with Retired

I woke up this morning with the increasing aches and pains of getting a bit older. I winced, grumbled, moaned and groaned and loudly commisserated about no longer being young and spry. About how nature is mistreating us in our prime years.

And then I remembered a video clip that a friend of mine, a good golfing buddy, sent me the other day. We go out every couple of weeks a flail away at a little white ball for 18 holes, certainly getting our moneys worth of strokes, and fun. We bitch and moan about the unfairness of the greens, bad bounces. We make excuses for our play, arthritis kicking in, a squirrel passed gas just as I was in the middle of mine down-swing. And then I realize, I don't have it so bad, all things considered.

Meet Butch Lumpkin. If there ever was a person that had a right to complain, had the right to feel that life treated him unfairly, the right to feel sorry for himself, that person is Butch Lumpkin. He took what life handed him and made it work. I wish I could hit the ball as far as he does. I wish that I could score as well as he does. I hope that I can face those trials coming to me in the future as well as he does.

So, the next time you are feeling beat down by life, that you have too many things working against you, that life is unfair, go ahead and visit Butch again. The next time you see someone complaining about their state in life, introduce them to Butch. Most of you, most of us, will realize that maybe we don't have too much to complain about.

Whether you are a golfer or not, you might develop a new appreciation for life after viewing this. Be patiend with the very short commercial at the beginning.

Dennis Duvernay Broker/Owner
Hillview Realty - Northbridge, MA

I just came back from my hour walk in the cold and complaining how much my left knee hurts.....well this video puts it all in perspective.....I know I will bitch again but not today....

Feb 14, 2010 12:50 AM
Jody Lautenbach
Century 21 Premier Associates - Pella, IA

You always could have it worse - try to find a positive in everything - no matter how bad.  Some else always has it worse.  Great story.

Feb 14, 2010 01:11 AM
Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

Mike...

Wow, that was an awesome video and an awesome story! Thanks for the Sunday inspiration!

Featured in the Group "Whacked!!!"

Feb 14, 2010 01:29 AM
Joanne O'Donnell
Chic Home Interiors - Oakland, CA

Mike, what an inspiring person - thanks for sharing his remarkable story with us. It made my day!

Feb 14, 2010 03:33 AM
Patrick Scott
OConnor Title Guaranty, Inc. - Chicago, IL

Mike, thanks for the inspirational mesage.  On the other hand, anybody who wants to feel better about their golf game needs only to play 18 holes with me.  Enjoy the rest of the weekend.

Feb 14, 2010 06:48 AM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Trey - glad it could move you that way!

Dennis - I already did, after showing homes all afternoon, then a tip through Wal-Mart, and my arthritic hip acting up. But then I came back and logged in here.....

Jody - thanks, there almost always is someone who has it worse, and, is handling it better

Richard - thanks for the feature

Joanne- glad it could do that

Patrick - game on!

Feb 14, 2010 07:50 AM
Don Rogers
Keller Williams Realty Chesterfield - O'Fallon, MO
Realtor, Broker, CDPE, GRI, OnullFallon MO & St Charles County MO homes

Mike,

I am glad that I came back this evening and read this post.  I needed a kick in the pants and I got it.  Thank you sir for introducing me to Butch Lumpkin

Feb 14, 2010 11:20 AM
Jason Crouch
Austin Texas Homes, LLC - Austin, TX
Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (512-796-7653)

Mike - This is a truly awesome video.  Thanks very much for sharing it with us.

Feb 14, 2010 12:26 PM
Rebecca Gaujot, RealtorĀ®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Mike, a great video and I will be forwarding this post to my family and friends.

Feb 14, 2010 12:39 PM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Don - I am glad that you came back also, which reminds me, I need to visit your blog more often

Jason - and thanks for stopping by

Rebecca - and I hope that they enjoy it, thanks.

Feb 14, 2010 02:36 PM
Jay Beckingham
Christensen Financial Mortgage - Port St Lucie, FL
Seniors ROCK!

i love my stents. people laugh at this when i mention it. they saved my life. when my dad had a heart attack he had to have quadruple bypass. there weren't any such thing as stents. whomever invented these i'd like to kiss on the lips, unless they're male in which case i'd like to shake his hand.

I really don't think much about them anymore as i go about my daily business, but to quote the late jim morrison

"glad to be a part of this number"

life that is.

Feb 14, 2010 10:01 PM
Michael Delaware
North Sky Realty LLC - Battle Creek, MI
REALTORĀ®, CRS, GRI

Very inspiring!  Thank you!

Feb 14, 2010 11:53 PM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Jay - glad things worked out for you

Michael - thanks for dropping by!

Feb 15, 2010 12:27 AM
Ross Westerman
Kingwood, TX

You know, everyone has a cross to bear, it just says alot how you carry it.

Feb 15, 2010 01:31 PM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Ross - speaking of content of character

Feb 15, 2010 11:23 PM
Will Nesbitt
Nesbitt Realty at Condo Alexandria - Alexandria, VA
Nesbitt Realty is a family-run brokerage.

Ross took the words out of my mouth.

Feb 16, 2010 09:34 PM
Claude Cross
Homes By Cross, Inc. - Charlotte, NC
Charlotte NC Homes For Sale

I loved the video and the message it sends. I have much to be grateful for. Thanks for sharing this link

Feb 17, 2010 04:38 AM
Andy Chaudoir
Professional Inspection Services - Georgetown, Texas - Georgetown, TX
Your Home Inspection Connection in Central Texas

Hello Mike - Thanks for sharing Butch's amazing story.  It helps me realize just how fortunate I am.  Thanks again.

Feb 17, 2010 04:25 PM
Dagny Eason
Dagny's Real Estate - Wilton, CT
Fairfield County CT, CDPE Homes For Sale and Condo

Wow!  That was very moving ........    I see that energy every day - in those less fortunate.

 

Feb 18, 2010 03:28 AM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Will - a good attitude for all of us

Claude - you are very welcome

Andy - you and me both

Dagny  (hmm, were your parents Ayn Rand fans?) truly a lemonade from lemons story

Feb 18, 2010 06:54 AM