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07-17-76 Bicentennial Boy Is Born....And Learns A Heck Of A Lot Along The Way!

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I'm killing two blogs with one stone here.  Number one, I'm going to finally address Bob Mitchell's request that I'm Meme'd once again.  Sorry it took so long Mr. Mitchell.  Number two, I'm going to run down some of the things I've learned in my 31 years of existence here on Planet Earth.  31 of them to be exact.  They will address what I've learned from Real Estate, Active-Rain, and Life....about my role in all three.  I know attention spans are lacking these days, so bear with me here. 

As typical, off the cuff and in no particular order:

                                                           

1)  The Golden Rule is King.  How we treat people, all people, says wonders about us.  It's never too late to wake up tomorrow morning and start treating people like they matter, because we all do.

2)  Bad things happen to good people.  Good things happen to bad people.  I guess you've got to go through Hell to get to Heaven, and vice versa.

3)  I have a big brain, but bigger heart.  I look for the same in those I deal with.  I wouldn't have it any other way.

4)  You can try to inspire, lead, guide, and help anybody, but you can't do it for them.  I've always hated that.

5)  I make mistakes and will continue to do so.  I'm not a fan of such, yet I'm willing to own up to the fact that I'm not perfect, far from.  We all need something to strive for.

6)  Money should be one less worry in all of our lives.  It's still a worry in mine, but so is life.

7)  You probably won't always be fresh, new, popular, and the best....it is the times your aren't any of those that help define you.

8)  I hate pastries...there, I said it!

9)  I'd rather not waste your time and would prefer you don't waste mine.  Time is the most valuable commodity we have, yours is valuable and so is mine.

10)  I want to be a Mentor, a Teacher, a Father, one day.   I'm still working on earning all of those titles.

11)  Nobody owns you!  It's easy to fall prey and hard to hunt what you want when you're feeling down.  If you want to get out of your funk, listen to George Clinton.  Or, just be strong enough to know all of us are at times, weak!

12)  Wow, that George Clinton link was bad audio.....

13)  My lucky number.  If you want to discuss Reverse Mortgages, Pay-Option ARMS, Debt Consolidation, Using the Equity in your Home to its fullest capacity, I'm game.  I can also talk with you about why your kitten sleeps on its back and likes its tummy rubbed.  I'm not lucky, I'm human.  Goes with the territory.

14)  I've been in love and at war, internally & externally.  Love hurts more and rewards far greater.

15)  I would love to copy & paste the next 17 of the 31 things I've learned in being involved in Real Estate, Active-Rain, & Life, but apparently "MR. X" is sleeping.  Inside joke...

16)  I don't want to imitate anyone, I want to be influenced by pretty much everyone!

17)  I take bad pictures but I wouldn't kick me out of bed:-)

18)  Those who are labeled 'Mentally Handicapped' are probably the most tangible thing we have to God.

19)  I am a loner, a wall flower, and when I die....which is inevitable, this song will always follow me.

20)  I laugh when I write, I also cry.  In both cases, literally. 

                                                             And Now I Get Edgy!

21)  As the birthdays accumulate, I don't feel older, even though it's dangerous eating Hot Wings these days.

22)  True story, I have scars.  If you look real close, you can still see them.  I have no tattoos or piercings, but I do have scars.  When I was a youngster, I graduated high-school at a mere 130 lbs with a smart mouth and Personal Roast for anybody who I felt deserving.  That was before I grew into my 6'1" frame and started to make my body stronger/harder to hurt by working out.  I hated confrontation and fights, especially at that time when I knew I may get beat.  So, I came up with a way to try to avoid such instances.  When those circumstances arose, my response was simple.  I'm going to get flack this for this one.   In a totally sober state, I would put a cigarette out on my arm without flinching.  And guess what, it worked....every time!  I never got screwed with...people seem to fear the perception of one feeling little physical pain.

23)  I love The Beatles!  In fact, I had a pro-wrestling persona whose name was derived from a character in a song they sung.  His role in my mind, making fun of professional wrestling while being very damn good at.  The anti-tough guy persona with a very sarcastic mouth....

24)  I want to change the world...one mistake at a time.

25)  It's a wonderful thing being a homeowner, I need a tax break considering I'm a single, white male with no kids!  Ugh....

26)  Most people think I'm tough, physically and mentally.  At least those who know me.  And they are right, the reason they are right is because I embrace weakness and tears.

27)  I love my parents, as I do people here and in the industry I work in, it doesn't mean though I think they should be together.

28)  My cat Baxter means the world to me, and someday I hope I care as much about the world.

29)  I love to write and as much as I hate to admit it, love when people love the way I write.

30)  Silence is deafening.

31)  I'll be here manana as you are reading this tonight or the next morning, and in the end,  I don't care that you care or even rated this post...I'll be content if you just read it.  That is caring to me.

Suzanne Sands
Pavao Real Estate - Somerset, MA
Somerset MA Real Estate

Jason,

you have learned sooo much in 31 years!  Hope you enjoyed your birthday! :)

Jul 17, 2007 10:42 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life
Thanks Suzanne, it has been an interesting trip indeed.
Jul 17, 2007 10:45 PM
Lysa Napolitano
Daytona Beach, FL
Happy belated Birthday Jason! I think this is one the best Meme's written!! Really enjoyed getting to know you better.
Jul 17, 2007 10:45 PM
Sarah Cooper
Real Estate Shows - Hurricane, WV

Wow, Jason.  If I didn't already love your writing, you'd have made me a fan with this!  (I can't believe it -- Billy and I agree on something!)

I also agree with Sis -- I love sweets!  

Don't you DARE do your #22 again!!!  That bothers me for you and on another level, just DON'T.  I want to go back in time and make you quit that.  

You're right on #18, most people don't see it. 

Tough guy with a heart ... why are you single??? ;o)

Jul 17, 2007 11:02 PM
Neal Bloom
Brokered by eXp Realty LLC - Weston, FL
Realtor CRS-Weston FL Real Estate

The Beatles and a cigarette? What a combination. Try a cigar...they burn longer and leave a bigger mark.:)

Love those Jersey Wings garlic teryaki.

Happy BDAY!

Jul 17, 2007 11:03 PM
Chris Griffith
Downing-Frye Realty, Bonita Springs, FL - Bonita Springs, FL
Bonita Springs Listing Specialist - Agent
The Beatles are awesome!  Does Baxter like the Beatles, though?  He may be suffering in silence as you listen to Penny Lane.
Jul 17, 2007 11:09 PM
Bryant Tutas
Tutas Towne Realty, Inc and Garden Views Realty, LLC - Winter Garden, FL
Selling Florida one home at a time
Well done Jason. I really enjoyed learning more about you and your thoughts. BTW, I too have scars, more than you could ever imagine, externally and internally:)
Jul 18, 2007 01:02 AM
SHAUN WREN
LICENSE IS NOT PLACED - Lakeland, FL

Other than Happy Birthday, I am speechless.

Jul 18, 2007 01:27 AM
Sarah Cooper
Real Estate Shows - Hurricane, WV
(And great title, Bicentennial Boy!)
Jul 18, 2007 01:29 AM
Bob Carney
Taylor-Made Deep Creek Vacations & Sales - Mc Henry, MD
Licensed MD/PA Real Estate Agent
Happy Birthday...Is this the table of contents for an autobiography?  Your post are like an open book!  Nicely done.
Jul 18, 2007 01:42 AM
Thomas Weiss
Thomas R. Weiss - West Palm Beach, FL

J-Dog,

Happy Birthday, you are now older than me :0) man I love your writing you need to keep at it, It's real...

And Happy Birthday again..

Tom

Jul 18, 2007 02:40 AM
Desiree Daniels
RE/MAX Tri County - Robbinsville, NJ

Happy Birthday (belated)... hope it was a good one.   Its funny how when you hit you're early 30's we all kind of go through the same "mental" things... trying to figure out and save the world .. like you said one mistake at a time.

We all want to make a difference and I've learned that I do make a difference every day when I help someone get to where they need to be.   

#8 I have issues with!!!!

#16 you got my vote on that one

#17 I ain't touchin' that one

#20 Ditto

#22 - you get a smack on the back of the head for that one :::shaking head:::

# 24, 26, 29 & 30 all get a big thumbs up from me

Great post... thanks for sharing

Jul 18, 2007 04:09 AM
Rey Gallegos
Supreme Lending (NMLS ID #2129) - Las Vegas, NV
FHA, VA, Home Loans Las Vegas, NV
Jason, I would have NEVER pegged you for a cat guy!  Happy Birthday my man!!!
Jul 18, 2007 07:24 AM
Michael Eisenberg
eXp Realty - Bellingham, WA
Bellingham Real Estate Guy

Happy Birthday Jason, as usual I enjoy reading your writing and I love the Beatles.

Your wise for and will get wiser as you grow older, your still a young man.

A cigarette on your arm, that is tough!!!!

Jul 18, 2007 07:25 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

Jason...

My dog Brutus Tutas means the world to me and I hope someday I care as much about the world :)

TLW...ROAR!

Jul 18, 2007 07:41 AM
William J. Archambault, Jr.
The Real Estate Investment Institute - Houston, TX

Jason,

"   " !

Bill

PS: I miss our Irsish Sitter but he had 15 good years with the kids, We don't have a cat, but for the =last 12 years I've shared living quaters and a wife one. The dog was our's the cat considers us staff.

Jul 18, 2007 08:54 AM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

Lysa - Thank you so very much!

Sarah - You are being bossy again.   As far as why I am single, #22 illustrates that just perfectly.

Neal - Good point, I've done Cigars but you are right on with that. 

Chris - I think Mr. Baxter digs the Beatles, then again, nobody told me there would be days like these!

Bryant - I am curious as hell....and you know why...

Shaun - I hope that is a good thing.

Bob - Open book indeed.  Table of contents my A$$! 

Tom - It's Damn Real!

Desiree - I hate getting hit on the back of the head....OUCH!

Rey - I love pussy.....cats.

Michael - Yeah, I'm tough...I'm also a Wise....A$$!

TLW - I love animals, they are so much more in depth than most people.

Bill - I don't know what the heck you are talking about sometimes, this is one of those times...

Jul 18, 2007 01:54 PM
William J. Archambault, Jr.
The Real Estate Investment Institute - Houston, TX

Jason,

Dittos are suppose to be complementary, I agree with all the nice things said.

Brenda only allows me 237,303 words a day, I'd reached my quota before noon. These are next Mondays words. You're getting older understanding comes with age.

Bill

Jul 18, 2007 03:28 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life
Bill - Ahhhh, gotcha!   Lol, you're too much!
Jul 18, 2007 08:39 PM
Sarah Cooper
Real Estate Shows - Hurricane, WV

I'm bossy, I've learned to live with it.  

#22 is NOT a good enough reason to still be single.  It IS a good enough reason for me to get upset with you.  Stop it, Sardi.  You haven't SEEN bossy yet!   

.... 

Aaah.  Maybe bossy women like ME are why you're still single.  Making more sense now.  :o) 

Jul 19, 2007 07:53 AM