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It Takes A Village - During These Difficult Times Many Good Things Do Happen!

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Real Estate Agent with Midwest Properties of MI - Grand Rapids

Our Volunteers!  I don't know about most of you but it becomes  more and more difficult for me to listen to the evening news or even read the newspaper.  I have tired of hearing primarily bad news and sometimes will find myself just tuning out, which believe me I know, is not a good thing.

Recently, I received a referral from a good friend of mine to help friends of his with the listing of their home.  This family had already attempted to work with the bank on a loan modification (which to their regret didn't work out) and also made several attempts at contacting a few Realtors in this area who "specialize in short sales" and did not receive one call back

I was able to connect with them shortly thereafter and set up an appointment to get together.  They, as many in this situation are truly wonderful people and this is a family who will always be there for others, expecting nothing in return.  The father has had his work hours cut, now working 3 jobs just to try to make ends meet and this on top of some family medical expenses have placed them in this unfortunate situation.
 
We talked over the short sale process that evening and went ahead and listed their home and even though the thought of leaving their home is very difficult to bare, they do NOT hold a grudge against their bank. In the homeowners words..."How can I be mad at the bank?"  "I took out this loan and told them I would pay it off, now I'm telling them I can't...I don't blame them."  This couple really wants to do what is right and the best they can in selling their home and hopefully cause as little damage to their credit as possible.

Now, enter the good friend who referred them to me...knowing this family's home could use a little help in getting "show ready" primarily a little paint, fixing a sink and a light socket, repairing the tracking of the closet doors etc...he pulled together a team of people (Volunteers) who helped and accomplished much on one recent Saturday morning/afternoon, making all the difference in the world.
  
I just had to stop by while the work was in process (providing lots of pizza...only trying to do my small part) and was able to meet this fantastic crew of 14 people, adults and teenager's ready, willing, able and working hard!  IT WAS AMAZING!! My friend took a minute to thank everyone for their time and participation in coming together to help out and in seeing this good group of people thoughtfully listening, I have to admit, brought tears to my eyes as it was truly heart warming.  Thanks so much to Brendan for taking the above picture for me...unfortunately not all involved were able to be present at that time.

During these incredibly hard times now more than ever people are in need...and in this time of great need I'm seeing more and more that those who are able, will reach out to do whatever they can in even the simplest of ways, to help someone else who is struggling. 

Although it may sound a bit cliche' it really does Take a Village and out of difficult times many good things do happen!  People simply helping people, its heart warming, it's encouraging and it's a very good thing!

Thanks so much to this inspiring group of people...you have made a difference and you all ROCK!!

Picture provided by Brendan Powers.

 

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Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Thank you for sharing such an inspiring story!  What a great way to begin the week with this kind of uplifting example!

Mar 07, 2010 12:28 AM
Ralph Gorgoglione
Metro Life Homes - Studio City, CA
California and Hawaii Real Estate (310) 497-9407

One thing I have learned over the past year is that even in the face of adversity, ANYTHING can happen with the power of numbers when people band together.

Mar 07, 2010 12:32 AM
Edward & Celia Maddox
The Celtic Connection Realty - Queen Creek, AZ
EXPERIENCE & INTEGRITY - WE TAKE THE HIGH ROAD

Thanks for posting. We learn a lot from Active Rain blogs. Best Regards,

Mar 07, 2010 12:33 AM
Therese VanderMeer
Midwest Properties of MI - Grand Rapids - Jenison, MI
Realtor-Greater Grand Rapids, MI area communities

Hi Paula:  You are welcome! This was a fun blog to post!

Mar 07, 2010 12:37 AM
Therese VanderMeer
Midwest Properties of MI - Grand Rapids - Jenison, MI
Realtor-Greater Grand Rapids, MI area communities

Hi Ralph:   So True!  When so many people are willing to offer even a small amount of help, the impact it has is HUGE.  :-)  Thanks for stopping by.

Mar 07, 2010 12:41 AM
Therese VanderMeer
Midwest Properties of MI - Grand Rapids - Jenison, MI
Realtor-Greater Grand Rapids, MI area communities

Hi Edward and Celia:  Your Welcome!  We all learn Lot's here.  :-)

Mar 07, 2010 12:42 AM
Tami Behler
Prudential Bob Yost Homesale Services - York, PA

Thank you for sharing such an inspiring story.  While we've become so familiar with the numbers of short sales and foreclosures and the unemployment figures, they numb us to the fact that families and people are the faces behind the numbers.  Best wishes to this family and all those who came together to help!

Mar 07, 2010 12:45 AM
William True
True Sarasota Real Estate - Sarasota, FL
Sarasota Real Estate

It does take a Village! Everyone needs to bond together in these difficult times. Thanks for the blog, Therese!

Mar 07, 2010 12:46 AM
Deborah Byron Leffler BzyBee Real Estate Lady!
Keller Williams Realty Boise - Nampa, ID

Great post!   It is so true....I wrote  a post last year about some of the Realtors in our tour meetings referring to non short sale listings as "normal seller"   SOme from our office who seems to do more short sales than others stood up when it was our turn to pitch listings and reminded the agents that we had "Normal" sellers who just were having hardships!   What a neat friend to help out his friends....I know that sometimes we are hesitant to call our sphere of influence when we might notice that there is a NOD filed on their home because we don't want to embarrass them...we need to approach it as a "what can I do to help"  attitude.....

Mar 07, 2010 12:48 AM
Therese VanderMeer
Midwest Properties of MI - Grand Rapids - Jenison, MI
Realtor-Greater Grand Rapids, MI area communities

Hi Tami:  What a wonderful comment and so true!  We do tend to become "numb to the fact that there are families and faces behind the numbers".  Thanks for the good wishes to all involved!

Mar 07, 2010 01:05 AM
Therese VanderMeer
Midwest Properties of MI - Grand Rapids - Jenison, MI
Realtor-Greater Grand Rapids, MI area communities

Hi William:  I couldn't agree more...we do need to "bond together" now more than ever.  :-)

Mar 07, 2010 01:08 AM
Therese VanderMeer
Midwest Properties of MI - Grand Rapids - Jenison, MI
Realtor-Greater Grand Rapids, MI area communities

Hi Deborah:  What a great point you made! It is exactly that..."Normal people who are going through hardships"  and if we all had the "what can I do to help attitude" just imangine the impact that would have and how far reaching it could.  Thanks so much for your comment!

Mar 07, 2010 01:12 AM
Jennifer Tabor Storre
FHA and VA Home Loans, Jumbo Loans, 0 Down Loans - Grand Rapids, MI
FHA and VA Home Loans, 0 Down Financing, Jumbo Loans

What an inspirational story!  Being on the financing end I have seen COUNTLESS "normal" borrowers end up needing the Village.  Just recently one of my borrowers was cancer stricken.  At the time the home she owned was being rented and the renter left it trashed.  All at the same time she had Cancer, needed to move back in, and get a refinance.  We had so many donations of supplies, time, food, etc.  The best part of the story was 99% of the people had never even met her!!!  It was a little bit from the many that made it happen...God Bless!

Mar 11, 2010 03:30 AM
Therese VanderMeer
Midwest Properties of MI - Grand Rapids - Jenison, MI
Realtor-Greater Grand Rapids, MI area communities

Hi Jennifer,  Thank you!  This is exactly what I'm talking about and the just type of happenings that seem to quickly slip by un-noticed.  Sounds like you have a number of Village Stories yourself.  :-)  Even the smallest of things can make such a huge difference...especially when the "village" comes together.  Thanks for stopping by!

Mar 11, 2010 05:31 AM