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Leaving Behind While I March Forward...To A Legacy.

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One of the better posts I've read that can transcend not only your Real Estate Business, but your life, is by a sister I never had.  This is the post.  'WooHoo' Celeste "Sally" Cheeseman inspired me to write this.  I'm not sure if this is the best time of day to do so.  I'm not sure if I'm in the right mood to do it.  Yet, I'm here and will write it cause I can.  In this life, you never know.

                                              It's Not Easy...But Give It The Best Shot You Have!

To my knowledge, I didn't choose to be here.  To my knowledge, I don't know why I am here.  Life is weird like that, at least to me.  It would be nice to have Anthony Robbins give my eulogy and help put the FUN back in Funeral and a positive spin on my existence, but I'm sure he is booked.  I haven't even begun to give this my best shot, my life, the business I'm in, the people who mean so much to me.  I'm not even close to being what I can become.  Yet, if I couldn't become, I would have to take a look back at my own Legacy or lack thereof.  One day, I'll meet my maker and have a whole lot of questions...some of them answered along the journey of my life.

It's peculiar, my mother sent me an email that I received Friday morning.  She's been a teacher for so many years, teaching the mentally handicapped, at least in our culture's eyes.  I say 'in our culture's eyes' cause quite frankly, I'll say it again, those very individuals are the closest tangible thing we have to God.  That, I'll go to the grave thinking.  Onto the email...

Friday was to be a transitional day for my firm.  And it was.  Tomorrow will be even better because that transition took place.  There is no need to go into specifics but on Friday morning, when I opened up my Mother's email, I looked irony right in the eyes.  I looked legacy into the very depths of its very soul. I don't have her email off hand but will certainly place it below when I do.  A student she used to teach who had pretty severe mental and physical impairments had sent her a letter after all those years from here in Pennsylvania to her down in Raleigh, NC.  After all these years, he sent her a letter expressing his gratitude for what she did and the impact she made on him way back then.  His condition has worsened now.  Even still, he took the time to write a simple freaking letter!

Ladies & Gents, this guy took the time, despite his mental and physical deficiencies, to write my mother a letter years after he had been a student of hers, probably for a short period of time.  You want to talk about legacy, the meaning of life, hell man....That's it!

They say "You only get what you give."  As selfish as I can be, as greedy as I sometimes feel, as simple minded and immature as I reign, I agree with "They."  I have no clue what my legacy will be, I have one hell of a starting point though.  That email I received and will post here tomorrow when I get back in the office, meant everything to me and to my perception of life and business.  Elaine, if you ever read this, I do believe your legacy is written in stone.   

 

Comments (37)

Rick & Ines - Miami Beach Real Estate
Majestic Properties - Miami Beach, FL
Jason - I've been hearing a lot about you lately and then I come to you blog and you TOTALLY BLOW ME AWAY!!!  Holy Cow!  It's the little things we must not take for granted, it's the giving back that is so important.....your mom's writing is extraordinary, but so is yours.  I obviously subscribed....don't know why I hadn't before.
Jul 23, 2007 03:06 PM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
Oh my goodness.....I love your mom....and you must have some of those qualities little bro...because you "sound" like her in your writing.
Jul 23, 2007 05:06 PM
Sarah Eubanks
Hill Valley Financial Services - Oregon City, OR
Preferred Oregon Loan Consultant & Notary Public

Jason,

You do not know me from Adam ~  heck, I have commented twice thus far on your inspiring posts and never seen a response.  Yet, I still ask one large favor from you.  It will in no way benefit me personally.  It will benefit you and your family -- both current and in the future!  I have mentioned once on this website a proverb that my Dad taught me.  He never "preached" it, he just lived it.  When he passed away three years ago, my Mom had a plaque made for the business he owned and ran for about 30 years.  It read that a Good name is worth more than Gold and Silver.  I never knew that it was one of his favorite verses of the Bible.  I just knew that he truly lived his life that way.  So much so, that I never even thought about it.  At least until that day when we hung the heavy bronze plaque up on the outside wall for the world to see.  I miss my Dad tremendously, he was the one who walked this Earth that blessed all of us every day.  He touched the lives of strangers with his community service, he reached out to desperate and desolate souls to give them a hand up ~ but never a hand out.  It seems to me that your mother is very much like my father was.  So, my favor is simple.  Do not get too busy to spend time with her.  Continue to build the foundation of your legacy.  As my Dad was sick and living his last weeks, I stayed with my Mom and he at the hospital.  They were both the hardest and best days I've ever spent.  I did not make a cent during that month.  But, I can truly say that my priorities were right, and that being there for my parents was worth far and above more than any gold, silver, or paycheck. 

Jul 23, 2007 06:28 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

Joan - It is indeed.

Rick & Ines - Wow, thank you.  It was an awesome email to receive.

Sis - I guess I do:-)

Sarah - What a wonderful & heartwarming response!  For me not responding to the other comments on other posts, for that I apologize.  The favor you ask is simple, but often times not done.  You are 100% right on.  I will try to follow your wisdom.

BTW, who is Adam:-)

Jul 24, 2007 01:37 AM
Sally Smith Smith
Lost AR member - Amboy, MN
Great post. Thanks for sharing.
Jul 24, 2007 11:59 PM
William Johnson
Retired - La Jolla, CA
Retired

When I read what your mother does, it was something similar to my sister teaching slow learners.  I won't go farther with that here but I will say these special people that have that passion, are worlds apart from us mere mortals. I share your thoughts

Jason, you have such a great way of saying things that stick. A marvelous post. I am quite proud to have  a friendship with you.

Jul 25, 2007 07:54 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life
Laura - Thanks for reading!

William - All I can say is, Ditto!
Jul 25, 2007 09:02 PM
Patsy Ittner, Your Premier Broker Selling St. Augustine Real Estate
Little Fox Realty - Saint Augustine, FL
I was moved by both your post and Jason's comment.  I admire and envy the closeness of your families.  There's so much joy in this world.  Thank you both for sharing. 
Jul 31, 2007 11:33 AM
Cheryl-Anne Priest
Inviting Spaces - Home Staging Calgary - Calgary, AB
Inviting Spaces - Staging Calgary
Jason - thanks for adding in the email from your mother.  It is awesome that she can communicate with her son from the heart and that you in turn can speak of her from your heart. It is true that we reap what we sow and you are both reaping the results of the seeds you have sown.
Jul 31, 2007 04:01 PM
Laurie Mindnich
Centennial, CO
Jason, you really are an inspired writer- thank you so much for the day to day smiles and thought.  Lest you should ever be wondering, it's appreciated!
Jul 31, 2007 05:16 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

Patsy - Thank you for reading.

Cheryl - My mother is a wise and good soul, her email was touching and uplifting.

Laurie - Awww, thank you Laurie!

Aug 01, 2007 12:06 AM
Diane Velikis
Coldwell & Banker Busch Real Estate - Luzerne, PA
Luzerne County Real Estate
Jason, We tend to take teachers for granted. Thank goodness your mom made a difference in the live of those who we can sometimes overlook. Great post
Aug 02, 2007 12:42 AM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life
You are right Diane, teachers are often taken for granted.  Thank you!
Aug 02, 2007 03:50 AM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Jason,     on your second place win in the legacy contest.

Good work !!

Jo 

Aug 02, 2007 09:23 AM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life
Thank you so much Jo-Anne!
Aug 02, 2007 10:16 AM
Desiree Daniels
RE/MAX Tri County - Robbinsville, NJ
Congrats on your "placing".....    beaten by a boy again..... ughhhhhhhhhh
Aug 02, 2007 10:28 AM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life
Desiree - Hey, I'm a man!  That Bicentennial Boy thing is just a nickname:-)
Aug 02, 2007 11:01 AM
Kat DeLong
Realty ONE Group Mountain Desert - Prescott, AZ
REALTOR
Jason, you did such a wonderful job with your "Legacy" and so deserve this.  Good going!
Aug 03, 2007 09:36 AM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life
Thank you very much Kat!
Aug 03, 2007 09:50 AM
Cheryl-Anne Priest
Inviting Spaces - Home Staging Calgary - Calgary, AB
Inviting Spaces - Staging Calgary
Jason - congratulations.   Also, congratulations to your mother for nurturing such a loving and caring son, one who was able to write from the heart and share his feelings.
Aug 20, 2007 05:47 AM