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Real Estate - The Biggest Investment of Your Life! They Weren't Kidding!

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Real Estate Agent with Long & Foster 0225078705

Everyone has heard the statement "Real estate is the biggest investment of your life!"  Well they weren't kidding.  Many homeowners are finding out now the hard way they got themselves in big trouble way over their heads.  They may not even be able to set themselves financially right in this lifetime they made such a bad mistake.  Marraiges have failed, homes have be lost and credit for many will probably be unrepairable for many in their remaining working careers.  The fact of the matter is that many persons purchased the wrong homes, in the wrong locations, and overpaid to boot!  To make matters worse they put no money down, rolled in the extras, and had the closing costs rolled into the loan.  Money was no object especially when it came to granite counter-tops, and stainless appliances especially when it was all done on credit.   Then to make matters even worse they borrowed against the already leveraged home's equity.  Wasn't this absolute insanity?  To the seasoned agent, we asked ourselves, "Who would be so foolish to do this?"  "Who is advising them?"  Buying a home is too big an investment to be treating the facts so lightly!

You've heard it all before.  "Ask your real estate agent for advice!"  "Ask your Realtor"  However most real estate agents never sold more than 1 home, and many have never sold anything.  How could anyone advise a client if they had no experience whatsoever?  A few years ago it was very common for a home buyers agent to be their cousin, a handyman they knew, a relative, their hairdresser, a friend from college or just a drinking buddy from the bar.  It was a true to life story of the blind leading the blind.  The sad thing is that if you never sold a home, you really are not in a position to advise a client.  An agent without experience does not have the foresight to warn a their client against buying the most obvious of faulty homes, mold, structural flaws, pending zoning changes, the quality of the product, proximity to roads and power lines etc.

Many times as seasoned agents we are asked to list a properties that we cannot sell.  It is not uncommon that good agents will not list a home when they know there is no chance of a sale. They do not need 6 months of aggravation and no chance of ever getting paid by a commission.  We are not social workers. The reasons are many and obvious that a home will not sell...the sellers are way upside down, the home is on busy road that is about to be widened, it is under a power-line, the home is in a designated flood zone, there is obvious mold, the home is made of EFIS, they have polybute plumbing, aluminum wiring, have problematic siding issues...or all of the above!  To simply put it...we cannot help them.  We are not miracle workers.  They had little if any advice from their inexperienced agent before they purchased the wrong home, and then overpaid on steroids.

The point is that before persons buy or sell...buyers and sellers need to work with real estate agents and Realtors that do have experience, and extensive knowledge.  In the past it was the real estate agent that qualified the buyers first before ever giving the buyer or seller to a loan officer.  We were more involved in the practicality of a sale then in "Doing a deal!"  There were many times in my own career I advised a client or prospect that the home was not a good deal. The phrase "NEXT!" was a part of my daily dialog. That was just sound advice, and was appreciated.  Buyers and sellers must realize that a home is a massive investment, and even though there are many rewards to home ownership, there are also many caveats, and responsibilities.   Once the mistake is made, some problems cannot be undone.

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James Crawford Broker Associate

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Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA

Gary Steuernagel BROKER, ABR, CRB (Delta Realty Group)  I agree with your observations.  The sad thing was that I personally feel much of this was avoidable.  However, it seems greed won out!

Jun 06, 2010 02:14 PM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA

Gene Riemenschneider East Contra Costa Home Sales 01492725 (Home Point Real Estate)  It seems as though many homes sold even if the wrong price was on it durng the boom!

Jun 06, 2010 02:14 PM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA
Jun 06, 2010 02:16 PM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA

William D. Queen, Real Estate Broker, Richmond, Virginia  Thank you Bill for your observations.  As I mentioned in another response...it was a matter of doing the math.  The numbers of newer agents had grown so rapidly both locally and nationally in such a short condensed timeframe...that they started doing a lot more of the business.

Jun 06, 2010 02:19 PM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA

Karen Hunt (Hunt Seattle Homes)  I cannot say it is all the bankers either.  I also believe in the personal character of the individual, and for being a responsible adult.  We are charged with keeping out own houses in order.

A loan shark can lend money to anyone at exorbitant rate, but is it smart to seek them out knowing if you can't pay they will break your legs, or harm you?  So when a person puts their own family and possibly their marriage at risk by buying a home they cannot afford to ever repay...who is to blame? For many borrowers the math for thier incom / debt would never ba able to own a home yet they moved forward.  I personally think the individual borrowing is responsible for their actions.  Whatever happened to the buyer that was not sure if something was right before proceeding?  They would brink their father, their brother, a friend over to a home.  They would have a lawyer read the contract before signing.  A buyers agent was supposed to advise a buyer in a deal not forced them into the wrong product!  We are supposed to offers sound advice, give them a CMA of comps in a neighborhood etc...then as an informed consumer the buy had the option to more forward, or withdraw from the deal!

Jun 06, 2010 02:27 PM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA
Jun 06, 2010 02:28 PM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA

Kasia Zajac, GRI, SFR (Century 21 American Sketchbook)  Very well said.  We are always learning.

Jun 06, 2010 02:29 PM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA

Tina Gleisner (Association of Home Professionals)  Thank you so much.  Glad you enjoyed.

Jun 06, 2010 02:30 PM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA

Amanda Nicodemus (Spring TX Keller Williams Professionals)  Amanda thank you so much for such sound advice.  Well done and said!

Jun 06, 2010 02:31 PM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA

Amanda Nicodemus (Spring TX Keller Williams Professionals)  Amanda thank you so much for such sound advice.  Well done and said!

Jun 06, 2010 02:31 PM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA

Lyn Sims ~ Chicago Northwest Suburbs (Schaumburg Illinois ~ RE/MAX Suburban)  I agree, there area market components to buying, and some buyers will just not listed to advice.  At many of those I did not proceed forward with them.  With others, I always try to make sure they understand what the are buying and know both the positives andthe negatives I see based on my experience.  Did I lose some buyers over the years...yes, but that is not a problem.  I have  a conscience.

Jun 06, 2010 02:35 PM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA

Cathleen DeLoach (Long and Foster)  Real estate is an industry where the turnover rate is 80% every 2 years. That is in good times. Most will never survive and prosper in our industry because it is not always about the deals closed, it is abouth ethics, honesty, client appreciation, and market knowledge.  In the boom years it was a total swell in the numbers of new agents that pushed things forward to levels never seen before.  So I am sorry you do not agree with my premise, but also understand that even the most successful agent started off new...they survived by doing things right.

Jun 06, 2010 02:40 PM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA

Moscow Idaho Real Estate Lori Cofer, REALTOR (Beasley Realty)  Honesty is always the best policy.  I totally agree.

Jun 06, 2010 02:41 PM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA

Good Friend Mortgage  Thanks for your sharing.  I interact with agents a lot, and it was interesting to see their behavior to their clients from afar.  It was interesting to see what happened after the dust settled.

Jun 06, 2010 02:45 PM
Ross Quintana
Real E Smarter - Spokane, WA
Real E Smarter Real Estate Coach - 509-362-1966

Jim, Good Post... I agree the buyer needs to interview the agent as well as the other way around. Sometimes I am a miracle worker, but there are times I cannot help someone. But the cream does rise to the top.

Jun 09, 2010 04:06 AM
Wayne B. Pruner
Oregon First - Tigard, OR
Tigard Oregon Homes for Sale, Realtor, GRI

I agree with you Jim. A rookie agent may have some sales skills, but it takes experience to give good advice.  And with that experience you learn that you cannot help or want to work with everyone. I choose who I want to work with. I passed on a listing last week. The Seller was lying to me. Trust is an important issue.

Jun 16, 2010 05:13 PM
Kathy Opatka
RE/MAX CROSSROADS - Ocean City, MD
Serving Ocean City, MD, & The Delaware Beaches

One of my favorite comments.... " I'm not paying the mortgage;YOU need to be comfortable with your purchase!"

Jun 18, 2010 09:50 AM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA

Tigard Oregon Homes for Sale, Wayne B. Pruner, Realtor, GRI (Oregon First)  Trust on both sides is critical, and performance is the measure of success.

Jun 19, 2010 06:17 AM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA
Jun 19, 2010 06:18 AM