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Whats so bad with loving yourself a little......

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Real Estate Agent with Real Living Kee Realty

I just started the Effective Public Speaking and Human Resources course for Dale Carnegie and an interesting thought pattern came to mind. A lot of people have a hard time describing what they are good at. I found that most people in the class and in general do not think its okay to talk about the good things about themselves. I am not saying that we should constantly boast and demand praise but I wonder when it became taboo to talk about such things as money... and dreams... and our business goals. I know in the Real Estate world those things are talked about a lot with our mentors or coaches so this may sound out of place to some of you. I guess my main point is if your not willing to tell people why you are great and should be their Realtor, someone else may come along who is not scared to show their worth. You have to own what you do and what you say because 9 times out of 10 if you don't believe it your clients wont either... I think in our busy world we forget to take the time for self improvement and to keep improving upon our relationship skills. To end this in a goofy way even 10 minuets a day of any type of "self love" can have positive effects on the rest of your day... and ultimately your career.

 

To paraphrase Zig Ziglar... Do you wait untill you have run out of gas to fill up? Then why do you wait until your empty to fill yourself up...

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"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

Chris...

Interesting. At some point I lost my fear of telling it like it is. Now I truly enjoy telling it like it is.

And it's funny you should bring up Dale. I just moved and my Dale book is missing. I have a whole in my book collection :)

TLW...ROAR!

Jun 09, 2010 10:40 PM
Jay Schmitt
Keller Williams Keystone Realty - Gettysburg, PA
Gettysburg Real Estate Agent

Pretty good thoughts. I hadn't thought about it like that but should probably start.

Jun 09, 2010 11:03 PM
Laurie C. Bailey-Gates
Robert Paul Properties - Barnstable, MA
ABR, SFR

Nice observations - I think you are right, who would hire someone with self doubt.  Not a good way to get a house sold.

 

 

Jun 09, 2010 11:28 PM
Sam White
College Station, TX
Integrated Marketing - Bryan College Station,

Confidence is a very important part of what we do. Thanks for the nice post.

Jun 09, 2010 11:43 PM
William True
True Sarasota Real Estate - Sarasota, FL
Sarasota Real Estate

It's nice to be humble, but sometimes if you've got it, flaunt it!

Jun 09, 2010 11:54 PM
Pat O'Reilly
RE/MAX..214-289-6176 Irving and all of Dallas Fort Worth - Irving, TX

There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance..I think the difference is the confident still listens and cares...

Jun 10, 2010 01:15 AM
Chris Brown
Real Living Kee Realty - Shelby Township, MI

Yeah its all about playing the game but you have to own who you are dont be scared!

Jun 10, 2010 01:53 PM