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You Don't Have to Be Blood to Be Family

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This is dedicated to my amazing stepfather, who is really the best father a girl could ever ask for.

You Don't Have to Be Blood to Be Family - Happy Father's DayYou came into my life quite by surprise.  I called you our "roommate".
You loved me even when I didn't treat you well.
You have never treated me or my siblings like we were anything less than your "real children".
You always told me I was beautiful, even when my eyes were red and my face was splotchy from "the ugly cry".
You gave me my first sip of alcohol on the beach as long as I didn't tell Mom.
You patiently taught me how to drive a stick shift, even as I ground the gears and pouted in frustration.
You walked me down the aisle and gave me away to someone else, but never truly let me go.
You stood by me when times got rough, encouraging me all the way.  You still do that.
You always listen to my problems without judgement, just an open heart.
You never have a problem telling me how proud you are of me.
You have always been my rock, my guide, my compass pointing to true north.
You have shown me how a man should treat his wife and how a father should treat his family.
You are proof that you don't have to be blood to be family.

I love you, Papa!  Happy Father's Day!

Heather Chavez, loving daughter and Real Estate Virtual Assistant

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Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

Thanks for stopping by, Geri.  Moms do get alot of credit.  But dads, especially those like my Papa, don't get nearly enough credit for being great dads.

Jun 18, 2010 04:44 PM
Jennifer Wilton
Leo Lawrence Real Estate - Saint Louis, MO

Love this! My husband just adopted my two children, and this is exactly how I feel about how he treats them. Thanks for a positive, warm post, and thanks to all the men out there who are 'dads' in their own way!

Jun 18, 2010 04:49 PM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

How wonderful, Jennifer.  Sounds like you have a wonderful man there. 

Jun 18, 2010 04:51 PM
Bryan Watkins
LRA Real Estate Group - Mesa, AZ

Nice post. I'll bet you just made his day. All in all there are a lot of good men trying to do their best in a tough world to raise a family when faced with a world of challenges.

Jun 18, 2010 05:29 PM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Heather - what a wonderful tribute to who sounds like a wonderful person. You two are very lucky to be in each others lives.

Jun 19, 2010 03:12 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Heather this is a beautiful tribute to your Dad - I bet he's just as proud of you.  There are many men who are great examples of a loving & caring parent and I don't think they get enough credit.  I was lucky to have one of those guys as well as many uncles, teachers etc - all Dad- Like.  Thanks to all of them!

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Jun 19, 2010 05:48 AM
Robert L. Brown
www.mrbrownsellsgr.com - Grand Rapids, MI
Grand Rapids Real Estate Bellabay Realty, West Mic

Made me feel good all over. We do serve a good purpose as "dads" here in the world. I have 3 blessed children who i think would say the same.

Jun 19, 2010 07:57 AM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

That's for sure, Bryan.  It's important to acknowlege both the important women AND the important men in our lives.

Jun 19, 2010 10:06 AM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

Thanks, Mike.  I agree.  I think we are both very lucky to have each other in our lives. :)

Jun 19, 2010 10:06 AM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

Thanks, Anna. (banana flavored kisses to you)

Jun 19, 2010 10:07 AM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

Good for you, Robert.  I hope all you guys have a fantastic Father's Day tomorrow!

Jun 19, 2010 10:07 AM
Carra Riley & Declan Kenyon
Brokers Guild Cherry Creek Ltd - Westminster, CO
Helping people Transition at all ages!

Heather......This is truly a touching tribute to your dad.  He sounds like someone who really deserves your accolades!

cosmic cow

Jun 20, 2010 04:53 AM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Heather, Oh how sweet and touching this tribute to your papa....sounds like a wonderful Dad!

Jun 20, 2010 06:51 AM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

Thanks, Carra.  He really is.

Jun 21, 2010 03:50 AM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

Thanks, Rebecca.  I couldn't have asked for a better Papa.

Jun 21, 2010 03:51 AM
Ann Hayden 636-399-7544
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties-St. Louis Missouri - Des Peres, MO
SelectAnn.com

Heather,

Very nice....  He sounds like an awesome dad.

Ann Hayden in Wildwood, MO

Jun 24, 2010 12:56 AM
Lynda White
Bluegrass Homes & Farms Realty, Agent Know How - Louisville, KY
Admin. Mgr., Keller Williams Realty

Aww this post made me tear up a little..I clicked on your profile because I was curious. There aren't too many of us assistants on here!

You have an interesting blog page and consider me "subscribed"!

Jul 05, 2010 02:36 PM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

He is an awesome Dad, Ann.  Thanks.

Thanks, Lynda.  Please check back often.  Hope you find more to enjoy in the future!

Jul 06, 2010 05:54 AM
Mirela Monte
Buyers' Choice Realty - North Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach Real Estate

Heather:  Lovely!  Wish I had read it for Father's Day.

Better late than never...  Now featured on the Optimist Group.

Jul 06, 2010 06:14 AM
Heather Chavez
Second Self Virtual Assistance - Caldwell, ID
Real Estate Virtual, Assistant (928) 692-3235

Thanks, Mirela.  My dad is one of the most important men in my life and I am very lucky to have him.  He's a better dad than I even could have wished for.

Jul 06, 2010 06:34 AM