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Don't Let Me Down: Soci@l, Ben Kinney, and Blogging

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Real Estate Agent with Kimberly Howell Properties (210) 646-HOME

A child shows his disappointment after being letdown.It's not always sunshine and roses.

In my previous post about Ben Kinney's Soci@l, "10 Days of Pain for 1 Day of Closing," I highlighted one of the sections of the ebook that I really enjoyed.  Never one to give half a picture, I thought perhaps I might discuss something I didn't like about the ebook.

Ben Kinney is obviously a talented guy who knows his stuff and although I agree with him on many points, there is a distinct point in the chapter "effective blogging – writing content that ranks and gets read" that I can not endorse.

Spending your hard earned money.

After a brief history of blogging and the word "blog," Ben talks about his experience (and success) with blogging.  By utilizing the manpower of his local university, Western Washington University, Ben spent about $2,200 on getting 316 pages of content written by local college students.  While I respect Ben's financial breakdown and the fact that it has worked for him, I believe it's the wrong approach.  Perhaps I take blogging too personally, but knowing that he didn't write the content himself is kind of a letdown and sets a bad example for the beginning of a chapter about blogging and to quote the chapter title, "writing content."

Although many readers of Soci@l will (hopefully) not see this as their path, I find that agents are always reached out and looking for the exact method of other successful agents.  A new agent reading this chapter might have stopped there and got out their credit card.  Emulating your successful peers is widespread in real estate, but I hope that few will emulate Ben in this way (by all means emulate him in other ways!).  If you do choose to head down this path, by all means - read what is written and make sure you are comfortable with posting this material to your readers.

In Ben's defense, Soci@l does continue you on with some great blogging "how-to" information.

If you can talk to your clients, you can blog to your readers.

Although blogging can be time consuming and hard to stick to at times (especially when you start and you feel like you're writing to nobody), the value of you being you is second to none in my opinion.  Much like your clients like to work with you because they are comfortable with you, a reader's connection to your blog should be personal.  Look at the title of the book - Soci@l.  Is it social to hand your dinner guests a copy of today's newspaper and let them read it at the dinner table?  Of course not.  They want to talk to you about the news.  You have conversation about the news and it leads to other conversations about other topics.

Watch a conversation between two people and write down where it starts (subject matter) and where it ends.  Chances are they are two very different places.  Now, think of all the points where the conversation shifted into a new direction.  Each time the conversation moves to a new topic, think of it as a new blog post.  Each of those point where it shifts can be a comment from your blog, a talk you had with a client or colleague, a news article you read, or an idea that came out of nowhere.  Regardless of how it came to be, you can write a new post and direct the conversation to a new point.

Blogging is much like speaking, although there are a few finer points (outbound links, SEO, backlinks, titles, tags, etc.), which Ben Kinney does do a great job of covering in Soci@l (and if you're still in the dark, just search ActiveRain as a reference for some of the great posts written about blogging).  Although, we may not agree on everything, I think Ben and I both would agree - the secret to blogging is to do it and do it often.  You'll learn the rest.

photo courtesy of westerndave

 

 

 

This blog post is a review of Soci@l: Attract Friends, Followers and Connections to Your Business. Soci@l is a free download written by Ben Kinney in conjunction with ActiveRain and Jay Papasan. In exchange for downloading the free copy of Soci@l and writing this review, I have a chance to win a free iPad and I'm getting 2000 ActiveRain points.

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Jennifer Dulmaine
Keller Williams Realty - Spencer, MA
Seth Campbell Realty Group

Matt-Another Great Post-it is interesting that you bring up the subject because while I was reading this chapter that stood out to me, but if I don't agree with something I just keep going...You on the other hand, bring up great conversations and a format that is inviting and an of course the title

Thanks for engaging

Jen

Jul 01, 2010 05:03 AM
Matt Stigliano
Kimberly Howell Properties (210) 646-HOME - San Antonio, TX

Jennifer - I've always been a fan of showing the whole picture - whether good or bad.  I wouldn't tell someone not to read Soci@l because of this one thing, but I thought it was a good point to bring up and use to open up a discussion.  Thanks for the compliment.

Jul 01, 2010 05:15 AM
Charles Buell
Charles Buell Inspections Inc. - Seattle, WA
Seattle Home Inspector

Matt, I agree with you-----and we have gone around and around with this topic here on AR as well.  I just can't imagine having anyone write my content for me.  There may be business models or even good reasons to do it----it just isn't me.

Jul 01, 2010 06:15 AM
Jane Peters
Home Jane Realty - Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles real estate concierge services

Excellent overview, Matt.  And you dare to question! :)  I am recommending this for a feature because it definitely provokes thought.  You obviously did not do this just for the points.

Jul 01, 2010 02:01 PM
Cara Marcelle Mancuso
Golden Girls with SW Desert Homes - Tucson, AZ
Call a Marana neighbor, I'm THERE!

I like the differing opinion!  I remember reading the chapter myself, but just dismissing in my own mind that "option".  I don't think I could have someone else "speak" for me either - my writing style is too much like the way I talk, and I'd hate for folks to get a different opinion of me and then when they meet me, question my authenticity. What you see is what you get!  Great of you to put this out in black and white.

Jul 05, 2010 04:25 AM
Richard Byron Smith, NMLS #184479
Mortgage Loan Officer, Fairway Independent Mortgage Corporation NMLS #2289 - Chattanooga, TN
Mortgage Loan Officer

Blogging consistently creates the habit, develops the skills, builds on itselt, enhances market saturation and the image of a local expert.

And it can be fun. :)

Jul 05, 2010 02:07 PM
Kathleen Cooper
Kathleen Cooper, Sposato Realty Group - Worcester, MA
Sposato Realty Group - Broker Owner

LOL Yes, this is one part that I did as Jen did and just read through to the next valuable piece.  I don't like it when people suggest that they should get kids or professionals to write their blogs for them.  I think it takes the personality out of the blog, but that's just my 2 cents.  It's kind of like the people on Facebook that just post quite after quote and nothing personal.  We all have our own style. 

Thanks for sharing!

Sincerely,

Kathleen

Jul 05, 2010 02:15 PM
The Somers Team
The Somers Team at KW Philadelphia - Philadelphia, PA
Delivering Real Estate Happiness

Matt - Is an interesting point for discussion.  I think the big picture is for one to build and personalize their blog in their own way and evolve with it.  

Featured in "Build a Better Blog" group on AR !

 

Jul 11, 2010 02:36 AM
Jim Frimmer
HomeSmart Realty West - San Diego, CA
Realtor & CDPE, Mission Valley specialist

I have no problem with ghost writers. They exist in the book industry, magazine industry, and newspaper industry. Why not the blogging industry? My husband writes some blogs for other people, and he has even written a couple of mine. Ultimately, they are my blogs under my name, and I usually make adjustments to them to make them mine anyways, as does all the other people he writes for.

Jul 20, 2010 05:38 PM
Lori Cain
Own Tulsa - Tulsa, OK
Midtown Tulsa Real Estate Top Producer

I did not see a link to download the e-book. Please re-post link. Thanks!

Aug 25, 2010 09:25 AM