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My Soci@l Skills were Lacking...How 'bout Yours?

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Real Estate Agent with Pine Knoll Shores Realty NCRE# 242843

My Soci@l Skills were Lacking...How 'bout Yours?

Before I joined Activerain, the idea of writing a blog terrified the bejeebies out of me.  I am by no means a writer, I had never thought of myself as an "Expert" on anything.  I mean, I love real estate and working with buyers and sellers, I think I am good at it, but an Expert?  So, I started writing my posts and looking back to my first few months on AR...my blog sucked!  Then, something really cool happened.  I started making friends on Activerain, they gave me a few tips and I started feeling a little more comfortable as a blogger.  I received a couple of referrals, which was great....But I wanted more.  I wanted to reach the public, the consumer.  So, I started spending more time on Activerain, reading and searching for the answers I wanted.  That is how I discovered Bob Stewart.  I ran across a challenge he had posted encouraging members to write Hyper-Local Posts.  In return, AR would award bonus points.  The challenge was long over, but I gave it a shot anyway.  I followed all of the rules, but still something was not quite right. Shortly after I completed this challenge, Bob posted another challenge on "Shift".  Great, I had already read the book, but went ahead and ordered the Limited Edition, which also included a download of Soci@l.

When I received Soci@l, I downloaded it, Printed it...It has since become my "Blogging Bible".  It should be no surprise that my favorite chapter is "Effective Blogging - Writing Content that Ranks and Gets Read".  While reading the chapter, everything started making sense to me.  I never thought that I was an expert at anything, but in a little grey box on page 79 of Soci@l I found Six Reasons Top Agents Blog.  1) Improve your ranking in search engines. 2) Position yourself as an expert in a field or geographic area.  3) Advertise and.....Whoa, back up!  Position yourself as an expert in a geographic area?   I can do that.  I absolutely love the area in which I live and work.  I am involved in a number of community activites and events.  OMG...I could be that expert on my geographical area!  But wait, I'm still not a writer.  Hmmmmm?

I continued to read and then on page 81, I read "Buyers and sellers aren't looking for award-winning journalism - they will happily settle for the basic facts delivered clearly with a minimum of grammatical train wrecks!"  Okay, my enthusiam returned and I was ready to go.

After reading Soci@l from beginning to end and back through the highlighted sections, I had enough confidence in writing localism posts to really get moving.  Soci@l taught me what to include in each post, how to use keywords to help build SEO, and the importance of just...Being myself (which my new friends had already been teaching me)!  From there my localism posts starting pouring out.  It wasn't long before people in my community started commenting on my posts, then my phone started ringing.  People wanting to know more about a specific place, events and things to do,  or maybe they were interested in a particular community.  I have received one buyer and a couple of other leads from my localism posts, but I know that each contact I make through my blog is one more possible buyer or seller for me.

I continue to read Soci@l, make more notes, highlight a few more ideas and keep working to perfect my "Soci@l Skills".  I urge each of you to download a copy of Soci@l today!

 

 

 

This blog post is a review of Soci@l: Attract Friends, Followers and Connections to Your Business. Soci@l is a free download written by Ben Kinney in conjunction with ActiveRain and Jay Papasan. In exchange for downloading the free copy of Soci@l and writing this review, I have a chance to win a free iPad and I'm getting 2000 ActiveRain points.

Download a free copy of Social here and find out how you can have a chance to win an iPad and be guaranteed 2000 ActiveRain points.

 

 

Comments(17)

William James Walton Sr.
WEICHERT, REALTORS® - Briotti Group - Waterbury, CT
Greater Waterbury Real Estate

Amy, the one thing you had going for you is that people were calling you off of your localism blog posts. That's what we are all looking to happen for us as a result of our blogging.

Jul 04, 2010 11:57 AM
Jennifer Archambeault
Cardani Group, REALTORS® - Austin Texas - Austin, TX
An Austin Texas Realtor

Amy, I blogged before AR but wasn't blogging effectively... I am so grateful too!

Jul 04, 2010 12:06 PM
Harry Logan
RE/MAX executives realty - Winnipeg, MB
Your Satisfaction is Guaranteed!

Great post Amy!  I appreciate your insights!

Jul 04, 2010 12:16 PM
Toula Rosebrock
Diane Turton, Realtors, Forked River, NJ - Lacey Township, NJ
Broker/Sales Associate, Realtor, Lacey Township,

Hi Amy:

I always enjoy visiting your blog and reading your posts.

Thanks for the tip!

We like FREE!!!

 

Jul 04, 2010 12:42 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Amy, I bet you always had it in you..........it just needed to be brought out...........you write great blogs............always love reading your posts.

Jul 04, 2010 02:41 PM
Marian Goetzinger
Pine Knoll Shores Realty 252-422-9000 - Pine Knoll Shores, NC
Crystal Coast Real Estate NC

Good job little apple!

Jul 04, 2010 03:50 PM
Steve, Joel & Steve A. Chain
Chain Real Estate Investments & Mortgage, Steve & Joel Chain - Cottonwood, CA

Amy,

There's no question there is a contagious blogging synergy in the Active Rain Community.

I've too have personally experienced the benefits.

Steve

Jul 04, 2010 05:06 PM
Maria Morton
Platinum Realty - Kansas City, MO
Kansas City Real Estate 816-560-3758

Amy, sorry to hear of your computer troubles - glad that you have a niece who will share her computer with you. The book is awesome - I'm going to have to read it again and again.

Jul 04, 2010 07:54 PM
TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

 

Like Garth, I have friends in low places mainly because I lack in Social graces. Good luck towards winning the iPad... 

 

Jul 04, 2010 11:27 PM
Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate

Amy:  Ok... you got me.  This... is a great post.  Very nicely done.  I like it !  And I am glad you got a lot out of reading this Soci@l download book.

I just read your comment to Roger on his Soci@l rant, and this time I am following your example.   I have just downloaded the 129 pages of the Soci@l book.  To my way of thinking, if you found it useful, and from what I think of you, then I should at least give it a chance.

So, I downloaded it, and printed it.  The things you have said about the chapter on blogging intrigue me, so now that I have downloaded it, I will even read it.  What a concept.

I don't go for the Twitter stuff, but blogging, I am all over that... as you already know.  So, can I call you "little apple" too ?  <smile>

By the way, Miss Amy... I continue to like the "yourself" that you continue to share.  <smile x 2>

Jul 05, 2010 12:58 AM
Amy Hahn
Pine Knoll Shores Realty - Morehead City, NC
Realtor/Broker - Crystal Coast, NC

William - I am very thankful for the calls I receive because of my blog...AR rocks!

Jennifer - AR Staff and Members are very giving with information...teaches us well.

Harry - Hope my insights are useful.

Thanks Toula - You are one of my favs so I really appreciate the compliment coming from you!  And you are right, Free is Good!

 

Jul 05, 2010 01:14 AM
Amy Hahn
Pine Knoll Shores Realty - Morehead City, NC
Realtor/Broker - Crystal Coast, NC

Roger - You are always so kind!  Thank You!

Marian - Does that make you a big apple?

Steve - Glad to hear that you too are enjoying the benefits.

Maria - It was actually my sons computer, and probably one of his silly games that infected my computer.  Soci@l is a great book, with some great tips and ideas.  If nothing more, a good reminder of just how important this Soci@l world is!

 

Jul 05, 2010 01:18 AM
Amy Hahn
Pine Knoll Shores Realty - Morehead City, NC
Realtor/Broker - Crystal Coast, NC

Michael - Thanks...BTW, I am lovin' the Craigmeister Photo:-)

Karen Anne - You were the first person on AR to reach out to me and remind me to "Be Myself".  You can call my anything you like (Try to be nice, tho', I'm sensitive ;-).  I hope that you find at least one thing in Soci@l that you find useful...

Jul 05, 2010 01:22 AM
Lee & Pamela St. Peter
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices YSU Realty: (919) 645-2522 - Raleigh, NC
Making Connections to Success in Real Estate

Amy well done ~ see just goes to show you don't always need glitter to get the point across (but I feel your pain as my IE won't let me open my file with my images in it - yesterday was a pain getting mine done). 

YOU my dear are a fabulous writer and it doesn't surprise me at all that your phone rings ~ and I'll bet money it will continue to do so more and more!  Your post is an inspiration to all of who have doubts; whether it be on if we are any good at writing, or if all this will lead anywhere.  Thank YOU!!

Jul 05, 2010 01:35 AM
Marian Goetzinger
Pine Knoll Shores Realty 252-422-9000 - Pine Knoll Shores, NC
Crystal Coast Real Estate NC

Now Little Apple, of course, that does not make me the "Big Apple".  That name is already taken.  I suppose that makes me the tree.  Hmm 

Jul 05, 2010 04:30 AM
Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate

Lee & Pamela:  Obviously you have not noticed that the lovely, charming and talented Miss Amy already HAS her very own, fashionably understated "glitter" about her.  <smile>

Jul 05, 2010 04:44 AM
Amy Hahn
Pine Knoll Shores Realty - Morehead City, NC
Realtor/Broker - Crystal Coast, NC

Lee & Pamela - Thank you so much for the compliment..."fabulous writer"...I am blushing.  I find it amazing how dependant we are on our computers, files, photos....What did we ever do before?

Marian - From now on, I'll call you "Tree"

Karen Anne - You my dear friend, Are the best.  Thanks!

Jul 05, 2010 04:53 AM