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There is still an underlying value in home ownership that does not involve dollars and cents.

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Richard Weisser Realty

Home is the place where memories are made!As many qualified would-be buyers are opting to rent instead of committing to a real estate purchase, it seems to me that many are missing out on one of the most incredible opportunities in the last 100 years.

Many agonize about trying to determine exactly when the market has or will have bottomed out. They don’t want to invest in a property that could lose some monetary value in the near future.

But a home is not a stock or a bond. A home has intrinsic value that goes way beyond money. It is a place where dreams are fulfilled and memories are created.

Home is a place where we change the paint colors to suit our personalities, and where we tend our gardens that will mature and age more gracefully than us! The longer that we own a home, the more it becomes a part of us and the more it reflects who we are as a distinct human entity.

What kind of price would you set on the value of carrying your new bride across the threshold, or bringing a newborn infant home from the hospital or a greeting a returning serviceman or servicewoman and then uttering two of the most beautiful words in the English language:

“Welcome home!”

Mike Carlier
Lakeville, MN
More opinions than you want to hear about.

The perception that one could lose money by buying a home is flawed.  If you sell for less than you paid, it is a cost of living, not a loss.  A would-be homeowner needs to consider the most important investment in his/her life.  That is an investment in their family's quality of life.  Delay a decision by a year, and lose 10% of your eight year old's opportunity to experience that quality.  How many dollars is that worth? 

Dreams are meant to come to fruition before they become missed opportunities.

Jul 20, 2010 05:07 AM
Bob Willis
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Orange, CA
Orange County & L.A. County Real Estate Agent

Your photograph of the two rockers really has a warm, homey feeling to it.  It is a perfect picture to accompany your blog post.

Jul 20, 2010 06:02 AM
Martha Brown
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc., Annapolis MD 21403 - Annapolis, MD
Your Homes Around Annapolis Agent

beautifully said. Home is more than just a monthly payment. Its a memory bank to build on for years to come.

Jul 20, 2010 06:07 AM
Gregory Bain
Mezzina Real Estate & Insurance - Little Egg Harbor, NJ
For Homes on the Jersey Shore

Yes, even in this market (especially in this market) one needs to remember to place the cost of ENJOYMENT in the equation before they look at the bottom line.

Nice post.

Jul 20, 2010 06:24 AM
Speed Equity® Mortgage Acceleration System
Speed Equity® - Olympia, WA
We help your clients Own Their Homes Years Sooner

Nice post Richard. I think it's something that we need to remind clients about all the time - this your HOME - not simply a house!

Jul 20, 2010 06:59 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

Richard, I love this.  This is the very reason it's so hard for people to part with their homes...they place more value on it because so much of their lives are tied into the house.  Also, great photo selection.  I envisioned a couple growing old in those chairs. 

Jul 20, 2010 10:24 AM
Cheryl Ritchie
RE/MAX Leading Edge www.GoldenResults.com - Huntingtown, MD
Southern Maryland 301-980-7566

Richard, this is one of my favorites of yours. It's a reblog in Southern Maryland now!

Jul 20, 2010 01:10 PM
John Walters
Frank Rubi Real Estate - Slidell, LA
Licensed in Louisiana

You keep out doing yourself Richard.  Well said and well written, thanks.

Jul 20, 2010 01:42 PM
Patricia Aulson
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES Verani Realty NH Real Estate - Exeter, NH
Realtor - Portsmouth NH Homes-Hampton NH Homes

Thanks for the good post today. I enjoyed it. 

Patricia

Jul 20, 2010 02:11 PM
Dr. Stacey-Ann Baugh
Century 21 New Millennium - Upper Marlboro, MD
A doctor who makes house calls.

This is such an awesome point.  Home is so much about belonging - and it's different from just somewhere to live.

Jul 20, 2010 03:32 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Case in point: a friend's daughter is having to move after just moving into a lovely upscale home last year because the owners want to move back. So now she has had to uproot her kids again and the hung for a rental in the same neighborhood wasn't easy. New house is too small but will have to work. There is a security (if you make the payments) that just isn't there in a rental. A feeling of permanence (even though we move every 5 to 7 years). It's way more than the investment.

Jul 20, 2010 04:29 PM
Tammie Jungling, NMLSR ID 455110
Clearwater, FL

I love it! I love it!  And, I'm reposting it.

Jul 20, 2010 04:31 PM
Ally Wangsness - Seattle Real Estate Broker
RE/MAX Metro Realty, Inc. - Seattle, WA

Great post, Richard. I am re-blogging it.

Jul 20, 2010 04:35 PM
Diane Williams
Pell City, AL

This is the most beautifully written post of the value of home ownership. You can't put a dollar value on a home where you hang your heart. The picture is beautiful. 

Jul 20, 2010 05:39 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

I know I'll always remember bringing my boys home from the hospital. 

Also - a lovely photo.

Jul 20, 2010 05:50 PM
Lori Mode
The Mode Real Estate Group - Elk Grove, CA
Real Estate Made Simple

Richard - beautifully written post and so, so true.  HOME is where the heart is and where we make so many memories. 

Jul 20, 2010 06:01 PM
Dan Edward Phillips
Dan Edward Phillips - Eureka, CA
Realtor and Broker/Owner

Very good post Richard!  You make an excellent point!

Jul 20, 2010 06:11 PM
Lori Churchill Cofer
Beasley Realty - Pullman, WA
Realtor - 509-330-0086 - Pullman, WA

Richard,

I had missed this fantastic post but saw a reblog!  So true.....our gardens do age more gracefully...LOL

Jul 21, 2010 06:23 AM
The Scott Loper Team Bux-Mont Premier Properties
Keller Williams Real Estate - Montgomeryville - Lansdale, PA

Hi Richard,

Couldn't agree more.  We try to impress this upon our clients but it does fall on deaf ears sometimes.  We generally find clients who don't really consider this have "messy" personal lives.

~Lisa

Jul 21, 2010 02:56 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Richard - so many people started playing investors, and it is a weird phenomenon. they lost the "innocense" of owning a home as just a home, and not investment, but they did not reach the status of an investor.

I had a client, who was a high worth gentleman, lived in fancy homes and condos, and was selling them every 2 years and moving to yet another one.

There was a strategy behind it, the tactics, but what he was missing on was the sense of a home, something where you have your heart and which is not for sale.

He became a high worth homeless

Oct 30, 2011 01:59 PM