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Building Your Credibility At The Expense Of Others...Be Careful!

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Real Estate Agent with Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 BRE# 01494165

I just read a post by a mortgage broker that really upset me. Can You Trust Your Real Estate Agent?

In this post, the author made assertions about the motives behind a Realtor's® actions that were less than flattering. In essence the point was that Realtors® work on commission and so we often "push" the buyers into higher offers if we represent the buyers, and "push" the sellers to accept a lower offer if we represent the sellers.

Wrong, wrong, wrong....on so many levels. But this post is not about refuting the negative comments about real estate agents, what I found interesting is that this seemed like an effort to elevate himself by diminishing us. Very dangerous tactic.

I wonder how common this practice is, though. I wonder if consumers feel a bond with someone who tries to play on their fears...and validates them. Let's be honest....buyers are afraid they are overpaying, and sellers are afraid they have taken too low an offer. They rely on the trust they have in their agents to help them make the right decisions. The sweeping generalization of this post was not only wrong, but demoralizing to the public for no reason.

And I do not believe that trying to tarnish another's image (or an entire profession) is the way to increase your own credibility.

From a marketing perspective....it was a colossal blunder. I'm pretty sure that mortgage brokers get paid when the loan funds also....so he looks rather silly criticizing us for working on commission. But also....what Realtor® in his/her right mind would recommend him to a client...knowing he's willing to throw us under the bus as "the problem." But more important is the concept that the way to build up your own reputation is to tear down others'.

Not in my opinion!

Comments(34)

Jon Budish
Resident Realty - Fort Collins, CO

It's always better to promote yourself, than to tear down your competition.

Jul 20, 2010 09:52 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

I come from a family that practices this...it is no way to win friends or business.  Most people want to just stay clear on people like this...me included.

Jul 20, 2010 11:32 AM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

Yes Doug...I too always push for the extra $200 of commission at the expense of future business....hey another sucker comes along every day :) LOL

I'm not surprised it came down, but rather cowardly all the way around.

Jul 20, 2010 12:06 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Yes I too went to check this dude out and it wasn't to be so.  We had a title company rep doing something like this awhile back when I was still with a big company.  Whoa - the broker at the time got wind of what they this gal was saying about us and highly suggested we not do business with them - and they were across the hall.  And they're one of the biggest companies here.  I wonder how soon that gal was working somewhere else......

Jul 20, 2010 12:28 PM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

I'm having a tough week....as soon as I reference another post....poof, it disappears. Hmmm....

Jul 20, 2010 12:40 PM
Patsy Overton
Patsy Overton Interiors, Atlanta, Georgia - Duluth, GA

Karen, I really think you hit the nail on the head with this one.  It's never a good move to "elevate ourselves at someone else's expense."  That always ends up as a lose-lose.  Keep cranking out the great posts!

Jul 20, 2010 01:31 PM
Jane Peters
Home Jane Realty - Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles real estate concierge services

Darn, the posts is gone.  I was is attack mode too.

Jul 20, 2010 01:46 PM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

It was bad.....I was really frosted.

Jul 20, 2010 01:52 PM
Lina Robertson
AMAX Real Estate - Springfield, MO
REALTOR® Serving Springfield, Nixa and Ozark, MO

Karen - pat yourself on the back.  You called him on the carpet for it, and put him back in his place.  Hopefully, he pulled the post because he had time to think about it and realized he was wrong.  You go girl!

Jul 20, 2010 02:15 PM
Lina Robertson
AMAX Real Estate - Springfield, MO
REALTOR® Serving Springfield, Nixa and Ozark, MO

BTW....that reminds me of the first time I ever saw one of your comments.  You "ooh la la'd" a fellow AR member, and he pulled his post.  LOL  I still crack up over that one!

Jul 20, 2010 02:16 PM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

Second time this week....have my claws out, I guess. Or it's a form of BLOGPMS :)

Jul 20, 2010 02:17 PM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

My gentleness was showing, clearly.....oh, wait....I'm not all that gentle. Uh oh!

Jul 20, 2010 02:19 PM
Ken Barker Realtor® GRI, E-Pro Certified
Dilbeck Real Estate - Burbank, CA

Yo, Tella me who he is. I will go breaka his fingers.

How dare he.

Jul 20, 2010 02:38 PM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

Uh oh...."violence is never justified"

Jul 20, 2010 02:44 PM
Michelle Gibson
Hansen Real Estate Group Inc. - Wellington, FL
REALTOR

Karen - Unfortunately the mortgage broker removed the post, I would have loved to read it and respond.

Jul 21, 2010 02:56 AM
Brian Morgenweck
Power Realty Group, LLC Bergen County, NJ - Hackensack, NJ
Broker/Owner, GRI, CRS, ABR, SRS

Damn! I got to the party too late!

Just popped over to catch a few of your posts, Karen. I clicked to see who the jackass gentleman-writer was & possibly leave my calling card ;) & awwww, so sad...He must've taken his ball & ran home. My hope is that the Rain Gods didn't pull it. Transparency is a beautiful thing!

I have to admit though...Even though I missed the appalling post, all this talk of chaps, hides, frosting, & claws definitely peaked my interest!

Giddy-Up!

 

 

Jul 21, 2010 03:46 PM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

Well....may I add a Yippee Ki Yay?

Jul 21, 2010 03:53 PM
Brian Morgenweck
Power Realty Group, LLC Bergen County, NJ - Hackensack, NJ
Broker/Owner, GRI, CRS, ABR, SRS

You certainly may...

And somewhere, off in the distance, Bruce Willis is biting his tongue!

Jul 21, 2010 04:11 PM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

Ooooh Bruce Willis....aaaah. Oops, was I drooling? :)

Jul 21, 2010 04:47 PM
Ginger S
Wilkinson & Associates, Wilmington NC - Wilmington, NC
Wilmington NC Real Estate & Relocation~

Karen, Good for you calling him out. I think your analysis of his motives was right on. Perhaps he was convicted of his wrong attitude causing him to eat delete his words. Now if only our Representatives in government would get your message!

Ginger

Jul 22, 2010 09:30 AM