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Motivational Monday-I know I am not alone

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590

I have read a few blogs lately about market is slow, business is scarce.  Not really something makes me down or anything, as a matter of fact, I am kind of glad to hear our market is not the only one which is slow. 

slow business

Weather is HOT outside, school is fixing to start everywhere, people taking last minute vacation.  Tax free weekend for back to school shopping, their mind is full of other stuffs they have to think about.

Who has the time to think about looking at houses, especially if they are just lookers, not serious buyers.  Who cares if we have a pay check this month, or next month or maybe next next month.  The thought can be scary, can't it?

But that's exactly what we don't need to do, do not have those NEGATIVE thoughts.  If we have more time on hand now, what do/should we do to get some business? 

I didn't have a very good week last week, it was kind of a downer for me.  But I kept telling myself to remove those bad thinkings, I know things always turn around for me, it just does, and I am thankful for that.  Okay, you may wonder what happened last week.  I lost 1 deal, it fell through, buyer backed out last minute, a week before closing.  Another buyer is pre-approved, finally, decided not to buy, not sure what she wants to do herself.  On the bright side, I still have some one working with and a deal going on, but the thought of losing 2 in one week doesn't set very well with my system. ugh.

There are many things out of our control, no matter what we do.  It is just facts of life.  But what we can do is try to do our best to move forward.  I know it is easy to say than done.  I am not a motivational speaker, but my personal experience is enough to make me an "expert" for myself, at least.  I don't like to tell pity stories to make others feel sorry for me, but my experience from my life early on taught me lots of things that I need for this tough time in real estate.  And now I know why things happened the way it is, there is no finish line in any journey, in my opinion, we are the one who make that decision.  To me, the finish line is when I leave the earth.

Back to what we should/can do with some extra time on hand.  I am sending emails out to touch base with leads, past clients(even though I always do), make some calls(which I usually don't do, but I am making myself to do it).  Look hard and work even harder on different things to get opportunities.  My motto is I don't try, I will never know.

Maybe you have a bad month/week, too, but you are not alone.  Don't get discouraged by it.  Our inner thoughts can play tricks with us sometimes, don't let it fool you.  Stay positive and get out to do something, make yourself visible and noticed.  You don't try, you will never know.

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Rita Fong, REALTOR®

RE/MAX Real Estate Today

1813 Highway 77  Marion, Ark. 72364

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Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Liz, oh yes.  I stay focus and keep thinking what else I can do, but I have faith, that keeps me going like the energizer rabbit.

Aug 09, 2010 10:02 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Rita...Keep the head up.  I find I am running like mad for a week and then twiddling my thumbs for 2.  But, last year I was twiddling all the time!

Aug 09, 2010 02:03 PM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Bill, I am not doing bad this year, but I was doing great last year.  I guess last week put me in a low mood, so I have to make myself upbeat again this week.  Thanks for the encouragement!

Aug 09, 2010 02:12 PM
Kay Van Kampen
RE/MAX Broker, RE/MAX - Springfield, MO
Realtor®, Springfield Mo Real Estate

Rita, these dry spells give us time to stop and regroup.  Then blog a lot to get more business, get swamped again, stop blogging because we don't have time, then start all over again!!!!!

Aug 09, 2010 04:13 PM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Kay, it is a cycle, isn't it?  It is a good time to catch up to do the things we are behind.  

Aug 09, 2010 06:33 PM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Rita, Good luck with the other clients you are working with. You are not alone. Most of us have had these experiences at some time.

Aug 09, 2010 11:43 PM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Gita, thank you!  

Aug 10, 2010 02:03 AM
Michael Bergin
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES - Alexandria, VA
Northern Virginia Real Estate

Rita -

I try to say yes and think yes as often as possible.   It's not a guarantee to make things right but "no" IS a guaranteed downer.  Nice to know that we are all in this together.

MB

 

Aug 10, 2010 07:08 AM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

MB, yes, that's the least we need to do is to stay positive and focus.  We have to try at least, and sometimes we get good result unexpectedly.  I am glad you stopped by!

Aug 10, 2010 07:25 AM
Bill Morris
RE/MAX Capital City - Austin, TX
ABR, CRS, CDPE, ePRO, MBA

I saw a sign on the road last week that it right on point:  "Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but learning to dance in the rain." 

Now really is the time to rethink everything about the way we do business, improve systems, change bad habits, and grow and gain market share while our negative-thinking competitors are waiting for a "good" market to come back.

Aug 10, 2010 09:51 AM
Lora "Leah" Stern 914-772-4528
Coldwell Banker, 170 N Main Street, New City NY 10956 - New City, NY
Real Estate Salesperson

Rita, what I like best about you is your positive attitude, eventually it breeds success.  Hope you have good luck with the other deals in the works.

Aug 10, 2010 10:09 AM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Bill, even business may be slower right now, but our mind can't stop.  It is a great time to "run" into people and touch base with them.  I made myself to call some new leads, at least I am trying something new I won't usually do.  It may not give me any result either, but I am doing something different.  And can't stop blogging!!

Lora, you are so nice!  I am steady this year, not great, but I can't say it is terrible either.  I am not going to tell people it is great, but I have business this year, just not as much as last year yet.  But again, 2010 is not over, I will never know.  Thanks for stopping by!

Aug 10, 2010 10:39 AM
Charles Edwards Bentonville
Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796 - Bentonville, AR
AR REALTOR, Bentonville Real Estate Agent and Broker

Rita, You're a great agent! Just stay the course and you will prevail.

Aug 10, 2010 02:12 PM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Charles, I am?  haha, I stayed for the worst in 2008, I think I will stay for a little while longer.  lol

Aug 10, 2010 02:23 PM
Mykel Martin
(909) 476-9600 ~ WeLoveSellingRealEstate.com - Rancho Cucamonga, CA
Realty Masters & Associates

I LOVE your outlook and enthusiasm! You are not alone but MANY of us could learn from your optimism. :-)

Aug 10, 2010 02:51 PM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Mykel, aww, thank you!  Faith is something that gets me going, and of course I have to work very hard to make it happen also.  

Aug 10, 2010 02:54 PM
Lana Robbins Realtor ® Licensed Real Estate Broker
Aloha Kai Real Estate - Clearwater, FL
Licensed in Florida, Washington, and Hawai'i

Hi Rita. Two weeks ago I had a very bad week but I still try to have a positive outlook. It can be challenging at times then when there is a closing it puts a huge smile on my face. I feel like I am riding a rollercoaster sometimes LOL

Aug 10, 2010 02:59 PM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Lana, I know what you mean.  Real estate is a rollercoaster ride and weak stomach can't get on the ride either, so I know you and I are going to enjoy the ride together.  And I know it!  haha

Aug 10, 2010 03:28 PM
Maya Thomas, Broker
Tampa, FL
Please see my client recommendations.

Great motivational post!  I had 2 deals fall through too.  I filed those folders in the back of my mind so that I don't focus on on them.  You're right, these things happen.  Next month you could have 4 closings in a single week!  I loved reading your post.  Your writing is sincere and fresh.

Aug 13, 2010 05:54 AM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Maya, you have done some blog reading marathon, haven't you?  haha, you have read so many of my posts at one time.  And I really appreciate your kind words.  Things will get better, it has ups and downs, and we all go through the same thing.  Keep moving forward, I have to remind myself all the time!

Aug 13, 2010 07:10 AM