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When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better

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I was giving a sermon at the Church of Religious Science many years ago focusing on this topic: When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better... and in that sermon, I shared this story:

In India monkey meat is a delicacy. Hunters found it particularly easy to capture monkeys.
All they had to do was to get a relatively large coconut, one that a monkey would not be able to lift, drill a hole in the coconut ... the hole should just be big enough to fit a monkey's hand in. THEN empty it of its juice, polk in a few pieces of fruit or nuts into the coconut, and then leave the coconut where the monkey can see it and just wait.

What was guaranteed is the monkey would come down and investigate its contents, and when the monkey would reach in, it was certain that the monkey would grab as many pieces of fruit or nuts as it could hold in its hand.  However the hole is not large enough to bring out the bounty...the monkey's hand was able to go in but would not come out with a fistful of food.

It has never failed as monkeys would never think to LET GO of the fistful of food to escape. It would be weighted to the ground, the coconut acting as a ball and chain, and it won't be able to climb the nearest tree to make its escape.

Monkey meat traps You

This is the point of choice to LET GO and LIVE, or HANG ON and DIE.

How many of you have held on to a relationship, a situation, a job that was killing you day by day, but you simply could not let go of the coconut meat long enough to "pull out" oF that situation? As hard as it may be, sometimes you must BACK AWAY from something you have been HANGING ONTO, so that you cannot only feel ALIVE but you can THRIVE in a much better place.

So my sermon was built around this quote:

When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better.

So this week, think about the places that don't work in your life, where you need to (as they say in all of the 12-step programs): Let Go and Let GoD. 

Take a look where you have punished yourself by holding onto a NO WIN situation, a NO WIN position, or a NO WIN relationship.

Let Go and Let GoD see you with an OPENED HAND . . . THEN . . . get ready to receive something GOoD. 


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Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Jane:  Very thought provoking!  I have lugged that darn coconut around for the past 10 years -- almost 11 and the light has finally come-on in my head and in my heart the past few months.  Thank you.

Aug 15, 2010 03:49 AM
Jane Herron Realtor® Coaching Leadership+Sales
Meet Jane Herron your Success Trainer on Retainer (past Productivity Coach + New Agent Trainer for Keller Williams) - Salt Lake City, UT
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Tish, thanks for commenting.  Be sure to read my post about how important it is to

REALIZE with your REAL eyes . . . that is an eye opener.

I realized with my real eyes that I was in a NO WIN relationship for 35 years, and I worked and worked and worked to make that relationship work.  And everyone wanted ME to make it work...part of the reason I hung in there for sooooooooo long.

What an IDIOT I was to listen to THEM when the handwriting was on the wall at age 19 for me.

SLOW learner.

Aug 15, 2010 03:57 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Jane:  I lost my husband almost 11 years ago and while I was confident I was fully prepared and in control (he was ill for 8 years) the rug was pulled out from under me personally, professionally and on a family level.  It has taken me too long to pull it back together.  I too, looked in the wrong place for comfort and direction.  I'll be keeping you in my prayers as you make this journey.

Aug 15, 2010 04:10 AM
Jane Herron Realtor® Coaching Leadership+Sales
Meet Jane Herron your Success Trainer on Retainer (past Productivity Coach + New Agent Trainer for Keller Williams) - Salt Lake City, UT
Chart Your Course Leadership Training for Women!

Tish: you are an AWESOME woman!

WE do have shared the same emotional FRUIT in our coconuts, and that insideous fruitiness has kept us going back for MORE so we stay in the CRAZY loop that has never-ever worked. We know the load has gotten heavier + heavier -- but the workhorse that we are, never took of the blinders to REALIZE with our REAL eyes that we no long have to walk that path again.

So my suggestion to the FRUIT in the Baltimore coconut is to just LET GO and turn this one over to God and YOU take good care of what is immediately in front of you-where you are, and let someone else grab hold of THAT coconut this time.

Let me know how it works out. Blessed Be. Jane

Aug 15, 2010 04:49 AM
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Ana Bella

Thank you very much Jane. You inspire me a lot to move on from my failed relationship. I also admire your strength and patience going through all these. I just broke up with my boyfriend. we were in a 3 years relationship and the break up hurts me to the deepest. I am more confident that no matter how much you love someone no matter how hard you are trying to fight for it, if God says no then it will be no. We have to always believe in His plans as He is the Most Knowing. 

 

Thank you again, Jane.

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